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All she's saying is that no matter what your excuse is, rape IS rape. Though I will say i've seen the rape card misused for personal gain before. Which is a really unsettling thing.

Anyone notice it's impossible for a man to be raped if you use her logic?

I would say that likely most feminists would be offended by having this particular poster accused of being one of their number :p

saying that is just like me saying stalinism is bad. it's know, but it's expected to be said.




what, its so cloued by flowery words that you actually thought you would have to tell people that? of course it is rhetoric, but it is important to highlight the diference between my own vies and those of my opponents.




no, she isnt, she is providing a defenition,hrough examples, of rape. i do not agree with said defintion, thus, i am explaining why.

now, i will go through them, pick out the most pressing ones, and kill them with a rabbit.


so drunk people are not allowed to have sex? especially if they want it? this reasoning sujests that no female would want sex given the choice, which is completly bullshit, as most of us here should know.


why? not all drunk people are completly incapacitated. by this reasoning, it is rape if she has a cold, which ******** with her head.


thus, this proves what i said in my last post, that is, all sex is rape. YOU getting drunk, is no excuse to have sex!


im, sorry, but i will not deal with this one properly, just it's logic. if i screw a drunk chick, its rape, if i am drunk and screw her, its rape, but if we are both drunk, its onle a maybe?


so she wants a ********, but unfortunately, her drunkeness makes her hurl and pass out, thus being unable to enjoy what she wants. so this now means that if one doesnt LIKE sex, it then becomes rape.


isnt it amasin this child never worries about the issue of consent? i have a friend who lets her boyfriends ******** her when she's asleep. does that make her BFs rapists, when she allows it?



oh, yes, the big one, VERBAL consent. now if someone cannot communicate verbally that they want to, it means you raped them, never mind if they have got a swolen tongue and accepted your advances, no, that is still rape.



no, you are a loser and you suck, but you have not raped any one. she could have walked away just as easily.


so if i convince someone that they should ******** me, i have raped them? no, i have just change the way they view things. as above, if i do that i am a loser, but hardly a rapist.


this is on par with those who say that checking out a girls tits ar sexual assault. ti isnt, it is pathetic perving. it all depends on if SHE THINKS something is up, not on the actual relations involved.


as above with the nagging.


she can always walk away. it is her choice, sex or another room, or she could kick him out. it isnt rape.


19-25, no-derr!


doesnt she mean that if you are male you ARE a rapist?


as long as you dont hit her or hold her down immobile while it happens, it is not rape.


as above.


unless it was legal prostitution, and she accepted the money in return for sex BEFORE the act itself.


what if you're paranoid and dont believe much of what any one says? ok, less far fetched, what if she has a history for crying rape when there has been none?


no, actually, it is quiet easy, just look at all men, there you are, all of them rapists, aven the GOOD priests who have remained celebate, away from the little kiddies.



and therefore, it is rape, whether or not you actually end up ******** her!

see, this is the kind of s**t that pisses me off. seriously. we have had this wonderful feminist movement, up untill the 60's and 70's which called for womens emancipation. then, we start to get these flips who go and say "WOMEN ARW WEAK! WOMEN MUST BE PROTECTED NIGHT AND DAY LEST TEY ACTUALLY WANT SEX!" allong with those who call rape victims "survivors" their families "co-survivors" and those who havent been raped "potential suvivors".
it is these same people who say that mentaly disabled people should not be allowed to have sex, because they dont know what they are doing, and therefore will be taken advantage of! as if mentaly ill or retarded people do not have sexual interest!

um, was that spos'd to make sence? it made less to me than |33+ would to my nan...

That person makes my intelegence bleed...
It's good to know I too have raped and been raped on more than afew occasions.
So under her list, if I understand right, the only way to avoid rape... is to avoid sex altogether?

Again... this person's reasoning is beyond me...

To be honest, in her defence i think the "if you get yourself drunk" part means that being drunk is no excuse for you to force sex on someone. As in, if you got drunk and chose to rape someone, the drink is no excuse.