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 Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 3:36 pm
OK I have this friend who is a guy and I really like heart him and I think he is starting to like me but he is a christian... Luthren I think...and I have absolutely NO problems with that, but I am a wiccan and he doesnt know that, and Im not sure how to tell him because Im not sure if it matters to him or not. I am just afraid that if I tell him he will freak out and not want to be even friends anymore...any ideas or suggestions on how to tell him or if I even should tell him...
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Posted: Thu Jun 08, 2006 9:42 am
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You probably shouldn't.
Unless you're actually in a relationship with him then there is no need of him knowing.
It would also be making a big deal over something that isn't. If he may not have minded otherwise, if you make a big deal about it he may think it's a big issue too and have to take a stance on it he wouldn't otherwise.
I vote just wait untill he asks.
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:13 am
if you really wanted to know maby you could subtly ask him what he thinks of religous tollerance or people of other religions
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:31 am
If you like him, and you think that he likes you, then you really do need to be honest with him. You don't want to start a relationship with him if he doesn't know because the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be, and the less likely you are to tell him.
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 10:49 am
Wait untill he asks. Thats what I did with my parents.
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 3:40 pm
Your religion is your own buisness, there is no need to tell him about it unless he asks. And if he does, you don't have to tell him every little aspect, only what will satisfy his curiosity. Perhaps saying something like, "I'm not Christian, but I am a religious person." What ever you think is right. There's no point in letting religion get in between a good friendship. I do hope things turn out for you.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 12:43 pm
Well, I've been there. Was in the middle of a relationship when I told her and about a month later she tells me that she cries almost every night and prays for my soul to be saved and such. I saw that I had caused her much pain so I had to break it off with her in hopes that she would soon forget about me and move on. I really loved that girl; but sometimes love means having to let them go.
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 3:51 pm
Well, I don't know- That is a tough question. I agree that religion should not get in between two friends, but I also agree that before you start a serious relationship with anyone, they do need to know about you.
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Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 7:19 pm
Day_Dreamer333 OK I have this friend who is a guy and I really like heart him and I think he is starting to like me but he is a christian... Luthren I think...and I have absolutely NO problems with that, but I am a wiccan and he doesnt know that, and Im not sure how to tell him because Im not sure if it matters to him or not. I am just afraid that if I tell him he will freak out and not want to be even friends anymore...any ideas or suggestions on how to tell him or if I even should tell him... My ex-girlfriend has parents (deceased), and her mother was Wiccan, and her dad was Christian. Don't worry about it, love is love. They really loved eachother.
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Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:31 pm
I honestly belive that a person should never hide their faith. That doesn't mean you have to flaunt it but if he asks make sure you give him a full explaination.
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Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:40 pm
I think you should wait until he asks. If I were in your position, that's what I would do. Personally, I think that if a person asks you what religion you are, then it must matter to them; if they don't ask, religion isn't as important to them.
However, this is totally up to you to decide. No matter what anyone says, it's still your choice. Do what you think is right.
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Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 6:00 pm
i think that you should first try to find out if he might be predujust agianst some or all other religons, i can't tell my parents becasue they are christan and they wouldn't be accpting. pm me if you want
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Posted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 6:30 pm
it's better to tell him now...and i hate to say it but you might not want to ask 'cuz if you don't get the anwser your looking for it'll be harder to tell him when you have to....it's better to be hated for who you are then loved for who your not.....i know it's cleshay but it's true if you have to lie or shoose to "omit the truth" it's not fair to you, or him if he finds outlater/oyu tell him later and he's got to desipher his feelings then when there's not only more emotional attachment, but also a bias there that'll make him question what he thinks and feels....besides if he can't even handel being friends with you it's his loss of a good firend....
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Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 12:17 pm
you should tell him and if he freaks out and flies off the handle thjen odds are it wasnt meant to be in the first place.
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 8:07 am
I'm with witchyboy on this one. If he can't accept you, then it's his loss.
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