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 Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 10:24 am
Your take on them?
We'll include alcohol in this too.
How do you feel about your partners use of it?
I mean, I smoke weed, LOL NO BIG SURPRISE and I drink occasionally. Jeremy's totally fine with it. He drinks and that's totally fine, but he doesn't really smoke weed or do any other drugs.
I mean if he dropped e one night out of a blue moon I would be like
WELL BE CAREFULLL
but if it became a more frequent thing or with other drugs too I would be like l:
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 11:39 am
Neither Josh nor I drink or do any other drugs because we really don't see the point (also he's had a few sips of alcohol before and he thinks it's gross)(I've had champagne and that s**t is nasty). If he started either it wouldn't be a dealbreaker (as long as he wasn't reckless) but I would still be like why neutral
Like, once I'm 21 I'm probably going to have a drink occasionally but I feel that as long as I'm not getting shitfaced he's going to be okay with it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 11:43 am
i started smoking a lot of weed when i first got to college, but i've since cut back. i maybe smoke once a week.
i don't drink a lot. maybe once or twice a month.
other than that i don't do anything.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 12:09 pm
I don't mind if my boyfriend smokes weed or drinks.
I'd be more comfortable if he was around me if he did the first, but I don't care, that's just 'cause I'm caring/worried. XD
As for myself, I almost never drink and I've done weed once, but I wouldn't mind doing it again.
I'm really only tolerant about weed and alcohol, anything else seems too dangerous.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 12:51 pm
Smoking and drinking does not bother me if you do so in moderation. There are times I am just SEIZED with the want to do stupid s**t with my friends, but I'm still pretty safe about it. Anything beyond the standard intake (cigarettes, alcohol, marijuana) is pretty much more than I can handle.
ADDENDUM: Oh, and don't get an idiot about what you do while on them. "Let's get tanked and watch a movie!" is better than "let's get tanked and try jumping off the porch in cool ways!"
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 12:54 pm
Undecidability I dont drink or do any other drugs because I really don't see the point (also i've had alcohol before and it's alright). If anybody i was dating started either it wouldn't be a dealbreaker (as long as he wasn't reckless) but I would still be like why neutral
Like, once I'm 19 I'm probably going to have a drink occasionally.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 1:42 pm
Neither of us take drugs or drink.
Anjel used to smoke pot but has since stopped before we even dated.
He was never stupid about it anyways.
Both our families have had or still do have problems with both, which is why we don't.
I won't date anyone who does either. I did it once and he had a problem with it. He went as far as lying about stopping when we first started dating. |:
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 2:50 pm
Life is short, have fun. ;D
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 3:13 pm
I don't really care if it's not a problem. Like if it's actually a major part of their life and is really affecting it, then yeah, that's a no go. But a little pot or whatever for fun is, in my opinion, no worse than alcohol.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 4:16 pm
Okay. I don't care if lets say I ever get a SO, if he drinks sometimes. SOMETIMES though. Not like every other day getting hammered.
I got buzzed once. And I absolutely HATED IT. I felt pathetic. Because my mind was still conscious, but I myself was acting like a ******** retard. And in my head I'm like "WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT AND DON'T DO THAT" and I'd still do that and go "WHY DID YOU DO THAT" it was stupid. Like, I don't get it.
I'd never smoke. Pot smells TERRIBLE, and I don't understand cigarettes. The only reason I'd ever pick up cigarettes [even though its a .0001% chance of me ever) is to keep me skinny or something. But nothing else.
Yeah so aside from that one time of drinking, I'd never smoke or drink.
But my SO can't do it all the time. Its not cute.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:39 pm
smoke weed every day don't give a ******** not really.
All of my SO's have done drugs/were doing drugs. Dee was the worst obviously, I mean she did heroin a few times.
But I smoke, drink, do other bad things occasionally. I've done acid, ecstasy, coke...but I'd never do meth or heroin.
I've already asked Alexis and she said as long as she's not with me while I'm dropping acid or something she doesn't mind at all. She just worries. She smokes occasionally also.
I don't know what I'd do if my SO wanted me to stop completely. :<
lol
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 10:09 pm
I find people who do a lot of drugs have no personality and are just boring.
Get a hobby.
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Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 1:45 am
Moosenstein I find people who do a lot of drugs have no personality and are just boring. Get a hobby. I like this.
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Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:14 am
But uhm. He told me I was lucky I don't have a sketchy past to haunt me. It was all recreational and he is not an addict but none the less I can't help but get freaked out a little. Can't remember if he regrets it or not, just that it's helped him grow. According to a friend it would be easier to list what drug he HASN'T done. It all started with smoking pot in middle school. MIDDLE SCHOOL. And I guess he spilled the beans to his mom once and she was all Oh well as long as it's not habitual. =
That kind of thing makes me worried about their health and the future if they ever get into it again, wondering how deep they would get in, etc...
I we ever became a couple and I saw/heard him doing something I think I would drop him like *that*. neutral Because he said he was done with it and doing it again would be breaking your word and lying.
On another note I know someone else who doesn't do any drugs like that, but he smokes. And he said he smokes mainly when he gets depressed.
Even though drugs are worse that sort of dependent second personality who smokes seems more dangerous and sketchy than the first one?
Like I know people who are all OH I WOULD NEVER DO DRUGS -drink drink *blackout*-
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Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:58 am
He .. doesn't. So it doesn't really bother me. It might if he did. I know I freaked out when he did 14 shots of absinthe but only because I was worried about alcohol poisoning. xd Idk. I know he's not a retard and I trust his judgment. He doesn't really like me drinking n' stuff but mostly just cuz he wants me to be safe and PARTIES R DANGEROUS. 
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