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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 11:53 am
My girlfriend and i are somewhat sexually active, having sex, like maye once or twice every three months or so.
now here's my question. the day after she came off her period, we had sex. i didn't use a condom (that was stupid on my part), but i didn't have an orgasm. matter of fact, it was onlt for about ten seconds, and i wasn't close to anything, so i don't know if even pre c** could've come out. i don't know much on that one.
and on day 9 of her cycle we had sex again. this time, i did have a condom, i had an orgasm, and checked the condom for holes. there were none.
I'm just curious to know. i know there's always a chance of her getting pregnant, but i was wondering if the chances were great or small
PS: she's somewhat regular, having her period every 21-23 days.
EDIT: I asked Nikolita about this, and she gave me what she thought, but I'd like to hear more than one opinion. thanks
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 12:30 pm
There is preactically no chance of her being pregnant. From what I know, there is no actual sperm in pre-c**. So no worries. But just in case... look for symptoms in the next month or two.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 10:24 pm
Tsuzuki-san There is preactically no chance of her being pregnant. From what I know, there is no actual sperm in pre-c**. So no worries. But just in case... look for symptoms in the next month or two. Eh I'd be careful with how you word that. There is plenty enough sperm to cause pregnancy, although obviously not as much as ejaculate. Now, the chances are low, but certainly not zero or "no chance" there's always a chance. If you research on precum and sperm, you'll find that most of the information saying there is "no sperm in precum" says theory and not proven 100%. This is why withdrawl is not considered a reliable birth control method. I think the chances are very low given the information and statistics, but on the other hand, it can be a very fertile time for some women. I wouldn't overly stress, but when in doubt, test.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 10:24 pm
Tsuzuki-san There is preactically no chance of her being pregnant. From what I know, there is no actual sperm in pre-c**. So no worries. But just in case... look for symptoms in the next month or two. That's incorrect. There is sperm in pre-c**, and there are people (in this guild and in the GPG) who've gotten pregnant from it. If she thinks she's pregnant, she needs to wait until one week after her period was due and then take a pregnancy test. If it's negative, watch for symptoms just in case. If it's positive, she needs to take another test and/or go see a doctor asap. Orgasming has nothing to do with ejaculation. Guys can ejaculate and not orgasm, and they can orgasm without ejaculating. The chances are slim if it was right after her period, but still.
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 5:41 pm
well, on day 1, you said the chances were low, and on day 9, i used a condom, so again chances are low, but wouldn't those two make the chance greater?
i mean, judging by how it seems, little to no semen got in both times, so i'm guessing that means chances either way aren't too great, right?
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 10:36 am
It's dangerous no matter what, and as long as sperm is getting into her v****a, she can get pregnant, as Lunashock said.
It might be a good idea to talk to a doctor to get a better estimate of how likely she is to get pregnant, ie Day 1 after her period vs Day 9 after her period vs Day 15 or whatever.
When in doubt, take a pregnancy test and/or go see a doctor.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 11:18 am
Nikolita It's dangerous no matter what, and as long as sperm is getting into her v****a, she can get pregnant, as Lunashock said. It might be a good idea to talk to a doctor to get a better estimate of how likely she is to get pregnant, ie Day 1 after her period vs Day 9 after her period vs Day 15 or whatever. When in doubt, take a pregnancy test and/or go see a doctor. yeah, but of course, it's too soon to say, because day 9 was what....wednesday?
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 12:57 pm
Well most women have 28 day cycles, so day 9 might be different for her versus the norm. Just wait till the appropriate times to test and go from there. It's impossible to name off a number and statistic on her precise chances of getting pregnant. There's that chance, test when appropriate, learn from it and try not to stress is all you can do.
I will say that 9 days after the start of my last period would have been a VERY fertile time for me. Differs for every woman.
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 4:27 pm
well, about 2 weeks into it since.... and no symptoms so far, besides her breasts hurting a little, this is about... day 17 i believe.
would this be more likely menstruation, or pregnancy? she has NO other symptoms of pregnancy, no darkening n****e, do food cravings, none of that, just wanted to know.
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 9:23 pm
When in doubt, go see a doctor.
Pregnancy symptoms differ for each woman. Some have few to none, and others have every one in the book. We can't tell you what it's likely due to, as we're not medical professionals, and it's impossible to look into her mind/body and tell you what's going on anyways.
Speculation isn't very useful anyways.
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 11:28 am
Nikolita When in doubt, go see a doctor. Pregnancy symptoms differ for each woman. Some have few to none, and others have every one in the book. We can't tell you what it's likely due to, as we're not medical professionals, and it's impossible to look into her mind/body and tell you what's going on anyways. Speculation isn't very useful anyways. yeah. like i said, i'll just wait and see if she's late, then, i'll go see.
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 7:57 pm
Tre Kitasudesu Nikolita When in doubt, go see a doctor. Pregnancy symptoms differ for each woman. Some have few to none, and others have every one in the book. We can't tell you what it's likely due to, as we're not medical professionals, and it's impossible to look into her mind/body and tell you what's going on anyways. Speculation isn't very useful anyways. yeah. like i said, i'll just wait and see if she's late, then, i'll go see. Okie. Good luck to you both. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 4:21 am
Nikolita Tre Kitasudesu Nikolita When in doubt, go see a doctor. Pregnancy symptoms differ for each woman. Some have few to none, and others have every one in the book. We can't tell you what it's likely due to, as we're not medical professionals, and it's impossible to look into her mind/body and tell you what's going on anyways. Speculation isn't very useful anyways. yeah. like i said, i'll just wait and see if she's late, then, i'll go see. Okie. Good luck to you both. 3nodding well, she just had her period, so i guess it's all fine now. you can lock the topic ^^
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