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Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 11:47 am
its wrong right? ive heard so many different things its confuseing
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Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 2:33 pm
Masturbation itself is not a sin.
However, the lust that pretty much always goes alongside of the act of masterbation is a sin.
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Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 2:38 pm
I believe it's a sin. I've never masturbated once, just to be on the safe side. Although scripture doesn't say anything specifically about it, I believe it was meant to be lumped in with adultry and such because technically you are having sex with yourself.
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Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2006 8:03 pm
Masturbation is definatly not a sin, but as it has already been stated, it is a sin harvestor. Most things that go along with masturbation are sins.
I honestly have not spoken a word to a single soul about this, but I know that I will not be judged from what I have seen... I, as you may have figured out by now, have committed adultery with myself so-to-speak. I guess that it was from an unsure past. This is something that is just as disturbing to me as it is to many others. I used to be unsure of what I wanted to do... My mind had been poisoned by worldly things and at one point, I as willing to lose my virginity to any girl that was willing and that I was dating at the time (I'm not going to be man whore, sheesh! rolleyes xd )
I am definatly not proud of these things, but just before I was committed to doing that, something had prevented me and I believe it was God that was telling me that I was taking the wrong path.
I didn't know it then, but I definatly know it now. The world had taken a hold of me and to this day, is not going to let me go... I committed myself to stopping this madness right away when I let God take the wheel for once.
It was only 2 days ago on Sunday that I was truly broken. He had mended me that morning and shaped me the way that he wanted. I was never a true Christian, even though I acted as if I was one around people, I never truly was when I was alone.
Once I can, I am going to burn any and all pornographic videos that I still have in my possession and have my parents block anything on this computer that isn't right.
I just need to truly break away though... I know that someday, when I am down and alone, I will ignore God's whispers and go back to my worldly needs... When something like this happens, it is just as hard to quit as it is to quit smoking or drinking. I suffer from this almost every day now. I catch myself wandering in my thoughts and on occassion catch myself thinking about things that I shouldn't and have to shake my head vigorously (Literally) to get those thoughts out of my head. This has truly poisoned my mind and I am going to have to do anything that I can to recover...
I cannot truly say that I am finished, but I can truly say that I despiratly want and need to finish... I will come here every time that I need a reason to avoid this...
Just reading these posts makes me feel as if I can go out and be a better person. I am truly glad that I joined this guild. cry heart
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Posted: Wed Sep 06, 2006 7:51 am
what a nice testimonie, that helped me in a small way today... .not sure how though
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Posted: Wed Sep 06, 2006 1:42 pm
georgiagirl828 its wrong right? ive heard so many different things its confuseing There's no precedent that would suggest that masturbation is sin or is unclean outside of misinterpretations of the sin of Onan, Papal decrees and a ceremonial law that would have everyone soak in water "until the evening" every time they come in contact with a seminal emission. All of which only condemns male masturbation. Also I think bringing up the sin of lusting through one's eyes undercuts Christ's message that all men are guilty through their very nature.
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Posted: Wed Sep 06, 2006 2:58 pm
I think it's safe to say that, based on my experience with the subject, masturbation is an act that (while not sinful in and of itself) requires some sort of stimuli. Most likely this stimulation is will be born of lust, which is undoubtedly a sin.
While masturbation itself is not a sinful act, it is a very dangerous practice that is known to lead to lust with a success factor of 99%, I would say.
So... I think it would be safer, in the long run and the short, to abstain from it as much as you can and to draw strength from the Lord in order to control it, if you've been exposed.
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Posted: Wed Sep 06, 2006 6:34 pm
Babbalui Masturbation is definatly not a sin, but as it has already been stated, it is a sin harvestor. Most things that go along with masturbation are sins. I honestly have not spoken a word to a single soul about this, but I know that I will not be judged from what I have seen... I, as you may have figured out by now, have committed adultery with myself so-to-speak. I guess that it was from an unsure past. This is something that is just as disturbing to me as it is to many others. I used to be unsure of what I wanted to do... My mind had been poisoned by worldly things and at one point, I as willing to lose my virginity to any girl that was willing and that I was dating at the time (I'm not going to be man whore, sheesh! rolleyes xd ) I am definatly not proud of these things, but just before I was committed to doing that, something had prevented me and I believe it was God that was telling me that I was taking the wrong path. I didn't know it then, but I definatly know it now. The world had taken a hold of me and to this day, is not going to let me go... I committed myself to stopping this madness right away when I let God take the wheel for once. It was only 2 days ago on Sunday that I was truly broken. He had mended me that morning and shaped me the way that he wanted. I was never a true Christian, even though I acted as if I was one around people, I never truly was when I was alone. Once I can, I am going to burn any and all pornographic videos that I still have in my possession and have my parents block anything on this computer that isn't right. I just need to truly break away though... I know that someday, when I am down and alone, I will ignore God's whispers and go back to my worldly needs... When something like this happens, it is just as hard to quit as it is to quit smoking or drinking. I suffer from this almost every day now. I catch myself wandering in my thoughts and on occassion catch myself thinking about things that I shouldn't and have to shake my head vigorously (Literally) to get those thoughts out of my head. This has truly poisoned my mind and I am going to have to do anything that I can to recover... I cannot truly say that I am finished, but I can truly say that I despiratly want and need to finish... I will come here every time that I need a reason to avoid this... Just reading these posts makes me feel as if I can go out and be a better person. I am truly glad that I joined this guild. cry heart *read entire post* That was very encouraging. Thank you for posting that. I don't have sexual temptations as i would assume most 16 year old girls do *still a virgin and as innocent as the day i was born :p*...but i would have temptation in a different area. Suicidal thoughts...morbid thoughts...REALLY dark thoughts. Bad. Usually they were all about myself...*not homicidal* but sometimes when i did...they were usually about my dad or people t hat have hurt people that i love very dearly. -_- I have a odd fond for reading about sadistic cerial killers. I've never wanted to hurt anyone though...i would rather hurt myself then ever hut anyone. But to the post's topic >_<, i think masturbation is a sin.
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Posted: Wed Sep 06, 2006 7:20 pm
Siren of Saturn I have a odd fond for reading about sadistic cerial killers. I do too, actually. But it's not as uncommon as you might think. My friends and I sit around and have long conversations about serial killsers that we've read up on. ...or maybe I just have v. odd friends?
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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:55 am
SinfulGuillotine Siren of Saturn I have a odd fond for reading about sadistic cerial killers. I do too, actually. But it's not as uncommon as you might think. My friends and I sit around and have long conversations about serial killsers that we've read up on. ...or maybe I just have v. odd friends? You may want to take that into further speculation. @Every one else: I am so happy that I could help any of you just by sharing my own problems! whee The Lord, our God, gave me the strength that day to say that. I would never have said that if the first part of this week wasn't so uplifting and inspiring for me, you know, being saved for the first time and all. biggrin heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 11:03 pm
I forget where I heard this but it was a topic in this guild, masturbation itself is not a sin, it's the lust behind it that makes it a sin. Make sence? 3nodding 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:38 pm
Cometh The Inquisitor Masturbation itself is not a sin. However, the lust that pretty much always goes alongside of the act of masterbation is a sin. That is indeed true.
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:08 pm
So, we agree. It is not the act itself that makes it a sin, but the lustful intentions behind it that makes it a sin. A really bad one too. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 3:45 am
I believe it's a sinfull act witch leads to lust an more sin, Paul speaks in corinthains of puting away of all naughtness witch is the subject at hand. I say realy on the Holuy spirit to have its way when you feel the erage to do a sinful act and listen to it's voice carefully.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 11:49 am
Matthew 5:27-28 "27"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.'[a] 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
again, the oft repeated oppinion that it in itself is not, but the lust is. I know form experience that it makes women feel degraded if they find out a guy's been doing it, and I would imagine it'd be the same for guys.
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