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Lifty_Raccoon

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 5:58 pm


I know this might be a common thing.
I developed a major crush for a blind guy in middle school. He was the smartest, nicest and most caring guy I had ever met (Other than my boyfriend, of course.) He was comfortable around homosexual people, to the point he even played match maker for them as well as heterosexual people He's even in the school year book quoted as saying
"Love is an amazing thing! Countries have fallen, kings have lost the throne, and taboos broken because of it. I don't give a *BLEEP* about what gender you like, or your religion or age difference. Love is love in any form."
I wish we couldn't have been more, but he admitted he was straight. So I was kinda permanently "friend-zoned" and I moved on, eventually.
Share your stories?
PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 7:46 pm


My story is a bit too painful for me to share given the role teenage hormones played. But at least you have a bf now

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:31 pm


No, not really.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:07 pm


Most of mine have been straight. I've worked with way too many women who weren't gay that I liked. The last one I thought might have been at least bi (really flirty) but no, boyfriend and a kid.
sad
Unlucky, I guess.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2013 12:02 am


A major straight crush? Uh, I guess not. I've crushed on plenty of straight people, but I wouldn't really consider any of them to be major. The closest I've come to a major straight crush was this one girl who was in a few of my college classes. I had an amazing dream about kissing her, which made me feel super awkward around her for a few days. She was totally adorable and completely straight.

I have had a major crush on a gay man before though. Which was frustrating. I mainly go for women, and the one guy I had to have a crush on was gay. He also dressed up in drag every once in a while and looked amazing. Which really ******** with my head for a while. I thought maybe I just liked him because of that, but nope, I definitely liked him as a male.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2013 1:44 am


Mostly only straight men ever like me so kinda in an odd position compared to the rest of the community.

Gay guys obviously don't wanna date me. cat_xp

Sometimes lesbian women do.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2013 10:41 am


I'm super crazy attracted to heterosexual men.

I dunno, sometimes homosexual men, regardless of their femininity or what have you, tend to be too prissy.

I know heterosexual men can be the same way but at my school the homosexual men here tend to be too high maintenance and all about the drama and I'm not about that.

So I don't necessarily have a specific experience, it's mostly a perpetual reoccurrence.

It's not that I'm attracted to their heterosexuality perse, more so their general personality and they just happen to be straight.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2013 11:29 am


Yep. Same guy as you, Rick. .///. Seems like every girl and bisexual/homosexual guy in the school had a crush on him one time or another. btw, long time no see or talk too.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 7:01 pm


Before I had met my boyfriend I had a huge crush on this guy that I had class with. I feel ti was only because he was Japanese and also since he was a gamer. I got to share a bed with him and after that I felt accomplished so I guess I kind of lost interest. then he got fat and I really lost interest.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 24, 2013 8:51 pm


almost all of my crushes have been straight.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:18 am


Every single time ;w;
But I think the worst experience was when I was only 13 and had a crush on my best friend. It didn't end well and we never talked to each other again after that, which was a shame sad
PostPosted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:28 am


Do teachers count? I really only like more butch girls so there aren't too many straight ones that really get me going. But I also have a thing for older women so teachers is where it's at. However, I think all the teachers I had a crush on when I was younger were gay...so maybe I just have a really good gaydar...

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:30 am


asedc
then he got fat and I really lost interest.


Is it bad that that made me laugh so hard?!
PostPosted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:35 am


I always have crushes on straight guys. I'm not really a huge fan of feminine guys. Here's one major story of mine.

I had just gotten to terms with me being bisexual. I had just started high school. And i saw this guy. The world just stopped. All I could see was him. The bell rang and pulled me out of fantasy land.
He was amazing.
I met him at a a later time.
I fell for him. I fell hard.
He was the first thing I thought about when I woke up.
He was the last thing I thought about when I went to sleep.
But then something happened.
I kind of made it obvious I liked him.
He didn't have to say anything, I knew it was unrequited.
He was straight.
No matter how much I told myself I was over him... I never was.

Half way through the year, he left to another school. Before he left, a huge secret was let out.
He was transgender.
Born a girl, became a guy.
I didn't care.
I liked him. I couldn't stop thinking about him.
He's been gone for a while now but I still think about him.
And wish about what could happen.

P.S. He's actually a spokesperson of the transgender community so i'm not gonna say his name in case you know him.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 29, 2013 6:29 am


There's a straight girl I went to middle school with who in recent years has gotten extremely gorgeous. I mean, she was a very pretty girl in middle school, too, but now she's blossomed quite a bit. She also has an interesting taste in music and films, and is quite funny.
However, even if she were bi, I still don't know if I'd let myself go out with her. You see, she smokes and drinks, and I'm not really into that.
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