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 Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 2:18 am
Trying to get a girls opinion on this...is it wrong to try and catch a girl on the rebound? Well, in my situation it seemed like she tried to catch me...on her own rebound? Idk, I just feel weird about it because I tried comforting her because her boyfriend broke up with her and then it ended up where were going to dinner and I didn't mean for it to turn out like that.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 6:38 am
If it works out great. If it doesn't chalk it up to a rebound. I was a rebound for Craig 16 years ago. He's still around so I guess him rebounding worked out for both of us.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 6:56 am
if you like her, maybe talk to her about it? unless she's the type to get offended easily because then it just might make a big mess. :<
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:40 am
idk with those kind of situations I always feel like there's extra baggage or still drama happening cause it was so soon after a break up.
But I mean if it works out it works out.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 11:41 am
Well my second boyfriend basically got me on the rebound, and that didn't work out too well. But I honestly didn't realize that he was a rebound; it took me a really long time to realize that I grew attached to him so fast was because I wasn't over my first boyfriend. I've also had a few unofficial rebounds, and none of those worked out.
So I don't know. It didn't work out that well for me, but I kind of think that's because we really weren't friends before we dated; we basically only talked because he liked me. But I think it can work as long as you're careful. :3
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 1:59 pm
i try to keep my rebounds as hook ups only, it keeps away any complications :x
maybe you guys can talk about it? it'd be good; you'll be able to determine how serious you guys may end up being together. but personally i think it'd be better to float on by yourself for a little while and get used to being single. it's really fun once you keep yourself busy enough to not feel lonely.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 2:19 pm
I'm obviously not a girl, but I was sort of a rebound once upon a time. Lasted for about a year and a half or so, but after I moved us to her home town she ended up leaving me for the last dude. I'd wait if you want a higher chance of it lasting.
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 6:42 pm
I figure as long as a relationship isn't forced during a "rebound", then it's fine.
because, really. after a break-up I would be so appreciative of something to take my mind off it.
and if that something happens to be a boy a went out to dinner with and it turns into a steady thing, then sweet.
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