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 Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 3:50 am
one of my good friends has recently told me that she was bisexual, but now she is questioning her sexually identity. She has got a girlfriend and they have been together for about 6mons now. Here recently, she has been telling her gf that she doesn't know what is going on with her and she doesn't know what her sexual preference is.
She has asked me about this and I told her if she enjoys the company of a female and "other things" about/with a female than she is, but that isn't good enough for her.
How could I explain this to her in a way that she would accept and understand? Please help because I am at a loss.
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 2:09 pm
ask her one question, this helped me even more prove that I'm bi and a friend who found out that shes a lesbian, Would she care if she never went out with another guy? Would she care if she never went out with anohter girl?
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 4:13 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 5:35 pm
maybe she's just at that denial stage. I went through a point where I was beginning to wonder what I was and if I was a freak. But now, who cares? as long as I'm happy, that's all that matters. and at least we're becoming more accepted! biggrin heart don't discriminate because it shows how small you are inside! mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 11:44 pm
hmmm let her date whoever she wants, its not like people can control sexual preference, so why worry about it? If she really is bi/les, she'll accept it sooner or later. I just hate how society treats people like us, that's why so many are in denial, or trying to hide it.
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 10:35 pm
hmm all i can think of is ask her if her heart beats so fast it won't stop when shes with her girlfriend. does her girlfriend make her so happy that nothing eles matters?
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 1:11 am
It is al; about wha you are comfortable with. Ask her. It may not e that she should question her sexual prefrence, but she could just be growing tierd of her lover. It's usually that. And it's a subconcious way of denile. they don't want to think that assion is gone between them and their lover. But if that really is the case, than you have been doing a good job explaining it. Analize her. Best way to go about it
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