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 Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:58 pm
-sigh- My mom just reffered to me to her partner as her "stepdaughter"....
My mom is a lesbian.
Rather, my mother's are lesbians.
-sigh- But this is weird....
My mom was on the phone with her partner, Meg, and was like "Oh, your stepdaughter got her math test back" At that moment, I completely froze... 'Cause there's only one person she could be talking about...
and it's not like when the dog becomes "your dog" when she's barking....
I got a good grade....
I just don't know what's what anymore.
If they are married or not.. I just don't know....
I just feel... I don't know... I'd never consider Meg as a 'stepmother'..... Ever.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 6:57 pm
why not? do you not like her or something?
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 3:28 am
So wait..... let me see if i get this. You have two moms, their divorced, and one of them is dating a women named meg. right?
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 4:07 am
Seralunarin So wait..... let me see if i get this. You have two moms, their divorced, and one of them is dating a women named meg. right? I don't know anymore... Meg and her could be married.... I just don't know. They all keep secrets from me... My two moms broke up years ago,though. When we were seven. We meaning, my twin brother and me.
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 4:08 am
ash_nazg_durbatuluk why not? do you not like her or something? Not really... I also don't like the idea of having another 'mother'.... I mean, I already have two... And it feels like my own mother gave away her claim on me to Meg...
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 11:06 am
I would sit her down with you and your brother so you guys can talk about it.
Just say 'Mom, we need to talk.' Hopefully she'll relise that you guys really need to talk with her.
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Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 1:46 pm
Shmoo-Chan I would sit her down with you and your brother so you guys can talk about it. Just say 'Mom, we need to talk.' Hopefully she'll relise that you guys really need to talk with her. It won't work... -sigh- And my brother is handicapped... If we bring up something he doesn't want to talk about he'll start screaming. e.x;
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 4:04 am
1) two mums is cool
2) does it matter who your mum loves? love is love, and can't be changed
3) I can't get over how cool teo mums is!
4) perhaps a group discussion with everyone will help the flow of info
5) good luck in whatever you schoose, cos i erally have no helpful advice except for what was already said....
so... HOLLOW FOUR FARTS
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 5:29 am
Vaan Mortier 1) two mums is cool 2) does it matter who your mum loves? love is love, and can't be changed 3) I can't get over how cool teo mums is! 4) perhaps a group discussion with everyone will help the flow of info 5) good luck in whatever you schoose, cos i erally have no helpful advice except for what was already said.... so... HOLLOW FOUR FARTS I don't think you got the problem here... she's not upset over having two moms.. she's upset because her mother reffered to her to her (the mother's) partner as her (the partner's) "stepdaughter" and she is upset about the "step" part
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 9:02 am
BakaTulip Vaan Mortier 1) two mums is cool 2) does it matter who your mum loves? love is love, and can't be changed 3) I can't get over how cool teo mums is! 4) perhaps a group discussion with everyone will help the flow of info 5) good luck in whatever you schoose, cos i erally have no helpful advice except for what was already said.... so... HOLLOW FOUR FARTS I don't think you got the problem here... she's not upset over having two moms.. she's upset because her mother reffered to her to her (the mother's) partner as her (the partner's) "stepdaughter" and she is upset about the "step" part xD Yeah.. I'm upset about her calling me her stepdaughter.... The whole "step" AND "daughter" part. xD I'm a lesbian so I don't give a damn who my mom is with. Guy or girl, who cares!? I don't.
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 10:10 am
Moocat BakaTulip Vaan Mortier 1) two mums is cool 2) does it matter who your mum loves? love is love, and can't be changed 3) I can't get over how cool teo mums is! 4) perhaps a group discussion with everyone will help the flow of info 5) good luck in whatever you schoose, cos i erally have no helpful advice except for what was already said.... so... HOLLOW FOUR FARTS I don't think you got the problem here... she's not upset over having two moms.. she's upset because her mother reffered to her to her (the mother's) partner as her (the partner's) "stepdaughter" and she is upset about the "step" part xD Yeah.. I'm upset about her calling me her stepdaughter.... The whole "step" AND "daughter" part. xD I'm a lesbian so I don't give a damn who my mom is with. Guy or girl, who cares!? I don't. well instead of sitting down with you, your mom, and your bro.. why dont you sit down and have a one on one with your mom? Im sure she might appreciate taking the time to talk to her in an adult manner to see exactly what's going on, you know?
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 2:03 pm
AkureiKnight Moocat BakaTulip Vaan Mortier 1) two mums is cool 2) does it matter who your mum loves? love is love, and can't be changed 3) I can't get over how cool teo mums is! 4) perhaps a group discussion with everyone will help the flow of info 5) good luck in whatever you schoose, cos i erally have no helpful advice except for what was already said.... so... HOLLOW FOUR FARTS I don't think you got the problem here... she's not upset over having two moms.. she's upset because her mother reffered to her to her (the mother's) partner as her (the partner's) "stepdaughter" and she is upset about the "step" part xD Yeah.. I'm upset about her calling me her stepdaughter.... The whole "step" AND "daughter" part. xD I'm a lesbian so I don't give a damn who my mom is with. Guy or girl, who cares!? I don't. well instead of sitting down with you, your mom, and your bro.. why dont you sit down and have a one on one with your mom? Im sure she might appreciate taking the time to talk to her in an adult manner to see exactly what's going on, you know? -sigh- She never has time for me. Ever. She never explains anything to me....
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 6:27 pm
Moocat -sigh- She never has time for me. Ever. She never explains anything to me.... Then I think it's about time you make her. If you have to force your way into her life, then so be it. You need to get answers.
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 12:51 am
why don't you do something were she HAS TO give you attention. like... um...
being took home by the police for the most minor of minor offenses. i don't REALLY suggest it though.
have you thought "Stepdaughter" might just be a form of endearment?
If you can't talk to one, why not the other?
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 8:21 am
AkureiKnight Moocat -sigh- She never has time for me. Ever. She never explains anything to me.... Then I think it's about time you make her. If you have to force your way into her life, then so be it. You need to get answers. D: It frightens me. ( DON'T BE FRIGHTENED.) >>; PotO moment...
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