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PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:23 am


Ok for a fact i KNOW I'm bisexual but I've been leaning toward girls a lot. I've only had 2 girlfriends in real life since i started dating, but there is a girl that I've had for a friend for a long long time. I think I like her but I honestly think it would be awkward? Any one have any suggestions?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 12:33 pm


How serious is your crush?
Do you know if the other girl is bi/lesb? o:

Of course, you never know how things will turn out if you don't try them out. If you know that the girl also likes girls and is available at the moment, you could at least ask what she thinks and if she's interested. That way you wouldn't even have to confess your feelings or anything, just "ask out of curiosity". ;D If she says no, you can just say "okay, it's cool" and there's a chance nothing changes.

If you don't know her orientation, I guess start with trying to find that out. Trying to lead the conversation to asking whether she's straight or not might be awkward but if you really like her, it might be worth it. x'3

Or, if you don't want to risk anything yet and want to be sure about your feelings first, just try imagining her as your girlfriend. Would it work in your mind? Does it seem fun? Do you really want it? I guess once you've figured out your true feelings, you might get more courageous with your actions. :3

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 12:41 pm


She was straight but she said she might be Bisexual she's not sure... and i think she is single i might try it out.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2011 5:20 pm


I had a friend who was in a similar situation once. My friend was bi, and she had a crush on a friend of hers who was straight. My friend told her how she felt multiple times, and was being a little pushy about it. Her friend was not interested in her, and it hurt their friendship a lot.

You should talk to her and find out if she really is bi. If she isn't interested, then don't be too pushy. But it would be good to tell her how you feel, and see what she thinks about it. 3nodding

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