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 Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:23 pm
Surprisingly I have come here to ask for help. I'm having this problem with a guy friend of mine, he's been very pushy on dating me, the problems I have is that he reminds me too much of my ex-husband AND he's ten years older than me but acts 15 years younger than me. I don't mind him as a friend but I don't want to go further, and I told him so, but he doesn't seem to get the message, I'd use the line I'm a lesbian but since I've told him I'm Bi it doesn't really work, I just got out of my marriage with my ex-husband so I don't really have a new man in my life yet. I'm stuck as to what to do to make him back off.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:33 pm
i would just tell him straight up your not ready to date yet or just tell him how you feel, that you like him as a friend and dont wanta ruin it
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:37 pm
That's the thing I already tried that and he is so clueless on the matter of not interested subject that it's getting really annoying. He's actually ruining our friendship because of this.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:37 pm
Tell him if he doesn't back off from wanting a relationship that you'll cut him out of your life.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:41 pm
StateAlchemist Natsu That's the thing I already tried that and he is so clueless on the matter of not interested subject that it's getting really annoying. He's actually ruining our friendship because of this. hmmmmmmmmmmm then ignore him tell your not going to talk to him
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:46 pm
Problem is we were working on a Con together, but he's being a jerk about the website so it's looking like that's going to go flop before we get that started.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:48 pm
Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:51 pm
hmmmmmmmmmm tell him your dating?
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:59 pm
guess it would work specially since I am starting to see someone.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 8:00 pm
thats good so just say your seeing someone and you really like them
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 8:01 pm
Wuppa Wuppa Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob. Sad thing there is that the friends that I know really don't care for him much and he would feel like they were ganging up on him, and would probably drive in towards me more.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 8:18 pm
StateAlchemist Natsu Wuppa Wuppa Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob. Sad thing there is that the friends that I know really don't care for him much and he would feel like they were ganging up on him, and would probably drive in towards me more. Who cares if he feels he's being ganged up on! A woman's wrath is worser than anything! You could try and prank him in a bad way. Like if he's following you, drop something slippery or something so he slips and you can laugh at him. Give him hateful comments!
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 8:47 pm
Wuppa Wuppa StateAlchemist Natsu Wuppa Wuppa Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob. Sad thing there is that the friends that I know really don't care for him much and he would feel like they were ganging up on him, and would probably drive in towards me more. Who cares if he feels he's being ganged up on! A woman's wrath is worser than anything! You could try and prank him in a bad way. Like if he's following you, drop something slippery or something so he slips and you can laugh at him. Give him hateful comments! -backs away slowy- sweatdrop scary
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:07 pm
thesilentcrimsonknight Wuppa Wuppa StateAlchemist Natsu Wuppa Wuppa Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob. Sad thing there is that the friends that I know really don't care for him much and he would feel like they were ganging up on him, and would probably drive in towards me more. Who cares if he feels he's being ganged up on! A woman's wrath is worser than anything! You could try and prank him in a bad way. Like if he's following you, drop something slippery or something so he slips and you can laugh at him. Give him hateful comments! -backs away slowy- sweatdrop scary What? : I'm not creepy...I'm not scary....am I? /flashes grin Don't worry, I scare easy! 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:09 pm
Wuppa Wuppa thesilentcrimsonknight Wuppa Wuppa StateAlchemist Natsu Wuppa Wuppa Get a bunch of your friends to tell him you're not interested! Like a mob. Sad thing there is that the friends that I know really don't care for him much and he would feel like they were ganging up on him, and would probably drive in towards me more. Who cares if he feels he's being ganged up on! A woman's wrath is worser than anything! You could try and prank him in a bad way. Like if he's following you, drop something slippery or something so he slips and you can laugh at him. Give him hateful comments! -backs away slowy- sweatdrop scary What? : I'm not creepy...I'm not scary....am I? /flashes grin Don't worry, I scare easy! 3nodding lol ok ^^ just dont hurt me im not a fight im a nice guy
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