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 Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 5:11 pm
I have this really great friend and I like him alot...
Ever since I became a Christian he stopped talking to me and he always said he was a Christian himself....
I dont get it...we used to talk all the time and now we dont even say hi when we pass eachother in the hallways....I feel like he ignores me...
Whats wrong with him??? do you think you know???
Have you ever been treated like this by one of your christian friends????
PLEASE HELP!!!
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Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 1:07 am
How long has this been happening?
Could there be other reasons he's ignoring you? Like he's being busy with a school project or he might have something on his mind.
How much have you tried talking to him? Like talking to him at lunch, youth group, or calling him.
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Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 6:59 pm
Do you have any mutual friends you could ask about it? o__O;
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Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 7:52 am
Well if you have gone through the process of being "saved" like so many of my friends have, then you are probably talking his ear off about "Jesus this...' and, "Jesus that...", that he's probably just the slightest bit annoyed with it. Try not constantly talking about your "saved" experiance and get back to whatever you guys used to do.
He probably is a Christian just not one of those crazy agenda-driven "born-again" Christians which seems to be what you subscribe to (you know the people who think that if you're not saved your going to hell and it's your
G-d given responsibility to save everyone else from eternal flames). Back off and he'll start to respect you.
If this isn't your problem (please disregard the above) then you probably did something else to bother him and ask what it is. Either that or he's just busy because sometimes school can be demanding.
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Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 3:59 pm
thats just it...Ive tried talking 2 him everyday and I did talk about Jesus alot the 1st day,but the next day we just started talkin about how everything was goin and I didnt even talk about Jesus and after that he wouldnt talk 2 me...is it something wrong with me or with him...
(oh and ps I told my other friends @ school and they dont get it either so I wondered if ne of yall would know... sweatdrop )
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 2:57 pm
Oh so very many times. It would throw me of the course of following the Lord. Please my friend don't let this push you away from Christ! It was the mistake I wish I never made in the first place....
~your sister in Christ jenny~
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:50 am
Try confronting him about it, the only way you'll ever find out what's happening is if you ask him. But dn't let it lead you aways from God
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 6:38 pm
if he won't talk to you (and always try talking to him yourself first) then have a friend you can trust, and won't go spreading stuff around talk to him for you. if he won't talk, and there's nothing else you can do to solve this problem, then it's his fault for not keeping an awesome friend around.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 8:19 pm
Just ask him what the problem is, and i agree with Sarcastic. If he doesn't want to talk about it, than its his fault. But don't like not be his friend anymore. Just keep on trying to talk to him, about anything. Maybe it's just a phase or something and it'll pass.
Now i'm not trying to sound uncaring, and i do care. I will be praying for you.
-Josh
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:21 am
Guys can be confusing sometimes. Most of my friends are guys and something I've noticed about them is that occasionaly they just need a break from everything, including friends. My fiance will sometimes stop talking to me for a day or two because he needs time to recuporate from life in general. And it happens randomly. I think the worst thing you could do right now is give up on your friendship or crowd him. Ask him about it, but don't be overly persistant. He may just need a little time.
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Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:45 am
first off there is nothing wrong with either of you
who knows what hes thinking, could be anything and everything
you really don't have much controll over that
but you do have much better controll over what you do
so the question is what can you do
weigh your options
i would say to go down the path just left of the center
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