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 Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:31 pm
I'll try not to be all to whiney about this, but I apologize in advance if I am. I also apologize for the typos in this, because I am currently on a friend's laptop. Which is strange, and completly irrelevant.... xp
The girl I really like, just had her boyfriend, well exboyfriend now, break up with her. She is now slightly depressed, but this means I can start flirting with her again. ...I have no morals... but her mother just told her she would ground her daughter if she ever started going out with a girl. Which is completly strange for two reasons.
1. We almost went out at the end of last year, and her mother didn't even care.
2. The second reason is that it is completly stupid, because it shouldn't even matter to the mother, who her daughter goes out with.
I am completly biased on this topic, and I am aware of that.
~Discuss~
- Homophobic Parents/parents of your girlfriend or boyfriend
- Dating rules appling to certain genders
- Other things similar to that sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 1:56 pm
I just keep my online and offline lives seperate.
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:00 pm
*huggles* my sympathies hun sad
My dad's cool with me being bi, but he doesn't know about my girlfriend yet sweatdrop
I can't tell the rest of my family however... They're not homophobic, they'd just hate it if they're own daughter, grand-daughter, neice, ect. I was gay. stare
As for dating, my dad wouldn't care, and all I have to say with my mom is "Im going out with a girl" and Im all good xd
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:04 pm
I hate people who treat people differenlt cause there different.
I don't know why people hate what they don't understand. I want to hurt them so bad, but hat make me just as bad as them. crying
Yes I am predujice...against preujice people. I really can't stanbd thier ignorant guts. Ok maybe there are a few who actually have a psychological reason, like a white man lynching a black man and killing his family. Yes I can understand predujice form predujice.
I just wish people coiuld stop the hate against their fellow borther. Are we not all created in God's image? sad
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:15 pm
I'm really lucky. My parents are amazingly openminded. To girlfriends. To gays. To bisexuals. To lesbians. I don't think they honestly care, which is good. It is just that...
I don't know. They bug me in general. Homophobes that is. I know they bug alot of people it is just that...
It isn't fair. It isn't fair to be their child. To be in love with them. To be in love with their daughter. To be in love with their son.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 9:13 am
Well all you gotta do is drug her mom and give her amnesia. ... Just kidding... seriously dont do that eek
Alright well her mom does have the right to say she cannot go out with you (i am very sorry) but according to where you live, i think it is the same within all countries, but you both are minors and cant make up your own disicions(-_- wink If you dont want her finding out, then you just dont tell anyone and pretend to be 'friends'. I mean no one in my family knows i am bi yet. It's gonna hit hard because i think thaat they are gonna find out soon. All those phone calls to canada is probably gonna give it away sweatdrop Anyhoo just hang in there, and do whats right in your heart.
Good Luck ^_^
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 3:36 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 6:30 pm
I understand about parents, my Dad doesnt accept me, guess he's tryin to recover from the fact that only one of his daughters will have kids. He doesnt think gays should marry, adopt, and many other things, and is NOT afraid to say this publicly and out loud. My sister always comments on my not liking guys, and tells her friends that her sister isnt interested in guys cus shes a weirdo...my Mom and Grandparents are the only family that know and accept me. Thats my Mom and her Mom. Not my Dad's parents or family....my girlfriends parents are going to meet me this summer when I go to visit her so I dont know their rules. And my online and offline lives are not separate. They are more closely linked than ever. My girlfriends here, those who accept me are here, my friends are here, what reason is there not to be online?
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Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 6:52 pm
Parents tend to think they know what is right for their children, but they tend to forget that they were not exactly like their parents either. All parents seem to have one problem or another with the person their children are dating. I've seen parents tell a child not to date someone just because they did not like that person's hair, but that did not stop them from going out.
The thing to remember is that parents are not the give all ruler of the world. Sure they can ground you and the like, but you can walk away from them later down the road. You should not be thinking of what your friend's parent think of you dating. You should be asking what she thinking of dating you. For she will be the important one in the end.
To tell you my parents pretty much hated everything about me. I could never be the girl they wanted so in the end I chose not to even both trying. They ended up kicking me out and leaving me in a psycho hospital not wanting anything to do with me. The funny thing is now I'm happily married to my sweetie and have done a lot of things that I'm proud of, but my family is not around to see it. They are too busy with my little sister, who is perfect, she had her first child at 15 and now has 3. She is still is not married and is heavily into drugs, but my family would rather coddle her then even think of me. So I’ve created a new family. One that loves me for who I am. Kim's parent now call me one of their daughters. One of her sisters even calls me sister now.
The thing I'm trying to say is no matter how bad things are now, you can always turn things around. Family is only blood and those ties can easily be severed. The people who really love you for who you are, they are the true family.
Well that is enough preaching out of me.
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 1:54 pm
hyper_gal741 If you dont want her finding out, then you just dont tell anyone and pretend to be 'friends'. I mean no one in my family knows i am bi yet. It's gonna hit hard because i think thaat they are gonna find out soon. All those phone calls to canada is probably gonna give it away sweatdrop Anyhoo just hang in there, and do whats right in your heart. Good Luck ^_^ Teehee *innocent* Sowwy hun sweatdrop Parents just seem to be unfomfortable with the idea of us dating anyone... My mom was all "you can go as friends, but no dating! mad " yet when she found out I kissed a guy today, she was all "so?! how was it?! blaugh " ...im like, "wtf?! o.O" Good luck ^.^
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Posted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 3:41 pm
It really should matter to a mother who her daughter goes out with. Its much better than the alternative.
However, it is sad when parents aren't supportive of their children and the choices they make.
I have pretty much the coolest mom ever:
"You can date a person of any race, religion, or gender that you like. But if you bring home a Republican, I'll disown you."
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Posted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 7:31 pm
Alison-Wonderland I have pretty much the coolest mom ever: "You can date a person of any race, religion, or gender that you like. But if you bring home a Republican, I'll disown you."Wow. I think i love your mother. Lucky stare lol
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Posted: Tue Dec 26, 2006 8:09 pm
My_Rogue_Angel Alison-Wonderland I have pretty much the coolest mom ever: "You can date a person of any race, religion, or gender that you like. But if you bring home a Republican, I'll disown you."Wow. I think i love your mother. Lucky stare lol I do too ^-^ I know, I really lucked out in the mother department.
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Posted: Thu Dec 28, 2006 11:45 pm
Alison-Wonderland I have pretty much the coolest mom ever: "You can date a person of any race, religion, or gender that you like. But if you bring home a Republican, I'll disown you."
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 7:36 pm
my girl told her friends we aren't together and the gay ppl make her sick but then plays like everything should be grand between us....sorry ur thing i know the closet sucks but people won't come out till they are ready and people won't be ready till the decide they want this too still going on ugh sorry
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