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 Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 11:55 am
Just wondering how old people were when they first thought they might be gay/bi, how they knew and when and who did they first come out to? sorry bout all the questions
this may seem a bit wierd but i remember when i was about 10 or 11 and finding a girl very attractive, i thought i was gay at the time. I hadnt started thinking about my sexuality again seriously until i was about 14 or 15. i had could never seriously see myself going out with a boy and found some girls attractive. i always knew i wasnt straight and i accidenly came out on the phone to my best friend that i was bi. it slipped out and was very embarassing, but it was ok because she told me she was bi too about 2 seconds later. i have only told my closest friends so far and i think only 5 or 6 people know im bi
anyhoo id like to hear about other peeps stories on the matter
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 12:39 pm
when i was like 12...(bout two yrs ago lol) and I was hangin with sarah and i dont remember how but we kinda were just talking she said she was bi i said i thought i was too and then we started going out and only me her shelby and big sarah knew ^^ it was coolness -nods-
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 3:57 pm
it was actually only a few months ago that i admitted it. I always kinda was but at my old school everyone was homophobic so i would have never admitted it and brushed all those feelings aside. Now i am 14 and have a girlfriend that i heart heart heart heart !!!! And i have made out with quite a few girls compared to most people my age.
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 4:24 pm
i noticed that i was attracted to girls in like 6th grade (10ish) but i liked guys too so i just brushed off those feelings and focesed on the guys, but i finally addmitted it about a year ago when a friend told me she liked me i told her i liked her and it was only like 2 months b4 that that i addmitted i was bi.
i came out first to my best friend/first girl crush (she was bi, and i never did tell her i liked her cuz her bf would have killed me gonk )
the second person i came out to is my current best friend who was gay so i knew he would understand, the only people that know are my gay/bi friends cuz im still scared to tell my straight friends crying
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:35 pm
The summer between 6th and 7th grade. Baseically... when I was twelve -is thirteen in 7th grade- xp The first person I told was my friend/enemy (who needs enemys when you got him as a friend? XD) and abotu five minutes later my boyfriend (at that time) in a truth or dare game XD. Then I told one fo ym friends, who admited she was bi too, then my other friend, whoa dmited she was also bi... and then we went out for a while.
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 6:39 pm
I think I was 11 or 12 when I started fantasizing about kissing and making out with male rock stars. xd I was never really in the closet at home. I just talked about those things as if it was completely normal. At school it was a different story. I went to an awful redneck school. But I didn't really talk to anyone at all, so it wasn't a big deal to not tell them I was gay. I wasn't going to say so if I didn't say anything else to them.
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 8:22 pm
I'm a bit of a late bloomer. I was 18 when I realized. My school... gayness did not exist. Everyone was closeted or I just didn't know about them. So when I got to college, it was like... there are gay people?
I didn't even know there was a closet, haha.
So I was looking at one of my lesbian friend's artwork, and realized that the pics of girls kissing was really turning me on. I ended up joining pride, and finally coming out officially at the end of the semester.
Looking back, I can totally see that I had at least one or two crushes on girls, but I thought I just really wanted to be their friend. whee
Also, I've always loved crossdressing...
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 9:46 pm
It was either when I was 8 and realised what the feeling of sex was and then started to think "I'd like to ******** my teachers"
or it could have realised I was bi when I was shoving my c**k down another guys's throat....
Didn't officially realise until late last year though.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 12:35 am
In Middle school, some students called me gay jokingly. I denied it back then, but in tenth grade, I found furry art (not the cute stuff) and was turned on by it. I thought maybe it was just furries in general that turned me on, but I soon found myself fantasizing about guys at school during class, so for me it was around tenth-eleventh grades that I really knew I was (though recently, I've been having feelings about certain girls, so I really don't know again).
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 2:34 pm
it just sorda grew out of me you know...over the years I suppose.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 8:56 pm
I had considered being gay or bi when I was middle school. I came back to the idea last summer (f.y.i just after finishing my sophmore year in high school) I told my friends I was pondering about it, they didn't seem to care..or didn't believe me. Well, at the begining of school afterwards I asked one of my friends (who was openly a lesbian) if I could be her girlfriend. and we've been dating ever since. (about 7 months now 4laugh )
I've dated boys before; being with my first girl friend has been the best decision I've made in awhile and have come to conclude to me, it doesnt' matter if you're with a guy or a girl; as long you both truly have feelings for each other. heart (lame I know, but very true)
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 11:20 pm
I've pretty much known since I was really little (about sixish) that I was bi, because I got crushes on both boys and girls, but I never admitted it to myself until I was (I think) thirteen. I had just met some girl and I noticed that I was checking her out. About ten minutes later I came out to my brother's girlfriend. Originally, I told my brother and a few of my close friends. Then, when I was fourteen, I actually jumped up on a table at school and came out to everyone. It was scary and fun all at once. Fortunately nobody's really bothered me about it, though a couple of my friends tease me about being a dyke. I told my parents last Christmas, they were a bit surprised and I don't think my mum really believes me. Oh well.
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 1:44 am
I was about 5 years old.
I know that's young but at the time I didn't know anything.
Me and this girl Paisley (I think that's spelled wrong) would make-out and "touch" eachother.
I never thought at the time that I was gay or bi.
I was just affraid that her little sister would tell on us because she would occassionally walk in on us....................
redface sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 3:01 pm
I first thought i might be bi in the 4th grade (about 8 or 9 years old) when i caught myself making out with my best friend, but i didnt have a word for it (being bi/gay)... then in 5th and 6th grade i was finding myself attracted to girls and guys and i was thinking, maybe its just a phase everyone goes through. Then around halfway through 7th Grade I found the word for it, and i was bi, i knew it because i had been lookin at guys and girls as more than just friends since the 4th grade... now im in 9th grade, i have a girlfriend that i love to death and ive only come out to my 6 top friends, my girlfriend (duh), my bestfriend brittany, Carly, Taylor, Stephani and Jade...
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 4:11 pm
When i was about 10 I got this whole..weird...desire to hug my one friend...i didn't know why but I had to be near her..it was this insane desire to protect her..almost like some viscious gaurd dog..i didn't realize until i goto lder it was jealousy..i wanted her....as i got older ir emembered looking at A.Jolie and saying ...DAMN! I thought it was just wanting to look like her...but after awhile..it was obvious..i've been perfectly out since 13
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