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 Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 7:51 pm
Just wondering...for people who have been in relationships and are suffering from gender/sexuality issues at the same time...
does it get better if/when you are in a relationship with someone you really care about and who really cares about you?
like, if you struggle with identity, does finding love, sort of help things click for you? or does it make it more confusing, or both?
thoughts, opinion, welcome.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:39 am
Well in my experience it totally depends. I got into my first lesbian relationship days after realising I was queer and it really helped me figure it all out initially but when the relationship ended 2 years later I was left feeling unsure and adrift. Like, I'd known I was a lesbian with her, but was I still one on my own? (Answer was yes) My current partner and I have had some ups and downs with realisations about sexuality and gender (Mainly on her part) and for her I'm sure it's been very helpful having someone else to go through it all with but sometimes it's hard for me?
So, tl;dr... Yes and no razz
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 1:08 pm
that's cool.
yeah, since i fell for my current love interest...i've been able to struggle through some issues about stuff like maybe having a sex change...and became happier with myself...or so i thought....but just today i was thinking about gender fluidity and stuff....and i realized i kinda might need to have 2 personas, a guy one and a girl one...but i'm still not sure, you know?
i guess it's not as emotionally painful as it was before...Love is an amazing feeling...but i still feel conflicted at times...so that's still there...
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