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 Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 1:12 pm
So I've known this girl since third grade.
Until this recent year [I'm now in 9th grade] I found out that she was also bisexual like myself and I sort of developed a crush.
Well, we hung out a few times within about a month and I finally go the courage to ask her out.
OMG.
SHE.
SAID.
YES.
I've never asked someone out and they actually said yes, so it was a big deal to me...
Well, we were staying at a friends house, so we slept in the same bed and well...
we kissed.
And I felt something I've never felt before.
And we'd been dating about a month and two weeks.
By this time we had both fallen in love with each other.
And then she broke up with me.
I was heart-broken for days.
I barely talked anyone, sulking in the corner.
But, now she hugs me everyday and she acts like we're still going out!
We talked on the phone the other day for over an hour!
D; And she told me that she'd always love me.
I really don't know what to do...
Any suggestions?
 Shanks
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 1:15 pm
Why did you guys break up in the first place? Seems like a relationship you both want again. Why not ask her out again?
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 1:56 pm
omg....i had an expirience like that....i gave her another chance but then again...she was just using me 4 money the second time cry ....
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 12:53 pm
I'm having the same problems and I understand what your going through. Girls can be like that sometimes you just have to know who you want and sometimes that can be hard. If you want to talk about it I'm here for you just pm me or something and I'll be sure to answer back.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:49 am
I guess I'm going against what everyone else is saying, but I don't think you should get back together with her. I've been in a situation like that, and it's not worth it. If you guys broke up and she's acting like you haven't, then you guys need to talk about it.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:54 am
I have to feels while reading this, Sadness for the break up and humor for the fact you are acting how guys normaly act when they lose someone they actuely love.
Me take: She was probably useing you, i see no valid reason for you two to break up unless your not telling us something. But then again some girls(and guys) will break up with there partner for no reason. All in All s**t happens deal with it.
Also dont get back together with her, i dont mean to sound heartness but second chances RARELY work out, So far i have had no luck in the Second chance department. 3nodding If you want to talk more simple message me i wouldnt mind answering questions on love and relationships, I have a nag for these sort of things.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:30 pm
Sounds like she forgot she broke up with you, well as long as she doesn't do it again I'm happy for you. heart
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 8:10 am
Sounds like you haven't had too much experience with relationships.
Just because a person loves you doesnt mean they have to go out with you...Everybody loves in a different way.
-They love you and they want ot be with you always
-They love you and would like to be friends with you always
-They absolutely adore you and would like to protect you.
Some people dislike going out. It can cause alot of unwanted stress in a relationship. Don't be heartbroken about it. Its just another part of life that you will eventually get over.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 12:58 pm
This reminds me of a girl i dated,she broke up with me and act like nothing ever happened between us :/
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 4:19 pm
it really depends on her intentions. I think you have to clarify what exactly her deal is. If she just wanted to be friends I probably wouldnt let her be so familiar but I am horribly spiteful, so you probably shouldnt do that. I dont know what you should do, whatever the situation turns out to be but you should most definitely
Clarify the situation befor anything else.
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Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 6:11 pm
That happened to me. It sucked, i was heart broken like you crying
but she was just started dating liek me so it was ok, were still friends.
But most bi girls in my opoinon since they're bi they know how it feels to get heartbroken like me i know how it feels
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Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 6:41 pm
Choklit Teddi Sounds like you haven't had too much experience with relationships. Just because a person loves you doesnt mean they have to go out with you...Everybody loves in a different way. -They love you and they want ot be with you always -They love you and would like to be friends with you always -They absolutely adore you and would like to protect you. Some people dislike going out. It can cause alot of unwanted stress in a relationship. Don't be heartbroken about it. Its just another part of life that you will eventually get over. my bf is like they love you and want to be with you, my friend unhappy Surprises is they love you and want to be friends always and my older brother is the last option its alwaqys good to have peopel like that
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 2:27 pm
this is increadibly old, but i'm gonna post since its back to life.
you know, speaking from someone who did break up with someone after a couple months, and someone who continued to be that person's friend, and as someone who considers this person an awesome friend just like before, have you considered that maybe she's just trying to continue being your friend? i mean, i know it hurts when a relationship ends, but you don't have to lose them as a friend just because it didn't work out.
well, with my friends, it's no big deal to hug or hold hands and stuff, so i dunno if just because she hugged you she was acting like you never broke up. likei said, she's prolly just still being your friend.
i was worried when i broke up that we wouldn't still be friends, but my gf understood me, so she was ok with being friends. i was more awkward about it at first than she was, in fact. so it's no big deal if she still wants to be your friend. and if someday she does want a second chance, you should consider giving her one. i know my gf would give me a second chance, and i'm sure it would work out if we tried. so anyone in this situation, that's my advice.
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