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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 8:39 pm

Ok..I'm bi(im a girl, my advitar doesnt lie) and I have a boyfriend and we've been together for a little under 2 months but we are really into each other and we're like always together and all that stuff so w.e. Ok, he knows that I'm bi but the only thing is that I had just been curious for a while and I still am not completely completely sure what I am and I kinda just want to like experiment wiht a girl and I have 2 girls whom I know would not really mind experimenting wiht me, because one is bi and one just wants to rape me AND my boyfriend...so I know they would do stuff with me. They are both like...extremely close to my boyfriend and one of them happens to be my best friend(the rape one). Well, I know my boyfriend wouldnt mind letting me experiment because he knows that its really important to me and it bothers me so much like having these feelings for girls and not knowing what to do wiht them.(he really wouldnt mind me experimenting wiht him infront of us...he's completely straight but he finds girl on girl extremely hot and I totally can relate to him, sorry getting off topic). Well I really want to just experiment because I've only made out wiht one girl and she didnt even remember we made out the next day and I had no sexual feelings for her what so ever...she was just there and we were extremely horny. I just want to really try things out with a girl, but I feel like I would be cheating on my boyfriend, if he is watching or not. I dont know what to do...Please tell me waht you would do and any advice about being bi and dealing wiht losing friends and everything. Any Advice Will Help...as long as you dont flame me.

Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 8:44 pm

OK i guess ill just wait for someone to awnser...du du du du do.....

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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 9:27 pm

so umm..well no one wants to help me... crying Ill get over it...its ok

Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 9:38 pm

i would say, as long as it's okay with you, your boyfriend and the girl (or girls) you experiment, go for it.
i've never even been kiised so i don't know much about that half. sweatdrop

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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 9:47 pm

YEah true...i guess your right. if its ok wiht everyone...then why the hell not. thanks.

Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 9:47 pm

Wait until you're more comfortable and are absolutly sure it's worth it. It would be bad if you just jumped right in and felt guilty afterwards.

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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 9:48 pm

yeah that is a good point, I really dont want to like..make some sort of mistake or something that could ruin my relationship wiht my boyfriend or the girl

Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 7:36 pm

Anyone else???Help>?

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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 8:15 pm

I'd have to agree with Brandon Taylor. Don't rush in to things, or might end up regretting it later. Think about it for a while, and then, if you're absolutely sure, then you can go for it. But really, don't so anything until your positive, and make sure that you'll be able to deal with the consequences, whatever they may be.

Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 9:07 am

they all sound like cool people that like and respect you and your courisoty. I'd go for it with them, but only with your boyfriend there too watching. I would do it that was so he couldn't say that you were doing anything behind his back later. I think this is what you should do for as it seems that you and your boyfriend have a pretty stong relationship and he understands that you just want to experiment with them, but that you want to BE with him. and it's not like you want to leave him for them. I think it would be a lot of fun for you, them, and him.

And I have kinda had past experiences like that, but none of the people I go out with have been that understanding when chances for me have come up. crying

pm me if you want to know about my experiences. wink

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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 10:39 am

Lavyne

I'd have to agree with Brandon Taylor. Don't rush in to things, or might end up regretting it later. Think about it for a while, and then, if you're absolutely sure, then you can go for it. But really, don't so anything until your positive, and make sure that you'll be able to deal with the consequences, whatever they may be.

that is very true.....what i said would count if you're comfortable with it...and your sure you want to do it.

me and my friends mess around alot and don't think much of it...but you have a relationship that could be completely ruined.

Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 7:43 pm

Hotaru230

they all sound like cool people that like and respect you and your courisoty. I'd go for it with them, but only with your boyfriend there too watching. I would do it that was so he couldn't say that you were doing anything behind his back later. I think this is what you should do for as it seems that you and your boyfriend have a pretty stong relationship and he understands that you just want to experiment with them, but that you want to BE with him. and it's not like you want to leave him for them. I think it would be a lot of fun for you, them, and him.

And I have kinda had past experiences like that, but none of the people I go out with have been that understanding when chances for me have come up. crying

pm me if you want to know about my experiences. wink

Lol..that made me feel much better..thanks. Yeah I've been talking to him...(I'd like to discuss this wiht him again before anything happens at all) but yeah I just want to make sure nothing bad happens wiht us....

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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 11:58 pm

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Hotaru230

they all sound like cool people that like and respect you and your courisoty. I'd go for it with them, but only with your boyfriend there too watching. I would do it that was so he couldn't say that you were doing anything behind his back later. I think this is what you should do for as it seems that you and your boyfriend have a pretty stong relationship and he understands that you just want to experiment with them, but that you want to BE with him. and it's not like you want to leave him for them. I think it would be a lot of fun for you, them, and him.

And I have kinda had past experiences like that, but none of the people I go out with have been that understanding when chances for me have come up. crying

pm me if you want to know about my experiences. wink

Lol..that made me feel much better..thanks. Yeah I've been talking to him...(I'd like to discuss this wiht him again before anything happens at all) but yeah I just want to make sure nothing bad happens wiht us....

i got your pm, but it wouldn't let me send you one because it sayes your pm thingie is disabled

sure it's ok.

well first off as i told you the person I was with doesn't sound as understanding as your current boyfriend.

**the boyfriend I am talking about below is not who I am currently with**

I've had a crush on one of my close girlfriends for like ever, but she told me that she didn't like me in that way. then one day she told me she was curious what it would be like to kiss a female. so i took her up on the offer. but when it actually happened it went much farther than kissing wink but we kinda kept all this from my boyfriend and her husband. I ended up telling my boyfriend later and he got really pissed. well I also lyed to him in the past and told him nothing happened but kissing a little after it all happened, so that he wouldn't freak out about it.

on another note. I've also had an experience with a married couple. *not the same person from the above story* it didn't go so well the first time, but the second time went pretty well at least for me wink this married couple is some really cool people kinda like your friends I guess. And we are just very open about stuff and flirt a lot. Plus I love just hanging out and having fun with them. My boyfriend got pissed at me for all that too.

so my experiences we're the best of situations for me, but I like to experiment with this sort of stuff. and am very open person about it. i believe if you don't take a chance when it is put out there that you might miss out on something.

let me know what happens. wink

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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 11:46 am

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