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So you are being hated on and people wont stop giving you s**t. This is something I have delt with my whole life. In school I was the odd kid, the strange kid who sat in the back of the class. As a child I was picked on made fun of and left out, or pick last. I always ways faced each day with a smile and no matter what happen to me throw out the day I always manage to find a way to smile, and turn it around and became proud of my oddness.

To be able to beat a haters you have to know how a heater things. People who hate on other do it for a few reasons. The first reason is because you are better then them and they want to be like you. (this was not true for me, I was a fat scrob who was not good in sports and just an strange kid) The next reason people hate is because they do not understand, people are scared of things they do not understand. ( I like to think this was some of the reason I was hated on growing up, people just did not get me. I never for real fit in any where and never wanted to fit in with the “normal”. The last reason is to make them self fill better about them self. (I think this is the reason for most haters to hate).

Now that we know why people hate, lets lean what I did to get passed the haters (this is way before I knew I was a Juggalo). When being hated on I did not get mad or upset. I just did not let there wards bother me. Now sometimes I got even , most witch got me in trouble not only at school but at home. Like this one time back in 3rd grade there was this girl in my class who would sit in the desk in front of me and make fun of me all dam day long every single day. (now I was tough you do not hit girls) So thinking to my self I had enough of this stuck up b***h, how can I hurt her with out hitting her. I think I thought about this for a few hours. So I grab the seizers from my desk and I cutt off her pony tale off right under the hair tie. Then I yelled “make fun of that” and throw her hair on her. I marched my happy a** to the office. I was kick out of school for a week because of that one. When my mom found out I was so dam scared (mom is the only person I am scared of still to this day) She picked me up from school and she was so dam mad. When she asked me why I did it I answer because she would not stop making fun of me and I wanted to hurt her and I do not hit girls. She smiled and said you should of told me about her first. That is when I learned my mom is my best friend. Once the week was up I came back to school with the same smile on my face, like I did every day. By the end of the day it just got bigger when I heard all the kids still picking on her calling her “no Hair” The next day I notice it keep on going with her, So at resses I found the first kid I saw that called her “No Hair” and got all up in his face and Said “Its not her falt she has no Hair Its mine, and if you have a problem with her you can bring it up with me” I pushed him then turned around and said sandy I am sorry for messing up your hair and if you have any problems with any one again just come get me I got your back. She gave me the biggest smile any chick has ever gave me up to this point. Then she said I am sorry for making fun of you for so much. That right there made me blush and from that point on me and sandy became best friends. Funny how that turned out.


I have learned over the years haters will stop once they learn it not going to be fun any more for them to hate on you. Sometime you have to show them your self that you will no longer put up with there bull s**t and stand up for your self. So let the haters hate and do not let them bring you down.

I have shared my hart warming story how I have overcame a hater. Please take the time to tell us how you have then we can lean from each other and maybe it will help others out in there quest to stop haters.