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 Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 4:33 pm
I always thought I was bi, but recently, I'm not sure anymore.
And everyone else is convinced I'm gay.
How can they tell but not me?
I'm so confused.
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 5:15 pm
People like to assume. Ah, have you ever done the dirty with a guy?
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 7:33 pm
I say experiment more. Go on a date with a guy and then go on a date with a girl or something. It'll all come to you in time. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 8:56 pm
Just ignore everyone for a while when the comment about it. Like AkureiKnight said, just do some more experminting and it will be clearer sooner or later. Its not like you have to know NOW or everything will be lost. Things like this take time. But its worth the while, becasue in the end not only will you know yourself a bit better, you'll also know what you really are and can be happy with whatever it is. biggrin
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 9:57 am
Well... I have a girlfriend, see... so I can't really experiment right now.
And no, I'm a virgin to both genders. redface
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 11:01 am
ahhh I know what you're talking about! I have that as well. I have a girlfriend so with how my feelings are, I dont know whether or not to say Im bi or lesbian.
I guess deep down Im really bi, but I love my g/f so I feel more lesbian.. I guess that's how you could explain it. (shrugs) I dunno.
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 3:20 pm
Well, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one.
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 3:25 pm
You people have worse problems then me but I don't know if I am straight or bi...
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 3:37 pm
Some_Guy15 You people have worse problems then me but I don't know if I am straight or bi... Its ok I don't know what I am either. My friends say I act 'Bi' and they swere that I am, but I don't know. I just don't think that I could ever 'physcily' be attracted by a women.
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Posted: Sat May 28, 2005 4:57 pm
Do you need to be attracted physicaly to be bi? I think that you only need to be attracted to the person not what they look like...Anyways answer my first question please I'm curiouse.
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Posted: Sun May 29, 2005 12:12 am
Some_Guy15 Do you need to be attracted physicaly to be bi? I think that you only need to be attracted to the person not what they look like...Anyways answer my first question please I'm curiouse. By that definition, I would be considered bisexual. I may, in the rare instance, find a woman physically attracted and possibly feel like doing something with her, but I am straight and I do not act on it. Are you saying that you draw the line at attraction by personality versus physical attraction?
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Posted: Sun May 29, 2005 7:17 pm
Alariis Some_Guy15 Do you need to be attracted physicaly to be bi? I think that you only need to be attracted to the person not what they look like...Anyways answer my first question please I'm curiouse. By that definition, I would be considered bisexual. I may, in the rare instance, find a woman physically attracted and possibly feel like doing something with her, but I am straight and I do not act on it. Are you saying that you draw the line at attraction by personality versus physical attraction? Well I think that the reason I would be bi is that I want a widder range of personalities, I mean if I found a guy who was bi/gay and he was nice and good personality I would go out with him, I mean I really could careless what a person looks like when I go out with them.
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Posted: Tue May 31, 2005 8:03 am
I think you should rely on your instincts
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 10:38 pm
Some_Guy15 Do you need to be attracted physicaly to be bi? I think that you only need to be attracted to the person not what they look like...Anyways answer my first question please I'm curiouse. Good point, physical attraction is only skin deep..the question is do you have genuine feelings for the same gender? The only way to truely find out is to experiment..."see what works" you could say....
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 12:45 pm
Fadia Stalyr Good point, physical attraction is only skin deep..the question is do you have genuine feelings for the same gender? The only way to truely find out is to experiment..."see what works" you could say.... Physical attraction is important in relationships containing sex (as opposed to platonic friendships; keeping terminology straight here), but for many people, physical attraction is based in part on attraction to intelligence and the like. I'm not about to find someone physically attractive if their attitude is repugnant.
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