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 Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 9:49 am
ok for all who are interested Ive got a story to tell....
My boyfriend and i are both over 200 lbs each and so much in love.. but the thing is.. I fell in love with another guy far away... His name will remain anonymous.. but he's is over weight... as well. hmm.. it's a really long story if your really interested.. pm me and I can tell you it.. if not well.. I'm just here to have fun!
leep on keeping on!!! blaugh biggrin
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 10:11 am
Well, I don't think that's very nice for the 1st guy, is it?
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 11:14 am
This doesn't seem to be very much of a discussion...you give us limited details, then say that people have to PM you to find out more.
Do you want advice hon? Or do you just want to state that you are having a relationship problem?
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 11:42 am
I'm not sure.. maybe acvice could be put to use. I'm terrible at this kind of stuff. but here goes. let me ask you.. what would you do?
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 11:43 am
EvilJelly Well, I don't think that's very nice for the 1st guy, is it? I know... take back what i said.. things are looking differently now then they did.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 10:37 pm
Well without knowing the details, I ask you...have you been in a lot of relationships, or is this your first relationship? Secondly, how old are you? I'm going to assume that you're young...I think that young people should be free, not tied down to one specific person, but that may just be me.
Evaluate the situation...do you really love your bf? Have you grown tired of being a couple? Perhaps you should decide whether you truly love your bf or if you just fell hard for him at first but now that time has passed your feelings aren't as strong *it happens*.
Realize that this other guy is far away, that you have someone near you that can spend time with you and seems to love you quite a bit...would you be willing to throw a relationship with a good guy just to take a jab at a possible relationship with someone you've never met? Yes, I know, long distance relationships have worked for others, but if I were you I would be focusing attention towards the bf you have and let the other guy know that although you're fond of him, that you're not about to go behind your bf's back and flirt with him...if you truly love your bf, you'll respect his feelings, because I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it if he started flirting with some other girl.
But if you want to follow your feelings, then you need to confront your bf and let him know that you're not ready for an exclusive relationship, and that you'd like the freedom to date others...but don't be surprised if your bf isn't exactly thrilled with this news, he may stop calling/talking to you because to him it will feel like he's being rejected. I personally don't recommend this second option, but you're going to do what you want to do...just don't go cheating behind your bf's back, he deserves respect and consideration.
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