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 Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 11:06 pm
here's the thing, we started out friends, it was cool but...lol jk but reelee, i am SO bi and only like 2 ppl in my school kno about it. im not lookin for the affection/companionship from a girl right now but there are like NO gay/bi guys in my school....but there's one senior hu just graduated and he's kinda bi but he has a gf and he's hot....and i'm not hot...i have his cell # and he kno's im bi and i was thinkin about askin him if i could um... "service" him but i dunno if its a good idea or how i should ask...also, how do i go about finding a bf w/o tellin everybody about me when i have sucky gaydar and i dont kno n e gay ppl?.....go ahead and ask questions or give answers to ma 'lil predicament...thnx
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 11:15 pm
also, how do i get connected w/ gay teens in my area w/o my parents being the wiser?
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2005 1:05 pm
I can only anwser the last one (soory!):
Just say that they are your friends and that your going to the movies, or just hanning out...which isnt that far from the truth id you think about it lol
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2005 3:31 pm
well this is just a try. but to meet people near you, you could always post something here asking if anyone lives *your location* and just give a mini profile of yourself or something.
and personally, i don't think that hole "service" thing is needed. if you really like him. just approach him directly when no one's around.
and hey, i don't feel too confident in my looks sometimes either, but now and then i have my days. and just because he has a gf. even though to some it might seem wrong. just telling him how you feel won't hurt anything. and if, as you put it, he's only "half-bi" just think through it a little before you do anything. you might want to wait a bit until he's pretty sure about his sexual orientation.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 1:06 pm
ok thnx you two.....so i guess i should drop the first question.....heres a new one...does n e body have tips for getting my first gay kiss or bf? you can tell me your experiences and maybe i'll get a better understanding as to how i should go about it...
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2005 3:16 pm
gothgirlie995 well this is just a try. but to meet people near you, you could always post something here asking if anyone lives *your location* and just give a mini profile of yourself or something. and personally, i don't think that hole "service" thing is needed. if you really like him. just approach him directly when no one's around. and hey, i don't feel too confident in my looks sometimes either, but now and then i have my days. and just because he has a gf. even though to some it might seem wrong. just telling him how you feel won't hurt anything. and if, as you put it, he's only "half-bi" just think through it a little before you do anything. you might want to wait a bit until he's pretty sure about his sexual orientation. you have the coolest avatar ever.. oh to the bloke who started the thread - basically be patient, everyone gets weirded out by homosexuality, and there are a lot of wankers out there to make things shitty for you, so be prepared to take some stick i spose, but other than that i just say go for it
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 9:37 pm
I wouldn't do it. Having sex with strange guys who don't want commitment is a bad idea. You don't know where they've been and you could get hurt. There are lots of ways to meet people. If you look up gay straight alliances on the internet and other such groups, that might help.
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2005 9:44 pm
Japanman111 also, how do i get connected w/ gay teens in my area w/o my parents being the wiser? i have the same problome.
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 9:21 am
unfortunately i can't help you with the kissing question....i haven't even ever been kissed myself.... sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 12:03 pm
Japanman111 ok thnx you two.....so i guess i should drop the first question.....heres a new one...does n e body have tips for getting my first gay kiss or bf? you can tell me your experiences and maybe i'll get a better understanding as to how i should go about it... it just takes time i guess. i've had a gaia gf for a little over 2 months. we talk on the phone all the time and i've been trying to get her to visit me. and i hope she doesn't read this but, i'm diing to get a kiss from her! but first kisses are suppose to be really special. so don't just kiss somebody cuz you want your first kiss with a guy. i haven't had one with either sex before so i kno how eager you are. to get a bf, try starting like a GLSN club or w/e there called in your school. thats a great way to meet other gays and bi's. i may not be too helpful. and i think i confused myself with what said but...i hope i helped a little bit..? sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 12:19 pm
I know what it's like, you can't tell a guy that you like him:
1) He'll say no
2) He'll laugh at you
3) He'll tell everyone else (+ 1 or 2)
4) He'll be gay, but he won't like you
5) He'll be gay, like you, but already be taken (sod's law)
6) He'll say "yeah, ok"
We need to get the last answer only, so you need to look at the signs. Get to know a guy really well, if you think they could be gay or bi. NEVER go for the popular guys, as they care too much for their reputation to admit to it anyway. Usually, a gay guy will acidentally give away a sign which shows that they could indeed be gay themselves. This isn't necessarily an accident in all cases (they may like you too!) In an average class, there are normally around 4 LGB people in the class, they just may not make it obvious. The only way you are likely to find out that you like them is by asking. Harsh reality, but there is actually no easy-way-out of this predicament dude.. SORRY!
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 12:23 pm
I wouldn't hit on somebody who's not single, however hot he might be, don't make him have to choose between you and his gf
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 5:51 pm
Japanman111 also, how do i get connected w/ gay teens in my area w/o my parents being the wiser? just keep one ear open and don't jump on everything that walks
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 10:13 pm
shawn776 Japanman111 also, how do i get connected w/ gay teens in my area w/o my parents being the wiser? i have the same problome. just say you're hanging out. girls have it even easier cause they can have sleepovers
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 11:35 pm
Japanman111 ok thnx you two.....so i guess i should drop the first question.....heres a new one...does n e body have tips for getting my first gay kiss or bf? you can tell me your experiences and maybe i'll get a better understanding as to how i should go about it... Well, my first kiss with a guy was kinda easy... We were on dance tour, and the guy all ready knew that I kinda liked him. He said no before, but despite my shyness, I'm persistant. We were sleeping in the same bed because eveyone else knew he was gay and the guys didn't want to sleep in the same bed with him, so I got to sleep in the same bed with him (score!) It started with just sort of grazing his hand, then he was like, "what am I touching? Oh, that's your hand." and finally, we started holding hands, and when the other two guys were asleep, we started making out... That's my story, if it helps, I'll be suprised and glad. Good luck.
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