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 Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2013 6:26 pm
We have all had our share of dating experiences! Best girlfriend or worst boyfriend! You don't need to provide names if you don't want to. Just tell us why they were the best or worst partners smile . Stories or experiences are welcomed too! Especially funny stories lol
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2013 6:37 pm
My worst boyfriend was a guy I went to school with at a vocational school. I thought he was funny and cool. He was my first boyfriend I was 18 lol very inexperienced no lie. And after 3 months, I find out he smoked pot, drank and partied every weekend, and that he was seeing another girl too. I was upset at first but then I realized there's more guys out there! Duh!! Lol and way cutier then he was and more manlier than him. So in the end I just brushed it off and stopped talking to him. He was mad I did stop seeing him, but hey, my happiness comes first :3
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 5:29 am
“On this home by horror haunted--tell me truly, I implore:"
I've had several LTRs, but the best is the one I'm in now. We've been married since 9/3/2001 and I seriously doubt anyone else would have put up with me for that long. I also seriously doubt anyone else would have put up with my wife for that long. We both have 'issues' that we struggle with, and we support each other very much. We had some very difficult times early on in the marriage, but we were committed and stuck with it, working on our relationship, cultivating it, nurturing it, until we found harmony. We still get a little aggravated with each other, who doesn't, but it's always short lived and we don't fight any more. We express what's going on and eventually things work out. Being open and honest has been very key in our marriage.
"Quoth the raven, gaia_nitemareleft Nevermore gaia_nitemareright ."
- Edgar Allen Poe
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Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 5:43 am
Congrats!!! Its true, more happiness will come in a marriage or relationship when honesty and trust are present.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 9:28 pm
I've had a few relationships, some were amazing, some were horrid. One relationship I had was a few years ago, she and I had met on Gaia, though our interests were completely different, our hearts somehow melded. Eventually, I moved in with her. We had been living together 9 months, then I found she had been talking to someone else 3 months prior, because while she was asleep, her email had been left open. Messages from her to her "Confidant" were read and replied too. Naturally I was curious, so I peaked only to find a horrid situation, that the woman I was living with and had a relationship for almost a year, had been talking about relationship plans behind my back. So, I quick reacted. As I did, I remember her saying "I didn't want you to find out like this". But alas, I did. As of late, I have not spoken to her in years. I do not know if she is still a live, but I know that where ever she is, that she is happy with her confidant.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 9:30 pm
A truly amazing relationship is the one that I am currently in! I and she are to move in together after 2 years. I am hunkering down. Starting a life with the woman I love. She and I were optimistically made for each other. We both have our quirks, though obsessive. We share a common love for our shared interests as well as each other. I could not be happier with another, even in our arguments we find happiness within each others arms.
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 4:06 pm
One of my worst relationships was with a man who once left me at a gas station for over an hour. That was awful.
sad gonk
It might be funny to some though...
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 5:56 pm
That's not funny actually. I would be so upset. If he left me there then I would have gotten a ride from someone I knew.
Hopefully he gets his karma emotion_bigvein emotion_yatta
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Posted: Fri Mar 08, 2013 6:48 am
My worst experience was with my first bf. When we had like nine months of going out, I began to feel he was becoming a bit colder each day. Suddenly, he told me that it was better to break up because he didn't know what he wanted. I was stunned and didn't understand what that meant.
Three days later, he was asking me to come back and I told him where he could go. Four days later, he was with another girl. They even walked in front of me, stood in front of me for a while like posing, and went away. evil
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:17 am
My worst was my ex-fiancee. From the very start she lied, cried and manipulated me. Once I moved to her home town, she got herself fired, mooched, bossed and just...treated me like garbage. It was the first time since I was a kid I'd ever been in a state where any of my family had seen or heard me crying. She ignored my problems or demeaned them (suffers from ADD, mild social anxiety and depression). She actually drove me last summer to the point of severe depression. Things ended last July after 4 years. Oh after the first 8 months she pretty much cut off all real affection. Saying I love you has never been enough, even guys want to hold/be held and stuff like that even if the majority of them refuse to admit it.
That. Is my worst, and that only covers a small glossing over.
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:48 am
uugh. I have had so many bad relationships. the worst was a short dude that was strong like a bull dog. He was a tree cutter. anyway, every once in a while i go through a short period of time where I do not want intimacy, usually about three weeks tops. well he couldn't deal with that and refused to give me my space ever. It got the point that I no longer was attracted to him and as a result he began drinking and smoking again but when he drank and got drunk, he would assault me. even if I was in bed trying to sleep. eventually I moved into a different room but it didn't stop. When I would try to push him away he would laugh and keep doing what he wanted. I hated it so much because my strength was not enough. I was so weak against him. one night after a big fight about how I should drive my car in busy traffic(stupid I know) we got into a physical confrontation. it didn't end well and I still have issues with those months I had to live with him. I also have trouble trusting men. i think the best relationship I was ever in was actually a casual one. neither of us were serious but we had fun together all the time also my sex life with that guy was probably the best i have ever had too. including my current bf. uugh, how do i get him to desire me? or want to do something andything with me?any ideas. (he is a gamer and still holds them more important)
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:50 am
Aiswynd Kiev My worst was my ex-fiancee. From the very start she lied, cried and manipulated me. Once I moved to her home town, she got herself fired, mooched, bossed and just...treated me like garbage. It was the first time since I was a kid I'd ever been in a state where any of my family had seen or heard me crying. She ignored my problems or demeaned them (suffers from ADD, mild social anxiety and depression). She actually drove me last summer to the point of severe depression. Things ended last July after 4 years. Oh after the first 8 months she pretty much cut off all real affection. Saying I love you has never been enough, even guys want to hold/be held and stuff like that even if the majority of them refuse to admit it. That. Is my worst, and that only covers a small glossing over. i agree about the affection thing. my current does not really show any he just likes to grab my parts but doesn't do anything, and his kisses are actually a bit empty. he also rarely does anything with me. crying
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:52 am
-gives you a big hug- Empty kisses are clue...Means there isn't baseline compatibility (yes, flat, bad kissing or amazing kisses means there is a compatibility at least physically and chemically between the couple, my ex the worst kisser I have EVER had the misfortune...) I really can't answer the affection thing though = I wish I could...I spent three years... v-v I hope there's a turn around for you.
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:53 am
deep damage I've had a few relationships, some were amazing, some were horrid. One relationship I had was a few years ago, she and I had met on Gaia, though our interests were completely different, our hearts somehow melded. Eventually, I moved in with her. We had been living together 9 months, then I found she had been talking to someone else 3 months prior, because while she was asleep, her email had been left open. Messages from her to her "Confidant" were read and replied too. Naturally I was curious, so I peaked only to find a horrid situation, that the woman I was living with and had a relationship for almost a year, had been talking about relationship plans behind my back. So, I quick reacted. As I did, I remember her saying "I didn't want you to find out like this". But alas, I did. As of late, I have not spoken to her in years. I do not know if she is still a live, but I know that where ever she is, that she is happy with her confidant. sorry to hear that. I am always afraid that my current will end doing this since he rps(sexually) with others.
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:55 am
Aiswynd Kiev -gives you a big hug- Empty kisses are clue...Means there isn't baseline compatibility (yes, flat, bad kissing or amazing kisses means there is a compatibility at least physically and chemically between the couple, my ex the worst kisser I have EVER had the misfortune...) I really can't answer the affection thing though = I wish I could...I spent three years... v-v I hope there's a turn around for you. i thought it was for a while, but recently I can hardly get his attention. i try to not feel anything cuz it hurts but why cant he even notice that he is hurting me? its stupid that I feel lonely even when sitting near him.
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