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 Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 10:57 am
So in the past few years i have noticed myself swinging more towards women then men. At first it scared me because i was always the boy crazy girl among my friends but then suddenly after i got my first girlfriend i started to noticed that i was looking at women more and finding men less and less attractive. Now if i do find a man attractive its only if he has female like peronality or features. So what does this mean?. None of my friends understand what im going through.
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 11:59 am
Sounds like you get subconsciously more comfortable with being lesbian (just an assumption). When I was younger my subconscious made me believe that I'm into women (caused by certain factors like peer-pressure, family, etc.), but now I came to accept that I'm a homosexual man. Being attracted to men suddenly feels so good and natural to me. Maybe something similar ist happening to you?
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 12:04 pm
MadPad Sounds like you get subconsciously more comfortable with being lesbian (just an assumption). When I was younger my subconscious made me believe that I'm into women (caused by certain factors like peer-pressure, family, etc.), but now I came to accept that I'm a homosexual man. Being attracted to men suddenly feels so good and natural to me. Maybe something similar ist happening to you? It sounds similar actually. Another thing i noticed was that i no longer find men sexually attractive either and about three years ago..different story.
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 12:25 pm
Mi-Cha22 It sounds similar actually. Another thing i noticed was that i no longer find men sexually attractive either and about three years ago..different story. What I noticed about myself was that, when I was still in a relationship with a girl, that the female body began to seem boring to me. I wanted my now ex-girlfriend to be more dominant during sexual intercourse, but she just couldn't, I found sex less and less satisfying. I finally dared to fantasize about men and I discovered that I find the male body far more attractive than the female body. I always thought that sex may be overrated or that I might have slight erectile dysfunction, but now I know that I was just being dishonest to myself. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 1:14 pm
MadPad Mi-Cha22 It sounds similar actually. Another thing i noticed was that i no longer find men sexually attractive either and about three years ago..different story. What I noticed about myself was that, when I was still in a relationship with a girl, that the female body began to seem boring to me. I wanted my now ex-girlfriend to be more dominant during sexual intercourse, but she just couldn't, I found sex less and less satisfying. I finally dared to fantasize about men and I discovered that I find the male body far more attractive than the female body. I always thought that sex may be overrated or that I might have slight erectile dysfunction, but now I know that I was just being dishonest to myself. 3nodding For a minute there i thought i was talking to the male verson of me lol. What you said seemed to help me alot. Thank you so much. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 1:27 pm
Mi-Cha22 For a minute there i thought i was talking to the male verson of me lol. What you said seemed to help me alot. Thank you so much. 3nodding Don't mention it, just sharing. c: I'd wait for what the others have to say though, we have some really smart people here and I'm sure their experience will be of great help.
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Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:48 pm
Ever hear of the Kinsey Scale? If you haven't, I suggest you search for it online. There are people who are established in their sexual orientation, but a good number of people's sexuality is a continuum, meaning it tends to change as time passes. It's perfectly normal that your sexual attractions towards men and women have changed, so don't let it confuse you.
Like with me—I tend to lean towards men, but I am attracted to women, but mostly androgynous women (even trans* men). Not always, but most of the time. And this has all shifted and developed over time; for a while, I considered myself asexual, but then before that, I had a strong preference towards women over men. lol It is what it is. Some people just have very fluid sexualities—what matters is that no matter WHAT your sexuality is, embrace it. ♥
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Posted: Tue Mar 05, 2013 8:38 am
Don't worry about what label or terminology you're supposed to call yourself and just do whatever makes you happy. If other people don't like it then poo on them. o3o.
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