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Ohkay im bi and im just started comeing out a while ago everyone is actign wierd around me and im loseing friends now i hate myself for being bi what do i do ?! crying

don't hate yourself! hate those so called friends who aren't worth your time. be proud of who you are and forget anyone who has a problem with it!

Not even I could say it better.

Being bi isn't something that you should be ashamed of. If your friends don't still accept you for who you are, then they probly weren't good friends to begin with. True friends will be with you no matter what. If they won't accept you, then find better friends.

get a girlfriend, them they'll see that you don't give a fcuk what they think.

As friends, they should support you, but sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Coming out is always a difficult thing to do because you never know how people will react to you. To some, it's a big shock and it takes getting used to. Most people I know who have come out faced some difficulties at first, but once everyone got used to them and realized they were the same person they always were, things settled down. I think that is what will happen with you.

Remember, you can't change the way people think. Either they will come around or they won't. The important thing in this case is that you are comfortable with yourself and your sexuality. Try not to focus so much on what others say, but rather how you feel about yourself. You've done a very brave thing by coming out, and those who will appreciate that are your true friends. You'll meet many people in life, surely some who are more open-minded and maybe even bi themselves. Good luck!

That's just the way life is. It's hard and you can't control who will like you and why. You can't change who you are even if you tried because then you'd go into denial. Think about it... would you rather be hated for who you are or loved for who you aren't? You should be proud that you're different! Who wants to be like other people in a world as krazy as this one? The best part about holding your ground about who you really are is that you will find people with the same interests and will make you feel SO much better. You aren't alone in this either. A LOT of my friends are bisexual and they're totally living it up. They know who they are and are proud of it. It's just the way you hold yourself up to it. My friends are either loved or hated, which is just fine with them because you find out who your REAL friends are. It seems that some of the people who were your friends really weren't at all and that's how life as a teen and early adult goes. Most of it is a facade, no one knows who they are and are scared to do something or be with someone who might be shuned in a society they want to be a part of. Don't worry about them, just know that you are a very special person and the fact that you're bisexual makes you even more beautiful than the rest. Go you!!

it aint as easyas POOF i have new friend sthat what you all make it sound like and im pretty sad haveing a perfect life then boom its nuthing it sucks