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| Have you ever called your significant other and done this? |
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 Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:49 pm
Okay, my boyfriend just called me and told me that he was really drunk. He went to some club somewhere with his friends, and apparently proceeded to flirt, pinch nipples, and some other stuff. Anyways, right before we got off the phone, he told me that he was going to hook up with his friend and be cheap (sexually)! How would you react to that and what do you think i should do/say?
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 12:30 am
Damach Okay, my boyfriend just called me and told me that he was really drunk. He went to some club somewhere with his friends, and apparently proceeded to flirt, pinch nipples, and some other stuff. Anyways, right before we got off the phone, he told me that he was going to hook up with his friend and be cheap (sexually)! How would you react to that and what do you think i should do/say? well, i would personally do something very damaging to him that i don't think i'm allowed to post here. that, and you should have said something to him while he was still on the phone. maybe, " you do that and you won't be dating me anymore you cheap little man whore"...or something.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 3:12 am
Tell him he can do whatever he wants as long as he knows that you'd rather not see him anymore.
And I wish I had a significant other... sad
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 5:09 am
I don't think I would ever be in a situation like that. If I were, though, I'd go with Tahariel's response.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 8:50 am
Unless you're in an open relationship, that's just so unbelievably bad. I don't have any advice on the matter, unfortunately. If you still want to be with him (? eek ?) you need to have one hell of a talk, but otherwise I would get the hell out. You don't need someone that's gonna treat you like that.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 4:48 pm
I haven't really been in that situation, but I would suggest you to tell him how you feel, personally, about that. Maybe he will come to his sense and stop it and respect you for your feeling.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 5:19 pm
In that case, there would be a serious issue with him, I agree that he whould recieve some sort of punishment, though when drunk people say weird things, how have things gone sofar since the occurance. It is possible that he... isn't as into you as he seems, or I might be way off. I believe you best choice... Isn't to continue the relationship, but in the end it is indefinately up to you. Don't let us sway your choice, just heed our advice.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 6:52 pm
hells nO!
1st! my other wouldnt be clubing without me ^____^
2nd! if he was doin stuff like that with sumone else its just like cheating and i dont give cheaters 2nd chances.
3rd! aw im sorry crying
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 7:32 pm
Thanks to all that posted, i tried to talk to him but he hung up on me like it was my fault. Anyways, i just forgot him. Now i'm on the market again and it's cool cause now i can see what else is out there!
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 8:55 pm
Yay!
People on the marketMuah hah hah, Fresh meat..
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Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 4:35 am
That's great! Though, I have to ask, how do you intend to crush anyone with a sword?
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Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 10:41 am
It's just a figure of speech
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 3:46 pm
JoVo That's great! Though, I have to ask, how do you intend to crush anyone with a sword?
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 5:35 pm
Damach It's just a figure of speech With respect to the term "figure of speech," Dictionary.com An expression that uses language in a nonliteral way, such as a metaphor or synedoche, or in a structured or unusual way, such as anaphora or chiasmus, or that employs sounds, such as alliteration or assonance, to achieve a rhetorical effect. That having been said, mixing metaphors should be used carefully. The expression "to crush one's enemies," while trite, is effective because it offers images of you destroying those who offend you by squishing them, as you might a cockroach or an ant. But against a cockroach or an ant I would not used a bladed object unless I wanted to draw out the pain with torture. In that case, however, you should not crush them because if you did, you would end them quickly and would not give them time for cutting. Of course, you could go up against them (or descend upon them) with swords, but then you would be putting yourself at their level. If you descend to the level of a cockroach, you cannot crush it. You have to fight it on a more equal basis. That doesn't mean that metaphors can't be mixed. Hamlet does it when he wonders whether or not go "take arms against a sea of troubles." Of course, taking up arms against the sea won't do much good, which is Shakespeare's point. The point at which I thrust is that mixing the image of enemy-crushing with sword-fighting creates a nasty clash of arms. This, together with the added images of wings and raining down from the sky, creates a very confused picture. You can rain all you want, but rain does not crush either. Rain can sting, even stab, which swords can also do, but even cockroaches do not fear the rain's crushing. The more you know.
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 12:35 am
JoVo Damach It's just a figure of speech With respect to the term "figure of speech," Dictionary.com An expression that uses language in a nonliteral way, such as a metaphor or synedoche, or in a structured or unusual way, such as anaphora or chiasmus, or that employs sounds, such as alliteration or assonance, to achieve a rhetorical effect. That having been said, mixing metaphors should be used carefully. The expression "to crush one's enemies," while trite, is effective because it offers images of you destroying those who offend you by squishing them, as you might a cockroach or an ant. But against a cockroach or an ant I would not used a bladed object unless I wanted to draw out the pain with torture. In that case, however, you should not crush them because if you did, you would end them quickly and would not give them time for cutting. Of course, you could go up against them (or descend upon them) with swords, but then you would be putting yourself at their level. If you descend to the level of a cockroach, you cannot crush it. You have to fight it on a more equal basis. That doesn't mean that metaphors can't be mixed. Hamlet does it when he wonders whether or not go "take arms against a sea of troubles." Of course, taking up arms against the sea won't do much good, which is Shakespeare's point. The point at which I thrust is that mixing the image of enemy-crushing with sword-fighting creates a nasty clash of arms. This, together with the added images of wings and raining down from the sky, creates a very confused picture. You can rain all you want, but rain does not crush either. Rain can sting, even stab, which swords can also do, but even cockroaches do not fear the rain's crushing. The more you know. the amount that you think scares me sometimes...
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