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is it weried to get turned on by H18+ instead of real girls?

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HAREMKINGJAKE

PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 7:58 pm


im a 22 year old virgin and I have possibly one of the dirtiest minds on the planet. Yet I find hentai more arosing then real life girls. don't get me wrong I do still like seeing real girls nude nd all. but does that make me weried.? (prepares for insults) redface stare crying gonk sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 11:37 pm


Nah it doesn't make you weird really. The stuff you think about when you're all by yourself might have nothing to do with your real life sexual preferences.
There are for instance quite a few people who have fantasies about rape, but absolutely none of them really wants to be raped! burning_eyes

I hope you will fall madly in love with someone and then realize that there's nothing to worry about. And who knows? She could be a hentai fan too and you two might enjoy it as foreplay together! biggrin  

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 9:16 am


HAREMKINGJAKE
im a 22 year old virgin and I have possibly one of the dirtiest minds on the planet. Yet I find hentai more arosing then real life girls. don't get me wrong I do still like seeing real girls nude nd all. but does that make me weried.? (prepares for insults) redface stare crying gonk sweatdrop


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Well that's just what you prefer. If it's not causing any harm or distress to others or your self, then there's no shame in that.

If you want to know more about paraphilias (sexual preferences) then I recommend you to watch this Sexplanation episode about paraphilias. Sexplanations is a educational youtube channel where Dr. Lindsey talks about different aspects of sex and sexuality without any stigma or preaching so don't be afraid to have a look at the videos she's posted.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 11:17 am


people always give anime lovers and hentai watchinger a bad rap. truth is I like the story involving sex. plus the only girlfriend I had was also a virgin and didn't know how to turn a guy on. im not blaming her, but she could have done something other than laugh while we made out.....

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 10:39 pm


HAREMKINGJAKE
people always give anime lovers and hentai watchinger a bad rap. truth is I like the story involving sex. plus the only girlfriend I had was also a virgin and didn't know how to turn a guy on. im not blaming her, but she could have done something other than laugh while we made out.....

Sounds like that girlfriend was really nervous and could have used some patience and understanding to get past that. I can only go on what you wrote here but it seems kind of telling how you said that "she didn't know how to turn a guy on." That seems a little one-sided.

As far as being into the anime/hentai stuff I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Everyone has their fantasies. What is actually the red flag here is how you say you like them more than real women.

I know this seems harsh but is it possible that one of the reasons you like fantasy girls more than real women is because its much easier just masturbate to them and not have to worry about meeting a real woman half way? Real women will never compete with the perfect "objects" that the anime characters are. But that's only if you are seeing women as objects when you think of them sexually. Imperfections can be sexy if you can enjoy the whole person with her own desires, needs, and emotions.

Ultimately you are certainly not required to like real women more. If you're perfectly happy with your anime and don't need anything else it's not hurting anyone. But if you were completely happy about it I wonder why you were moved to create this thread. Were you just seeking reassurance? Or maybe you felt you were missing something? I don't know. Maybe I'm reading too much into it.

(TL;DR: No there's nothing wrong with it - but you might be missing out by seeing real women the wrong way - i.e. trying to compare them to your anime girls and not seeing them for who they really are)
PostPosted: Fri Aug 08, 2014 7:56 am


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I'm going to move this to Real Life section. You can continue the conversation in there.

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