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Nightingale DeLuna

PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 8:49 am


So somehow my hubby and I were in a fight very early this morning (mind case of insomnia). It's quarter to 6 am and I'm playing video games. All of a sudden I hear the shower turn on, curious I go upstairs and try and open the door, it's locked (he does often lock the bathroom door when it's just the two of us in the house), so I don't bother. I wait for the shower to turn off, I've got a fresh pair of boxers waiting for him, I'd knock and he'd let me in. So when the shower turns off I knock, he's silent, I wait for a moment to see if he heard me, no, so I knock again... His response was, "I don't want to talk to you right now."

My response, "What? Excuse me?" ... I was only met with silence.

So I go into our room, waiting for him to return so we can talk, but he takes his clothes and leaves to change in another room. He grabbed his ring off the nightstand and took off. No words, not a sound.

So I'm trying to wrack my brain trying to figure out what the hell is go ing on. I get up this morning with a note attatched to the door, "I'll be working late tonight getting ready for the rest of the week. Please do not come to the school."

I don't know what's going on or what I should do...
PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 12:12 pm


Nightingale DeLuna
So somehow my hubby and I were in a fight very early this morning (mind case of insomnia). It's quarter to 6 am and I'm playing video games. All of a sudden I hear the shower turn on, curious I go upstairs and try and open the door, it's locked (he does often lock the bathroom door when it's just the two of us in the house), so I don't bother. I wait for the shower to turn off, I've got a fresh pair of boxers waiting for him, I'd knock and he'd let me in. So when the shower turns off I knock, he's silent, I wait for a moment to see if he heard me, no, so I knock again... His response was, "I don't want to talk to you right now."

My response, "What? Excuse me?" ... I was only met with silence.

So I go into our room, waiting for him to return so we can talk, but he takes his clothes and leaves to change in another room. He grabbed his ring off the nightstand and took off. No words, not a sound.

So I'm trying to wrack my brain trying to figure out what the hell is go ing on. I get up this morning with a note attatched to the door, "I'll be working late tonight getting ready for the rest of the week. Please do not come to the school."

I don't know what's going on or what I should do...

Yikes! Hopefully there's a way to communicate to him that you honestly don't know why he's upset and to please tell you what is going on.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:19 pm


I suggest giving him the space he seems to need at the moment. Hopefully he will approach you about what is wrong when he is ready. Hope you get things figured out soon.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 5:45 pm


Was there any resoloution?

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 2:11 am


All cheesyness aside time does heal everything. Where it can take you no one can say but I hope the best for you.
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