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D: I be sorry. I'm usually not one to contribute, but when everyone pointed fingers at me with the word Sniper, I fought back. I was probably too harsh with my choice of words, so I appologize. x_x;

Here's to hoping this game is over, so we can have a new and good one allready.

I'm sorry, if I did anything wrong. As I said to Bialy, sometimes I just say my opinion, then I don't realize it was wrong until after I've said it.

All this fighting, it kind of upsets me. I mean, what happened to us? We were a culture-pool of differences, but the good kind. Now, we're insane, but in the bad way. I try to stay out of it, but I eventually get sucked in. I thought about leaving, which is something I never thought about doing since the beginning of Game 3. I don't think the new players are to blame, yet I don't believe the older players are to blame, either.

I apologize. I've been having a bad day and I've been getting annoyed very easily. I feel like crap, just thinking of how we used to be. Makes me want to cry. I can feel my eyes sting as I write this, because we all used to be SO CLOSE. When we moved to the guild, I feel like we lost it, as if we're starting over again. But this time, I feel like I'm not making friends. I feel lost, unaccepted, and unconnected from everyone in this game, including the game.

So much drama has been going on, when all friends some people thought they once had have completely left their side and hate them. This guild is very good, but when we moved, we left our friendship and love of each other behind. I can't stand watching all of us argue as much as we do. Sure, we used to argue, but this is ridiculous. We fight so much, we have so much drama, and I can't understand why.

I don't know why I stay here anymore. I just don't like the feel. And I don't want to sound like a drama-whore or attention-whore or anything like that, I'm just tired and extremely sad. I don't think I can handle a day longer of all of this. Not one more day.

I know that you are talking about me, and I've already apologized more than enough.

So lay off. ninja

I joined in Game Three as well Lexii. I think with everybody in one thread everybody felt like a happy family. I spoke with Nymphie and Wren almost daily. Now I hardly if ever speak to them. emo

Im sorry if I ever made IHD sad

But I am not sorry for fighting back when I was attacked. This stuff would be blown over in the thread. The problem here is how the drama can continue ..

I'm starting to get sick of people blaming the guild.

You have a choice of whether you continue the drama or not. I see this all the time while moderating. People could have moved on and ignored what was going on, but instead they choose to keep the drama going.

There's nothing wrong with dropping and leaving a subject. Stating that you've all ready said your opinion, you don't want to argue about it anymore, and ignoring what's being said.

If you feel like you need to personally defend yourself against someone who is personally attacking you, that's when you contact me and point out what's going on so I can deal with the situation. Overall, that would create less drama.

We're going to run into these problems due to the fact that it's harder to ignore problems, but instead of blaming the guild all the time, we need to take action to try and prevent these problems from escalating. We need to take some initiative in the matter and put a stop to this. Unless, you know, we all want the game to fall apart and cease to exist because none of us can get along anymore. I don't think any of us want that. I don't want that.

So maybe we should try to change how things are going. ^^;;

My $0.02.