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 Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 5:39 pm
Like it says, I'm not the one killing myself. My family is responsible for that. My parents have been divorced since I was three. I have a deadbeat father who only acknowledges me when he absolutely has to. He hates. My mother, who happens to go to a therapist, yells and screams at me all the time for things I don't even do. She doesn't appreciate me at all. She says I'm lazy and never do anything. Why can't she see that I do everything. I don't even have time to act like a teenager because I'm too busy taking care of everything. I have two older sisters. The oldest has two kids who she doesn't take care of, hmmph, guess who does? Yep, you got it if you guessed me! My niece just turned one and my nephew was born 2 days after her birthday. They are both 1/4 black. My other sister, got married sometime in December. We weren't even there. She only knew the guy for 3 months. Just recently we all found out he is racist. And he has my sister brain washed. And my so called friends, don't talk to me. So therefore I have no life, no friends, and no one who cares!
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 6:47 pm
you know ya'll can say something like im right or wrong or just something
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 6:51 pm
Others are not responsible for what you do and how you feel. They may shape who you are growing up, that helped toward the outcome of how you live and what you feel, but you are responsible for yourself and yourself alone.
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 11:47 pm
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 2:30 pm
thats exactly how it is with me....my dad has multiple sclerosis, and my moms just lazy. i have to cook, wash the dishes, laundry, clean my and their rooms, and take care of my pets too.....and me and my friends get in to it all the time, and here they yell at me when my grades slip....geee.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 10:26 pm
Rayne_Of_Darkness thats exactly how it is with me....my dad has multiple sclerosis, and my moms just lazy. i have to cook, wash the dishes, laundry, clean my and their rooms, and take care of my pets too.....and me and my friends get in to it all the time, and here they yell at me when my grades slip....geee. i hear ya. i know how it is. It's annoying. I'm about to tell them to get off their lazy asses and do something else besides yell at me. then we'll see how things do.
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 7:34 am
What are you expecting out of this post? If you want validation for your anger, then I don't think you're gonna get it. Yes, your situation is not at all good, and I'm sure everyone who reads it is capable of understanding and empathising with what you're going through.
However, as Crimson_Engima said you are the one responsible for how you feel. Whether you intend to stew over what has been happening or try to move on and do positive things, it's not going to change those around you necessarily. It's not going to turn back the clock for what your sisters have done. But it will affect youself.
Do you have any close friends? If not, are you able to go make some? I don't see how a bad family situation might definitely lead you to having bad social skills. Get to know other people. If you think your current social network sucks, go find better ones. I think everyone is able to acknowledge that you might have it worse than some, but in the end, what are YOU going to do about it will be the most important thing.
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Posted: Sat May 27, 2006 5:06 pm
Have you thought of moving out? Have you thought of talking calmly and like an adult to your parents? It sounds like everyone around you is less mature than you are (scary, isn't it? At least my dad was mature, even though my mom was a crazy-a** b***h), so you may either have to play the part, or you can refuse, but I think it's time for you to really decide what you want to do.
If you don't want to be at home, I suggest joining after school activities or clubs, or even hanging out at the library after school. Getting a part-time job might also help (get direct deposit so your parents can't touch your money) if you can do it, and even if you're younger than 15, and can't get a work permit, there are also ways you can get jobs by watching people's kids and babysitting (for money!) or watching their pets and getting ther mail while they go on vacation or out of town. Even if you don't live in a "nice" neighborhood, you can make flyers and put them in an upper-class neighborhood where there are really really nice houses, and you can probably make A LOT of money.
Also, get a bike. Bikes help when you want to escape a lot, even if you don't have a car. I found that being able to bike was one of the only ways I could get out of the house with a legitamate excuse.
I'm really sorry that you're suffering. I know how it is to have to take care of siblings/family members.
But it's not going to last forever. And remember, if you can get yourself through this, you're going to be one strong, intellegent, and mature person; aeons ahead of your peers.
And that will kick a**, let me tell you.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 11:20 am
One, don't stew over things like that, they are responsible for your anger, but they are not completely responsible, as much as you may hate me for saying this, both you and your family are responsible for it. You are the only person who can let you anger boil inside of you, what I've learned is the best thing to do is, just let your anger go, a little bit at a time, just relax yourself and take a deep breath when your angry, keep doing this until you feel the anger go away, clear your thoughts, think of happier things.
If your friends ignore you, or don't talk to you, look for new friends, when you can get out and meet people, talk to them, make new friends. And if your sister doesn't take care of her kids, you shouldn't either, instead call social services on her, she will either shape up, or loose her children.
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 4:49 pm
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