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 Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 8:15 pm
Why is it that everywhere I look, theres someone incentiving suicide?!
Or someone that tried (and failed, thanks god), or is serious considering it, or was just about to, and stoped the last minute for something other reason.
I'm tired... I can't get friends with anyone now, cause everywwhere I look, theres people trying to take out their lifes...
I think I'll just quit the internet comunity completely...
sorry, just venting my frustration...
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Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 8:19 pm
DwarfPriest Why is it that everywhere I look, theres someone incentiving suicide?! Or someone that tried (and failed, thanks god), or is serious considering it, or was just about to, and stoped the last minute for something other reason. I'm tired... I can't get friends with anyone now, cause everywwhere I look, theres people trying to take out their lifes... I think I'll just quit the internet comunity completely... sorry, just venting my frustration... ive gone through it. Thought of suicide you know. Up till about 2 months ago i cut and id cut deep. I understand how some people feel. Feeling that killing yourself will stop the pain. its hard to think about but its true. Most people feel life isnt woth the pain given thats why they give up and want to die. for me cutting was like a drug. But just by leaving your friends on the net isnt going to help them its going to hurt them more knowing they are alone. You have to be there for them and back tem up. Dont get angry cause that s**t is so hard to figure out. Just try to help them but dont boss them arounf cause that will depress them and get the feeling of killing themself. Just basicly be there for them
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Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 8:40 pm
It is very serious and depressing matter to discuss. I sometimes have thoughts of wishing to never exist, but never attempted suicide. I cannot be angry because someone thinks killing themselves will make everything better- I can only wish that i could do something to help them see themselves in another light, one where they realize how important they are to society. Yet, I fail time and time again. It makes me wonder: What I'm the insiginificant one?
Anyway, the only thing I suggest doing is trying to convince the person that you truely care about them (this is easy if you really do care), and that suicide will not solve anything. It is difficult, but it is the only advice I can give, I am sorry.
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Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 9:56 pm
I don't mean to sound. . .well, mean, but. . .
A lot of people on the internet say they're going to kill themselves simply to get attention. It's a sad and depraved method, but it still happens. I'm not saying to go and bash someone you meet online for it. . . If someone tells you that they are thinking about killing themself, then by all means try and talk them down. Just be aware that some people are just doing it for a cheap laugh or other such sick pleasure.
That is all.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 12:13 am
RyoBeat I don't mean to sound. . .well, mean, but. . . A lot of people on the internet say they're going to kill themselves simply to get attention. It's a sad and depraved method, but it still happens. I'm not saying to go and bash someone you meet online for it. . . If someone tells you that they are thinking about killing themself, then by all means try and talk them down. Just be aware that some people are just doing it for a cheap laugh or other such sick pleasure. That is all.
You can generally tell if they're faking, by the way they say things. People who are about to commit suicide (or attempt to) don't usually cry out "I'm just going to kill myself!" their attitudes change completely and they don't tell anyone.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 1:49 am
It pisses me off when people do that, especially when it's for attention. They need to take their lives a lot more seriously and stop being whiney and ungrateful bitches. They may think their lives suck, but apparently they're oblivious to the fact that there's starving naked children in Ethiopia who have lives, at the very least, twenty times worse than theirs. At least most of these people have decent homes to live in, decent clothing, and food that isn't disgusting and from some organization.
What makes me even more angry is when they're people who don't even have an actual reason for being depressed. They think that just because their parents make their lives "suck" is reason enough to kill themselves? That's bullshit. If you're going to kill yourself, you could at least find a better reason for it than "My parents are stupid and I have no friends!!! WAAAH!!!" give me a break.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 2:44 am
Thats the problem. I'm talking about people I know, respect, and love, and find out they already tried to kill themelves sometime in the past. Not that I'm talking to "current" suiciders, but hearding about what happened in the past on quick chats.
And in their defenses, I need to say that depression is a disease, not just someone that dont like something. I know, cause I had it over 10 years after my mother died, and I already showed signs of it even before that.
Sigh... my mom fought against her disease (some sort of lung cancer, I think), for more than a year... and so many people just want to cut their wrists because they are sad with something...
Sometimes I wonder if it is still worth to go throught all this...
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 6:49 am
most people, I would say 9 out of 10 hate themselves to one degree or another. The internet gives them the ablity to express these feelings in a more private manner then irl.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 6:55 am
Allow me to be of service here...
Sucide is a pressing matter, First it is a self state of mind, comparring yourself to people that appear on a outlook appear to be more succfessful then you or only contrating on the negative aspects of your life...i tend to be a very depressive person ebscause of said reasons.
Sucide is a exetreme of those two if you feel unapperatied unloved, unknown, And worthless to an exetreme peopel will attempt sucide for that purpose there re many others but the generalist.....There have been solutions about these posted in the Extended discuss forums
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 9:46 am
RyoBeat I don't mean to sound. . .well, mean, but. . . A lot of people on the internet say they're going to kill themselves simply to get attention. It's a sad and depraved method, but it still happens. I'm not saying to go and bash someone you meet online for it. . . If someone tells you that they are thinking about killing themself, then by all means try and talk them down. Just be aware that some people are just doing it for a cheap laugh or other such sick pleasure. That is all. yeah he gots a point there. Many do it for attention, some scctuly say it because they are going to do it. But a lot thinking its funny.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 9:53 am
Some do it for cry for attention but some don't some willnot go all the way out of a strange cling to life or fear...
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 10:24 am
I never really mean it when I say that myself. It's just an exaggeration brought on by stress, like 'I'm so angry I'm gonna explode!'. But everyone immediately acts like I mean it and IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH. stressed
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 10:27 am
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