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 Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 5:26 pm
so my boyfriend is really busy with school. and when he's not busy with school, he's busy with work/friends/whatever.
i get that he's busy, i do. but when i bring up not being able to spend any sort of time together he gets all snappy and the subject is basically dismissed.
like, am i just supposed to suck it up? i don't think it's fair that i'm just expected to deal without him showing any sort of effort to spend or make time for me. i don't even need the time to be hanging out. just a call in the evening once in a while where we can talk where he's not distracted with something else.
it's been like this for a month and it's really starting to wear on me. it's kinda made me feel insecure about things. and i feel needy and ughhh. i like that he has his own life and i have mine but for this to work i need some time and affection every so often. sad
i'm basically ranting to you guys cause when i try to bring this up with him, it always escalates to something terrible.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:44 am
When you guys DO spend time together, it's pretty much always YOU that initiates it, right?
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:57 am
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:59 am
I know exactly how you feel.
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