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 Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 7:28 pm
My secret about being a feedee.
I was in foods class and the teacher said something about eating healthy and stuff and said that when we were older we'd eat better to keep our "hourglass figure" and I said "I don't care how I look. I'll eat as much as I want" outloud. I ment to say it to myself but it was like 7 in the morning and I was kinda out of it xp
Anyway everyone looked at me and laughed, not laughing like taunting, laughing like they thought I was being a joker. So Idk if anyone figured it out or not eek
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 7:30 pm
I let my secret out that I'm a FA to a close friend yesterday. Feels great to have it off my chest.
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 7:49 pm
I can only imagine how it would feel to say something that you know most people would look down upon. I'm a very outspoken person, and to have to keep my opinions to myself for fear of being taunted/bullied/belittled...well...I would feel like crap.
I personally am not into the whole feeder/feedee thing *as I've previously mentioned a couple of times before in this guild, heh*, but I would never treat someone shabbily because they chose to do something out of the 'norm'...it's too bad that there are so many people who lambaste someone who doesn't do what they do/think what they think/believe in what they believe *shakes head sadly* neutral
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 7:57 pm
Yeah a lot of people dont like to accept anything out of the norm. Its sad really to think that society is so closed minded. Dont worry much about it I guess, Most people dont even know about the concept for feeder/feedee anyway. At least I dont know anyone myself. At least you know we all will still like ya lots ^.^
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 8:21 pm
By the end of the school year I'll probaly end up saying something to that nature oO'.
Anyways, it might be best if people thought you were joking... if you're not comfy with the whole idea yet...
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 9:14 pm
I kind of said something to my mom today. She made some comment about how I have a stomach, and I should get these really high rise jeans so it doesn't show, and I told her some people like my tummy. And then she asked a bunch of nosy mom questions. And I was like "Pssh, what now."
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Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 11:15 pm
Inuyasha20649 My secret about being a feedee. I was in foods class and the teacher said something about eating healthy and stuff and said that when we were older we'd eat better to keep our "hourglass figure" and I said "I don't care how I look. I'll eat as much as I want" outloud. I ment to say it to myself but it was like 7 in the morning and I was kinda out of it xp Anyway everyone looked at me and laughed, not laughing like taunting, laughing like they thought I was being a joker. So Idk if anyone figured it out or not eek Hmm, well honestly. i didnt know about this whole feeder\feedee concept, until recently, and i think it's sort of interesting. people should feel free about themselves and how they are. dont worrie about others as much, as how you feel yourself. and if telling people helps you feel better, then go for it. it also helps to know that your not as alone as you think you are, and friends, are a powerful force. They will be there for you no matter what,well the true ones anyway. and as for the posers, they can just go to hell. dont give them the time of day. and that, is all i can think of to say.
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 1:06 am
Does this stuff really matter anyway? I mean, lots of people have fetishes/preferences... when it comes to that stuff... why are FA's any different? eek
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 3:02 am
kristinesque I kind of said something to my mom today. She made some comment about how I have a stomach, and I should get these really high rise jeans so it doesn't show, and I told her some people like my tummy. And then she asked a bunch of nosy mom questions. And I was like "Pssh, what now." no offense, but your moms doesn't sound like the nicest lady alive.
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 7:12 am
bleak_disaster kristinesque I kind of said something to my mom today. She made some comment about how I have a stomach, and I should get these really high rise jeans so it doesn't show, and I told her some people like my tummy. And then she asked a bunch of nosy mom questions. And I was like "Pssh, what now." no offense, but your moms doesn't sound like the nicest lady alive. She sounds like my grandmother. ~_~ My grandmother always says s**t like that. Always trying to get me to wear these geeky grandma jeans...... and stuff... ~twitches~ stressed
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 8:05 am
I've let it out at my school, bt so far mostly in private. My ex knows, but she found it wierd and I don't think she told anyone. I let it slip another time the first time I did pot. I kept jiggling this girl's belly and she wondered why, so I told her. She thought it was cute, and then she told me she liked bondage. eek
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 8:11 am
BitterSunrise Does this stuff really matter anyway? I mean, lots of people have fetishes/preferences... when it comes to that stuff... why are FA's any different? eek Maybe because most people don't even know they exist? I mean, everybody knows about sub/dom stuff and bondage, furries, etc., but how many know about feedism?
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 8:49 am
Fuzzy Necromancer BitterSunrise Does this stuff really matter anyway? I mean, lots of people have fetishes/preferences... when it comes to that stuff... why are FA's any different? eek Maybe because most people don't even know they exist? I mean, everybody knows about sub/dom stuff and bondage, furries, etc., but how many know about feedism? *raises hand* yeahhh, I dont know a whole lot of fetish slang words..eheh-heh...*has the niavety of a 12 yr old*
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 9:45 am
Well it shouldn't realy be such a big secret, I mean fat people realy can't hide the fact that they are fat, & I'll bet they get treated a lot worse for that than you would for showing advances toward a fat partner. I mean I don't advertise the fact that I'm an FA on a button or anything, but almost everyone who knows me knows that I am.
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 10:38 am
Kathryne bleak_disaster kristinesque I kind of said something to my mom today. She made some comment about how I have a stomach, and I should get these really high rise jeans so it doesn't show, and I told her some people like my tummy. And then she asked a bunch of nosy mom questions. And I was like "Pssh, what now." no offense, but your moms doesn't sound like the nicest lady alive. She sounds like my grandmother. ~_~ My grandmother always says s**t like that. Always trying to get me to wear these geeky grandma jeans...... and stuff... ~twitches~ stressed
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