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 Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 10:59 am
I'm wondering what do you lot think? Are sex and love the same thing? I mean do you think that sex is 'wrong' without love? What are your oppinions? Persionly I think that sex and love are not the same, as in that you can have sex without love and equaly have love without sex. But I do think that they enchace each other, I mean that an aready strong, loveing relationship can be made stronger with sex and that sex is better with love(Not that i'd know... redface ). So people of the GGSA. What are your oppinions?
(Number of times I used the word 'sex' - not including this sentance and the title: 7 ninja )
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 1:04 pm
I dislike the thought of having sex with someone I'm not emotionally connected to, so I refuse to have sex with a stranger. I need those mental and emotional connections in order to feel comfortable enough wihth the thought to do it, which means I have to know the other party/ies innolved.
However, I can love someone without having to have sex with them, though it is preferred that sex be available if I truely loved someone.
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 1:59 pm
I believe they are seperate as well.
For my personal oppinion, I'd rather have the emotional connection too. I'd feel bad about myself if I randomly had sex with a stranger or even someone that Im aquainted with. There has to be some love there. And though sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship, a good sex life with your partner strengthens the bond you already have with them. 3nodding Balance is always good
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:06 pm
I've never actually had sex...but I am waiting until I feel really comfortable with a person & I love them.
There's only been two people that I've contemplated about having sex with:
The first person was my ex-girlfriend, who I was so passionate & in love with.
I felt like, if I could have done something like that with her, it would have shown us that we're really serious about our relationship & we could become stronger with it.
But eh, oh wells.
& the second person...well, it's who I'm currently with ? (eh, significant other).
I don't feel like rushing into anything soon, but I think that it'd be something that would mean a lot to both of us if we did that & it'd show how passionate we are about one another.
I'm not really into doing anything like that now, though.
School comes first before love.
Hopefully that helped a lot.
& if not, sorry about my rambling.
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 9:17 am
Sex and love are two different things to me. You can have sex without love and love without sex. (Its not impossible as most people think.)
Sex and love are two different things, in my opinion. Sex is sexual intercores, and love is what you feel for a person. What I think is that sex is a sort of ultimate expression of that love.
But you can have sex without love and love without sex.
Sex without love is to make yourself feel good.
Love without sex is when you love someone and you choose not to have sex, for a number of reasons. Either of you have a problem that you don't want the other to catch, you just love them and not in a relationship way, or you chose just not to all together.
Theres alot of different ways it can be taken, but that ^ is how I see it.
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 3:08 pm
There is a definitely a line a between sex and love. I agree that love can be with or without sex and sex can be with or without love.
Sex is a physical drive that can be fueled without love because everyone, in essence, is an animal. Sex can be done without the emotional connection, although it's kinda barbaric in my opinion if it is done that way. I would never be able to have sex without the emotional connection established first; sex to me is still a way of showing love even though I know love and sex can be separated.
In a nutshell, based on my personal morals, sex shouldn't be done without love but I recognize the fact that it can be separated from love.
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Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 11:42 pm
Sex and love are in no way the same thing. Most of the time it can be noted as a common girl misinterpretation (I'm a girl so I guess I can say that.....) However I do believe that they are complimentary to eachother. There are few people in the world who can just go out and have one-night-stands forever...there has to be some connection other than a potentially mutual attraction. I really don't believe that sex should come before love...but then again I've been brainwashed religiously (yeah yeah I know " cheese_whine ") to believe the whole "wait until marriage" bit--does anyone even follow that anymore? (more importantly, if it was true with Jessica Simpson, should they?)
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 11:50 pm
They are definately separate, but they each can make eachother a little better. Love can make sex a little better, and sex might make love a little stronger.... didn't happen in my case but whatever.
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The Committee Staff Gaian
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 8:57 am
They're different, I know for a fact. I've fooled around like that with a lot of friends whom I do not love, so it has to be different. We're just horny lesbian girls bent on the ravaging of each other. It's more of a lust thing than a love one. And the girl I did love, I didn't want to touch for fear of hurting her. Go figure. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:27 am
Oh they are definatly different lol I have a friend and he's a swinger, he dosnt love anyone yet he'll have sex with anyone.
I have a boyfriend he's 20 while im going on 17 in sept 7th. We havnt had sex because A) 17 Is the legal age and B) We dont realy feel as if we neec to prove ourselves. We love each other so much that its great just being close to each other.
Love is Ecstasy in its self, you dont need to go further since your bond is so strong and complete that you have no need to....although im definatly not saying dony have sex *Grins* its a great way to become even closer....course thats to be expected lol
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 10:18 pm
i think you can have sex without being in love (well it is physically possible) and i guess some people might like it that way, you don't have an emotional attatchment to them, its easier to some people.
but you can't make love without being in love.
thats my 2 cents! mrgreen
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