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 Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 5:43 pm
As a few of you may know, Im going to a private military academy for my high school years.
My girl friend all of a suddent has falled deep into depression.
I asked her today if it was becouse I was going away and she said yeah.
Now shes acusing me of not caring that im leaving.
What the ******** am I supposed to do?
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 5:49 pm
Send her a teddybear and a pint of chocolate icecream.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 6:12 pm
MissMoppy Send her a teddybear and a pint of chocolate icecream.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:06 pm
Spook` MissMoppy Send her a teddybear and a pint of chocolate icecream.
Actually I agree.
That might be a good idea.
Maybe not the ice cream
but the teddybear is good.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:21 pm
OMGLAG Spook` MissMoppy Send her a teddybear and a pint of chocolate icecream.
Actually I agree.
That might be a good idea.
Maybe not the ice cream
but the teddybear is good.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:31 pm
I thought it would amount to more than just material satasfaction. I guess not. neutral
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:33 pm
it will show you care
tell her how much you care first then give the stuff
or just tell her how much you care
take her to dinner maybe?
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:36 pm
red balloons! it will show you care
tell her how much you care first then give the stuff
or just tell her how much you care
take her to dinner maybe?
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 8:22 pm
well, lets cut to the chase here.
you and her are probably never going to see each other again [am i correct that you're going far far away or something?]
if you are,
then she has a right to be depressed.
so my suggestion: just be nice. see each other regulary [though not often, because it'll just be harder when you leave]
dont do any of that chocolate stuff.
be creative.
something she'll ALWAYS have, not something she'll eat in a day.
[PLUS YOU'RE GETTING HER FAT LOL]
and teddy bears are easily forgotten, [at least by me, i get hundreds of teddy bears from friends and crushes that moved away, and i kind of have them in the attic.]
do what you're best at, and make her a gift from that.
like i: i LOVELOVE taking any kind of materials and mixing them together to create something. so i'd make him a picture of something if it was me, [probably a multi colored rose made out of felt, yarn, colored paper, and tissue paper]
so, what are you good at? [artishy wise, i mean.]
ps- LOL @ ME AS A GIRL DR PHIL
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 11:18 pm
Honestly, as a female. I think your girlfriend is selfish. You have chosen a path to better yourself and you aren't even in the high school yet. If she expects that you should change your life for a teenage romance then she doesn't have what is best for you in mind. Which means she cares more about herself.
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 2:59 am
She Has A Total Right To Be Depressed.
But She Doesnt Have The Right To Think Your Not Caring...
Since Your Obviously The One Who Asked Her If
She Was 'Okay'.
Basically...Theres Nothing You Can Do.
It's Not Long Until Schools Starts And Your
Whining Girl Friend Isnt Gonna Make Your Short
Stay At 'Home' Easier.
Just Spend Time With Her Until You Leave...
If Shes Still Bitching At You,
Then Basically She Doesnt Understand That
You Might Want A Future.
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 3:02 am
the toaster catastrophe
ps- LOL @ ME AS A GIRL DR PHIL
That's My Nickname At School. :B
Friends Having A Problem And All You Hear Is:
"Uh Oh. Here Comes Female Dr. Phil To The Rescue."
I Like To Put Peoples Problems Before My Own.
I Need to Stop That. xD
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 7:10 am
Gypsybyrd Honestly, as a female. I think your girlfriend is selfish. You have chosen a path to better yourself and you aren't even in the high school yet. If she expects that you should change your life for a teenage romance then she doesn't have what is best for you in mind. Which means she cares more about herself.
however the basic needs of guys:
eating, sleeping, sex.
<3 biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 7:44 am
the toaster catastrophe Gypsybyrd Honestly, as a female. I think your girlfriend is selfish. You have chosen a path to better yourself and you aren't even in the high school yet. If she expects that you should change your life for a teenage romance then she doesn't have what is best for you in mind. Which means she cares more about herself.
however the basic needs of guys:
eating, sleeping, sex.
<3 biggrin
They like to act as if that's all they need. By 22 I know better. The girl is being retarded and if he is smart he will drop her like a ton of bricks. If a person is going to be in your life they should be some one who will contribute to you improving yourself, not holding you back.
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 11:26 am
Mffm...
Pip the Grunny: Explain over and over that you have no choice.
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