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 Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 6:05 pm
i read a lot of futanari hentai because they have the type of body i wish i had (i don't care about the v****a i could take it or leave it but i wish i had a p***s but have no desire to get rid of my breasts), and it's not a fetish thing, i remember being 5 years old and telling my mom "i wish i had a p***s". not "i wish i was a boy" but that i had a p***s. i have fantasies about penetrating, but a strap-on just wouldn't do it for me, i want to feel everything. i've considered sex change or partial sex change surgery, but i'm kinda afraid of it... but i just don't know what to consider myself. i'm assuming it's a type of trans*, i just don't know the term outside of hentai..... or porn, but i doubt "shemale" is really an appropriate term, seeing as it comes from the porn industry.
i've never shared this with anyone, and like i said it's not JUST sex. i feel like my body is missing something. i've even had dreams for years where i've either had a p***s or even been fully male, some dreams sexual some non.
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 6:16 pm
Is your desire related to a gender identity question? What gender do you identify with most strongly?
I can't say I've heard of this particular expression, but I could certainly see it as some sort of partial body dysmorphia or something like that. After all, there are many trans* and gender nonconforming people that have a much more expansive view on the possibilities of combining gender and sex characteristics.
Perhaps you may want to consider identify as androgyne/genderqueer, if that is consistent with the rest of your non-genitalia-related gender identity?
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 6:31 pm
Keakealani Is your desire related to a gender identity question? What gender do you identify with most strongly?
I can't say I've heard of this particular expression, but I could certainly see it as some sort of partial body dysmorphia or something like that. After all, there are many trans* and gender nonconforming people that have a much more expansive view on the possibilities of combining gender and sex characteristics.
Perhaps you may want to consider identify as androgyne/genderqueer, if that is consistent with the rest of your non-genitalia-related gender identity? Well I don't really like my v****a. I don't like having it, I don't like the look or feel of it or how it functions. but i like having breasts. and i have the desire to penetrate sexually. doesn't matter if it's with a girl or a guy, though i do have some devirgination fantasies with girls. i just feel like i would be happier with a p***s. my ex boyfriend used to let me hold his when he peed, and i liked feeling the hotness on my fingers of the urine travelling through the urethra. i also have a lot of EXTREME sexual fantasies, many of which include me with a p***s. i used to want my breasts gone, but over time i've come to find cleavage attractive, and now that they're a larger size i'm happy with them. i have been considering myself genderqueer for a while now, but i was wondering if there was a technical term for that body type, which i don't even know if it could work in the real world, i mean i've seen men with breasts but those are men with breasts, their penises were a part of them from birth. i'm a female who wants a p***s. and like i said, i don't want to say "shemale" because it's a porn term and probably offensive, like how the porn world uses the word "tranny".
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 6:37 pm
Morbid Obesity Keakealani Is your desire related to a gender identity question? What gender do you identify with most strongly?
I can't say I've heard of this particular expression, but I could certainly see it as some sort of partial body dysmorphia or something like that. After all, there are many trans* and gender nonconforming people that have a much more expansive view on the possibilities of combining gender and sex characteristics.
Perhaps you may want to consider identify as androgyne/genderqueer, if that is consistent with the rest of your non-genitalia-related gender identity? Well I don't really like my v****a. I don't like having it, I don't like the look or feel of it or how it functions. but i like having breasts. and i have the desire to penetrate sexually. doesn't matter if it's with a girl or a guy, though i do have some devirgination fantasies with girls. i just feel like i would be happier with a p***s. my ex boyfriend used to let me hold his when he peed, and i liked feeling the hotness on my fingers of the urine travelling through the urethra. i also have a lot of EXTREME sexual fantasies, many of which include me with a p***s. i used to want my breasts gone, but over time i've come to find cleavage attractive, and now that they're a larger size i'm happy with them. i have been considering myself genderqueer for a while now, but i was wondering if there was a technical term for that body type, which i don't even know if it could work in the real world, i mean i've seen men with breasts but those are men with breasts, their penises were a part of them from birth. i'm a female who wants a p***s. and like i said, i don't want to say "shemale" because it's a porn term and probably offensive, like how the porn world uses the word "tranny".
Also, it's not unheard of for some FtM people to do only "bottom" surgery - I don't think you're alone in liking your breasts or not finding them objectionable. In this day and age surgery might be difficult for someone who doesn't strongly identify as masculine (just due to the really binarist/gender essentialist way many doctors seem to address gender dysmorphia issues), but it's worth talking with your doctor about it if that's someone you can trust to disclose to.
In my opinion, anything can "work" in the real world, it's just the fact that most people have a pretty narrow understanding of gender/sex and it takes getting used to people who have a different way of presenting/identifying. I don't think there's anything wrong with a person who has female-appearing breasts and a p***s, and I don't think that necessarily means anything about that person's gender. I believe that in the future, that is how people will be able to react, it's just that people aren't there yet and you can come across bigotry in people who have a much narrower understanding of gender and sex. But in my opinion, that's their problem, not yours. 3nodding
I'd agree with you that "shemale" seems to be pretty pejorative/offensive because of its use in porn and as a slur. I am not sure if there is a better term, though. I hope someone else more knowledgeable can chime in here! ^_^
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 6:41 pm
Keakealani Morbid Obesity Keakealani Is your desire related to a gender identity question? What gender do you identify with most strongly?
I can't say I've heard of this particular expression, but I could certainly see it as some sort of partial body dysmorphia or something like that. After all, there are many trans* and gender nonconforming people that have a much more expansive view on the possibilities of combining gender and sex characteristics.
Perhaps you may want to consider identify as androgyne/genderqueer, if that is consistent with the rest of your non-genitalia-related gender identity? Well I don't really like my v****a. I don't like having it, I don't like the look or feel of it or how it functions. but i like having breasts. and i have the desire to penetrate sexually. doesn't matter if it's with a girl or a guy, though i do have some devirgination fantasies with girls. i just feel like i would be happier with a p***s. my ex boyfriend used to let me hold his when he peed, and i liked feeling the hotness on my fingers of the urine travelling through the urethra. i also have a lot of EXTREME sexual fantasies, many of which include me with a p***s. i used to want my breasts gone, but over time i've come to find cleavage attractive, and now that they're a larger size i'm happy with them. i have been considering myself genderqueer for a while now, but i was wondering if there was a technical term for that body type, which i don't even know if it could work in the real world, i mean i've seen men with breasts but those are men with breasts, their penises were a part of them from birth. i'm a female who wants a p***s. and like i said, i don't want to say "shemale" because it's a porn term and probably offensive, like how the porn world uses the word "tranny".
Also, it's not unheard of for some FtM people to do only "bottom" surgery - I don't think you're alone in liking your breasts or not finding them objectionable. In this day and age surgery might be difficult for someone who doesn't strongly identify as masculine (just due to the really binarist/gender essentialist way many doctors seem to address gender dysmorphia issues), but it's worth talking with your doctor about it if that's someone you can trust to disclose to.
In my opinion, anything can "work" in the real world, it's just the fact that most people have a pretty narrow understanding of gender/sex and it takes getting used to people who have a different way of presenting/identifying. I don't think there's anything wrong with a person who has female-appearing breasts and a p***s, and I don't think that necessarily means anything about that person's gender. I believe that in the future, that is how people will be able to react, it's just that people aren't there yet and you can come across bigotry in people who have a much narrower understanding of gender and sex. But in my opinion, that's their problem, not yours. 3nodding
I'd agree with you that "shemale" seems to be pretty pejorative/offensive because of its use in porn and as a slur. I am not sure if there is a better term, though. I hope someone else more knowledgeable can chime in here! ^_^me too, it's really not important it's not like i say "hi i'm genderqueer" to everyone i meet, i just wonder what my internal version of physical perfection is called.
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 7:07 pm
I know how you feel, the difference being that what I feel I'm missing is a bit more unrealistic.
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Posted: Fri May 03, 2013 7:17 am
XrosHeartless I know how you feel, the difference being that what I feel I'm missing is a bit more unrealistic. I dunno, I think my issue is pretty unrealistic too. I mean, even if I were to get a partial change, it's not a real member with the proper nerves, nor would I have the ability to produce sperm.
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Posted: Fri May 03, 2013 6:33 pm
Morbid Obesity XrosHeartless I know how you feel, the difference being that what I feel I'm missing is a bit more unrealistic. I dunno, I think my issue is pretty unrealistic too. I mean, even if I were to get a partial change, it's not a real member with the proper nerves, nor would I have the ability to produce sperm. Yeah, that's true I guess.
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Posted: Fri May 03, 2013 8:36 pm
I guess you'd call them whatever they prefer. smile They might be trans*, intersex, whatever ^_^
If you want to experiment, try buying a packer and wearing it with a harness to see how it feels having a p***s, and if you want to use it sexually you can buy a d***o/strap-on for that. Some people find the idea of having a p***s sexy but wouldn't consider themselves trans* or anything, and some trans* people don't feel the need to have a p***s. So, experimenting may be the best way to discover your identity, no matter where that leads you.
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Posted: Sat May 04, 2013 7:37 am
Sminkx I guess you'd call them whatever they prefer. smile They might be trans*, intersex, whatever ^_^
If you want to experiment, try buying a packer and wearing it with a harness to see how it feels having a p***s, and if you want to use it sexually you can buy a d***o/strap-on for that. Some people find the idea of having a p***s sexy but wouldn't consider themselves trans* or anything, and some trans* people don't feel the need to have a p***s. So, experimenting may be the best way to discover your identity, no matter where that leads you. i wouldn't know where to find one and my bf isn't into getting penetrated and i'm not about to cheat on him so i don't see the point in getting it if i'm not gonna be using it
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Posted: Sat May 04, 2013 10:37 am
If you are going to search there are places to find more information, searching ftm packer or something will bring up sites you can buy or video reviews. I know things seem extra complicated since you have a boyfriend who may or may not know or support you. Just remember there's no rush in figuring out yourself. Try to think of things you can experiment with that may begin to match your internal ideal self, and I'm sorry if I haven't really helped you haha. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat May 04, 2013 1:28 pm
Dont blame i think it would be cool to have both a d**k and boobs
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 3:28 am
I could be wrong, but whenever I dealt with the term "futanari" it was usually women with quite a few penises. Two at least. Hmm. Now you got me curious. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue May 21, 2013 9:53 pm
-Explosion-Array- I could be wrong, but whenever I dealt with the term "futanari" it was usually women with quite a few penises. Two at least. Hmm. Now you got me curious. sweatdrop ive seen some stuff with women with multiple ones, but the ones i read mostly just have one.
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