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Kyoni Dizzy

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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 11:55 pm

I guess ill start with the basics... I like this girl... probably too much, and just as i was planning to ask her out, she said we needed to talk. Most of you know, thats -never- good. anyway... she said that a guy asked her out... and she said yes... if anyone wants to offer advice or sympathy... thatd be nice. smile i guess im just in a bad mood now... and i could use some cheering up.

Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:10 pm

Remember if god intended you to have something done he would have it done..... sorry it's what my friend's mom always says...

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Etherealemblem

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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:59 pm

put your trust in the Lord, he shall keep you until the time is right, until then, look for the right girl, the one whos faith is equal or greater then yours, that my friend is the only advice you need, until then, keep yourself pure and true, and my friend, the Lord will take care of you.

Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 1:12 pm

Thanks ^ smile
I guess im just... wallowing in self pity now, but I suppose with school starting in 2 weeks I might find someone new... I don't want someone new, but... it's all I can hope for. ugh... girls suck :p

Kyoni Dizzy

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Seority

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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 2:02 pm

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love is a fusking annoyance
my advice
dont date till your 25
both girls and boys usually wisen up by then
-is currently having terrible bf issues-

Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 5:39 pm

Dizzy Rydell

I guess ill start with the basics... I like this girl... probably too much, and just as i was planning to ask her out, she said we needed to talk. Most of you know, thats -never- good. anyway... she said that a guy asked her out... and she said yes... if anyone wants to offer advice or sympathy... thatd be nice. smile i guess im just in a bad mood now... and i could use some cheering up.

Trust in the LORD, I know he wil work things trough

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thrashmetaljunkie

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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 7:41 pm

Dizzy Rydell

I guess ill start with the basics... I like this girl... probably too much, and just as i was planning to ask her out, she said we needed to talk. Most of you know, thats -never- good. anyway... she said that a guy asked her out... and she said yes... if anyone wants to offer advice or sympathy... thatd be nice. smile i guess im just in a bad mood now... and i could use some cheering up.

ok...here we go. God has your WHOLE life laid out and planned, so dont worry, just let him take the wheel, you can never go wrong. God has someone in mind for you, the perfect person, made JUST for you, and you JUST for her. Only the 2 of you will work out together, because thas how God planned it to be. Heres my testimony for that. My youth pastor said...when you accept that you may be alone for the rest of your life, thas when God will say that you are ready. I accepted that around febuary...then a met this wonderful girl, but she lives in louisina, and shes so perfect for me...and this morning i realized, shes afraid of being alone, SHE isn the one ready, and shes struggling in her walk with God,and i'm slowly helping her pick up the pace. God placed her in my life, and me in her life so that i could help her get ready. i could be wrong, but i have never felt so strongly about anyone, nor has God given me such a firm answer of "You 2 have a future ahead of you, hang in there" God told me i WILL be with her when i grow up...we may not get married, but i know we will meet, so i will trust in Gods promises. So heres the final bit of advice, pray, Pray, and PRAY. Pray to God, ask him what HE would have you do. Pray for guidance, and strength to carry on. I know what a heart break feels like, believe me...i've had a few. But you can always pick yourself up, and God will always be there to help you up. Even when you feel like theres no one that cares, God is standing there next to you saying "I'm right here, I care, I LOVE YOU," and hes whispering it into your ear so that you'll hear it...all you have to do is listen.

Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 7:51 pm

^^ Thanks... I know all I need to do is trust God, but I guess it helps to keep hearing it from people. Sometimes I forget that there are real christian guys out there besides me and my 3 best friends... PS. If you didn't see it yet, I sent you a friend request.

Kyoni Dizzy

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thrashmetaljunkie

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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 7:58 pm

i saw it bro, lol.

Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 9:10 pm

Seority

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love is a fusking annoyance
my advice
dont date till your 25
both girls and boys usually wisen up by then
-is currently having terrible bf issues-

Holy Crap.
Fusking.
That.
is.
Amazing.
I <3 Fusking.

And with that...I will pray for you. Give it time and it will heal. One of my good guy fiends got dumped by his gf because she thought that God wanted her too. I'm glad that if that was God's will that she obayed it..there were going out for quite some time...but slowly he got better..and i know you will much faster then him smile *huggles!* God bless!

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Kyoni Dizzy

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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 9:39 pm

Well *Huggles!* right back at ya! smile I wouldn't be so down... (and not to start a new topic or ask for more pity.) if it werent for this happening over and over again... i think im going to try to be done with girls for a while... however, deffinitely -NOT- til im 25... thats crazy.

Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:28 am

Seority

...
love is a fusking annoyance
my advice
dont date till your 25
both girls and boys usually wisen up by then
-is currently having terrible bf issues-

hey i think that people should wait intill they are ready spitualy to have relationship with each other. they should start out as friends then let it grow to a relationship.

o kuro mori

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Seority

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Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 10:27 am

Kuro> How do they know? I thought I was ready when I agreed to go out with my current boyfriend. Now he just uses me as a sympathy tool and I'm stressed by it. I even just suddjested breaking up and he -almost literly- went to peices.

Dizzy> I guess waiting till your 25 is hard, but I'll guarentee that you will probably continue the merry-go-round that you're in now if you date at such a young age.

Siren> Yes fusking, because some people will throw a fit if I say the f word here.

Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 11:19 am

lol, I got a horrible answer when I went ot ask a girl out, too! I was told that "Maybe" was the worse answer but I proved that wrong. Any competitors with "Yoou have to ask my parents"?