Alright, time for me to be a huge nerd. My favorite band is called IAMX, and is essentially one of my largest creative and personal inspirations. The lead singer Chris Corner is not only extremely attractive to my tastes, but is a bisexual man who very heavily explores gender and sexuality through his music and performances and in a presentation that I admire.
There's a show on TV now called How to Get Away With Murder and apparently every other episode has had at least one of their songs or something?? Idk.
Anyway! It's an electronica/ dark cabaret type of sound.
Here are a few songs for a sample:
Volatile Times
My Secret Friend
The Negative Sex
Bernadette (trigger warning in video for brief suicidal imagery)

That's about it. Who even knows if anyone else will enjoy them but hey! Thought I'd share regardless.