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 Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 6:59 pm
So, after a year long relationship I decided to end it because we were no good for each other, there was crying, etc.
Anyway, today she went to GoodWill and bought some short skirts and short shorts, later today she then met up with my 16 year old friend and is still on a walk with him, it's been 6 hours and she's 24.
Am I bad to think she's a spiteful whore and wrong for what's she's doing?
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:07 pm
If I were you, I'd bust her for delinquency.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:10 pm
Pr0dlgy If I were you, I'd bust her for delinquency. Well, personally I want to report her as a ***** but I'd need proof. She's doing it just for revenge. She has older friends. stare
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:12 pm
 They could be just talking or hanging out just because she bought new clothes at a thrift store and is hanging out with a buddy of yours doesn't mean anything. You broke up with her, what she does shouldn't matter to you anymore. Let it go, now if you get actual hard evidence that they are fooling around talk to your friend about it, if he is happy leave him alone and let karma handle it. Quit being a jealous ex.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:17 pm
Subliminal Aftermath They could be just talking or hanging out just because she bought new clothes at a thrift store and is hanging out with a buddy of yours doesn't mean anything. You broke up with her, what she does shouldn't matter to you anymore. Let it go, now if you get actual hard evidence that they are fooling around talk to your friend about it, if he is happy leave him alone and let karma handle it. Quit being a jealous ex. He's 16 and she's 24? He texted her every single day all day while we were dating. He's got a crush on her and honestly, it's almost exactly how her and I got together. It's like watching a black widow pull in it's next prey. I can't help if it bothers me to see the beginning of my relationship play back in front of my eyes.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:21 pm
Deathgod of Legend Subliminal Aftermath They could be just talking or hanging out just because she bought new clothes at a thrift store and is hanging out with a buddy of yours doesn't mean anything. You broke up with her, what she does shouldn't matter to you anymore. Let it go, now if you get actual hard evidence that they are fooling around talk to your friend about it, if he is happy leave him alone and let karma handle it. Quit being a jealous ex. He's 16 and she's 24? He texted her every single day all day while we were dating. He's got a crush on her and honestly, it's almost exactly how her and I got together. It's like watching a black widow pull in it's next prey. I can't help if it bothers me to see the beginning of my relationship play back in front of my eyes. Yes but he has to live his own life, you can warn him but don't interfere with it. He can think and make his own decisions for himself, if it bothers you that much then distance yourself from them. Honestly he doesn't sound like a good friend anyway, you were together with her and he kept texting her and even admitted to having a crush on her. Really? If my friend did that Id kick them to the curb, thats a low move in my book.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:27 pm
Subliminal Aftermath Deathgod of Legend Subliminal Aftermath They could be just talking or hanging out just because she bought new clothes at a thrift store and is hanging out with a buddy of yours doesn't mean anything. You broke up with her, what she does shouldn't matter to you anymore. Let it go, now if you get actual hard evidence that they are fooling around talk to your friend about it, if he is happy leave him alone and let karma handle it. Quit being a jealous ex. He's 16 and she's 24? He texted her every single day all day while we were dating. He's got a crush on her and honestly, it's almost exactly how her and I got together. It's like watching a black widow pull in it's next prey. I can't help if it bothers me to see the beginning of my relationship play back in front of my eyes. Yes but he has to live his own life, you can warn him but don't interfere with it. He can think and make his own decisions for himself, if it bothers you that much then distance yourself from them. Honestly he doesn't sound like a good friend anyway, you were together with her and he kept texting her and even admitted to having a crush on her. Really? If my friend did that Id kick them to the curb, thats a low move in my book. Well, I plan to distance myself. He lives across the street from my cousin, which I'm at my cousin's house now but I'm not concerned with what they're doing, I really just want to know if I'm in the wrong here?
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:43 pm
If you have proof that she's ******** him then bust her. If not then let it go.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:44 pm
Honestly, I would have to think that she's not going to... well, sleep with him.... because chances are, she could get in trouble for it... being that he's not at the legal age. So, she may be teasing him... but if she's smart, she'll avoid actually sleeping with him, because the negatives of actually doing something if greater than anything good that'd come out of it.
Now, she may say she did things with him to try and get you jealous, but if she does... well, you could always tell everyone else about it, spread the word around, and her life would turn into a bit of a mess for having done so, because the difference of age is just a bit gross and that he is underage will lead to at least someone reporting it to the cops... maybe even your cousin’s parents? Idk. It's a weird situation.
Just try to think little of it. Chances are that nothing much is happening.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 9:03 pm
If you broke off the relationship because you recognized that neither of you were good for the other, and she tries to make you jealous by flirting with a kid six years younger than her, I think it's fair to say that you were the level-headed one. I don't know your ex-girlfriend at all except for that, but based on that alone, I would say that she is not a healthy person to be around. What was your relationship like before that? What kinds of things went on before you broke up with her?
Also, if either of them say they've had sex with each other, that's statutory rape and needs to be reported to the police and his parents immediately, even if you think they may just be making it up to hurt you. Having sex with a minor is not something to be treated lightly, even if it was consensual.
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Irako of the Desert Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2012 7:49 pm
Irako of the Desert If you broke off the relationship because you recognized that neither of you were good for the other, and she tries to make you jealous by flirting with a kid six years younger than her, I think it's fair to say that you were the level-headed one. I don't know your ex-girlfriend at all except for that, but based on that alone, I would say that she is not a healthy person to be around. What was your relationship like before that? What kinds of things went on before you broke up with her?
Also, if either of them say they've had sex with each other, that's statutory rape and needs to be reported to the police and his parents immediately, even if you think they may just be making it up to hurt you. Having sex with a minor is not something to be treated lightly, even if it was consensual. Well, she was real childish, writing me letters while I was at work, getting mad at me when I made my own plate to eat or my own drink, it even got so bad she started tying my shoes before work... I felt quite belittled by all this and when I brought it up she acted like I wanted to make her feel useless. We constantly got into arguments when I wanted to go somewhere to hang out with my cousin or do certain things without her, like skim boarding for example- when she went somewhere with me she wanted to be apart of everything I did but she's highly uncoordinated unlike myself and she could never get the hang of skim boarding so when I went I told her I preferred if she didn't go which started an argument that would last a day or so. These are the reasons why I broke up with her to begin with. Anyway, I talked to her when she got back at 11pm that night and she kept swearing all she did was walk and watch a movie at his house so I can't do anymore but believe her but I think she's calmed down a bit.
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 9:50 am
I'd really just suggest dropping it. Don't start conversations with her, don't talk to your "friend" about her, he doesn't sound like much of a friend anyway, and just be move on.
I'm not suggesting that you be impolite or go out of your way to avoid her or try to ignore her. Doing any of those things will just end up making you look like a jerk.
Just move on with your life and if you hear anything about them having sex, report it immediately!
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Irako of the Desert Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 10:34 am
Deathgod of Legend Irako of the Desert If you broke off the relationship because you recognized that neither of you were good for the other, and she tries to make you jealous by flirting with a kid six years younger than her, I think it's fair to say that you were the level-headed one. I don't know your ex-girlfriend at all except for that, but based on that alone, I would say that she is not a healthy person to be around. What was your relationship like before that? What kinds of things went on before you broke up with her?
Also, if either of them say they've had sex with each other, that's statutory rape and needs to be reported to the police and his parents immediately, even if you think they may just be making it up to hurt you. Having sex with a minor is not something to be treated lightly, even if it was consensual. Well, she was real childish, writing me letters while I was at work, getting mad at me when I made my own plate to eat or my own drink, it even got so bad she started tying my shoes before work... I felt quite belittled by all this and when I brought it up she acted like I wanted to make her feel useless. We constantly got into arguments when I wanted to go somewhere to hang out with my cousin or do certain things without her, like skim boarding for example- when she went somewhere with me she wanted to be apart of everything I did but she's highly uncoordinated unlike myself and she could never get the hang of skim boarding so when I went I told her I preferred if she didn't go which started an argument that would last a day or so. These are the reasons why I broke up with her to begin with. Anyway, I talked to her when she got back at 11pm that night and she kept swearing all she did was walk and watch a movie at his house so I can't do anymore but believe her but I think she's calmed down a bit.
Yeah, she's very certainly not a healthy person for you. I think that it was a good idea to break up with her if that's how she treated you. And as everyone else keeps saying, move on with your life and just ignore her. She's reacting to the breakup childishly and all that does is further prove she's not the right one for you. If it's too hard for you to see her with your friend, there's always the option of moving to another neighborhood.
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2012 12:56 pm
Deathgod of Legend So, after a year long relationship I decided to end it because we were no good for each other, there was crying, etc. Anyway, today she went to GoodWill and bought some short skirts and short shorts, later today she then met up with my 16 year old friend and is still on a walk with him, it's been 6 hours and she's 24. Am I bad to think she's a spiteful whore and wrong for what's she's doing? Wait, how old are you?
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 1:05 am
pirulaso Deathgod of Legend So, after a year long relationship I decided to end it because we were no good for each other, there was crying, etc. Anyway, today she went to GoodWill and bought some short skirts and short shorts, later today she then met up with my 16 year old friend and is still on a walk with him, it's been 6 hours and she's 24. Am I bad to think she's a spiteful whore and wrong for what's she's doing? Wait, how old are you? 19.
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