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 Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 9:03 pm
Ok, so.... theres this chick named steph, and I have been friends with her for a very long time... and then... some where in bettween all those long talks, stupid fights, and silly jokes we made.. I fell in love with her.... But, she is all like... gay/bie hater... soooo.... I have a problem.... I Need Advice!
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 9:09 pm
Wow. eek If she doesn't like gay/bi people do you really wanna take a chance and tell her you love her with the possibility that your friendship will become awkward? You might wanna think this out a little more before telling her. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 11:48 pm
I would advise you not to tell her. If she's a real gay/bi hater then it might ruin your friendship with her.
It might be very painful not to tell her, but you wouldn't want to risk the friendship coming to an end, right?
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:03 am
I'm personally NOT ok with keeping stuff inside. I think that you should tell her. Explain to her how you feel and that you know that she's not ok with that. Also that you needed to get it off of your chest. If she's a REAL friend she will understand and not judge you. She may be a little weirded out by it but that's all good.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 3:16 pm
Thanks for the help, I need the advice.... I'm going to wait till more people vote.
Yeah, and I have this other friend that I told, and I thought I could trust her... Now because I've waited so long to tell her i love her, this other friend is saying she will tell her for me, even If I don't want her to... what do you think I should do with this other friend? confused
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 7:56 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 Thanks for the help, I need the advice.... I'm going to wait till more people vote. Yeah, and I have this other friend that I told, and I thought I could trust her... Now because I've waited so long to tell her i love her, this other friend is saying she will tell her for me, even If I don't want her to... what do you think I should do with this other friend? confused *goes into Heero mode* I would silence her.. forever eek j/k. but seriously, what that chick is doing is stupid as hell, I hate people like that, the ones who are like "oh it's none of my business and it's not my right to tell someone something that I was told but I'm going to anyways." They disgust me.. as for what to do, I'm not really sure.. I feel bad for you though, it seems like you have friends who are very open minded to things. I have the opposite so I haven't had that problem. Also, if telling you bff that you fell inlove with her, I don't suggest telling her, I know it's hard but I rather have that friendship instead of having nothing. Friendships are just as important as relationships, just keep that in mind.. I have friend who values her relationship more than her friendship.. they should be equal. But ya know, sure taking risks is part of life, but if you already know what the outcome will be, why take that risk and lose something that you value?
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 3:04 am
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 Thanks for the help, I need the advice.... I'm going to wait till more people vote. Yeah, and I have this other friend that I told, and I thought I could trust her... Now because I've waited so long to tell her i love her, this other friend is saying she will tell her for me, even If I don't want her to... what do you think I should do with this other friend? confused
Whoa, for a moment there, you had me thinking you were Black_Rain ^^; (by the looks of your avi)
And I agree with Heero 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 8:14 am
Well you could tell her that your gay/bi and if she is really great friends with you then she'll undersatnd then later on make passes at her and see wat she says
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 8:42 am
Ohh that's bad. Unless you can turn her...you should forget about the whole thing. Or maybe if she's open minded....does she know that you're bi/gay?
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 11:46 am
skullcrushergurl Ohh that's bad. Unless you can turn her...you should forget about the whole thing. Or maybe if she's open minded....does she know that you're bi/gay? Shes totaly closed minded, I tried to make her open minded, but it didn't work.... and right about now, our friendship is falling apart.
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:01 pm
6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 skullcrushergurl Ohh that's bad. Unless you can turn her...you should forget about the whole thing. Or maybe if she's open minded....does she know that you're bi/gay? Shes totaly closed minded, I tried to make her open minded, but it didn't work.... and right about now, our friendship is falling apart. It's been my experence that people like that are just in denile.
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 3:09 pm
Goodwitchofthesoutheast 6~hopeless.way.of.life~9 skullcrushergurl Ohh that's bad. Unless you can turn her...you should forget about the whole thing. Or maybe if she's open minded....does she know that you're bi/gay? Shes totaly closed minded, I tried to make her open minded, but it didn't work.... and right about now, our friendship is falling apart. It's been my experence that people like that are just in denile. In denile of what?
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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 3:14 pm
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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:14 pm
it depends... how strong would you say your friendship with her is?
could you trust her with ANYTHING? like, if you got raped, would she be one of the first you told? (sorry, that's be best example I can think of right now)
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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 11:29 pm
Denile? Denial 3nodding xd
I would say go for it. The longer you wait and keep this on your chest, the bigger of a problem it will become (Yes, i've just contradicted my self on the 'i think im bi...' thread XD). If she is really your best friend who you can trust with your life, then she would probaly understand, no matter how open minded she is.
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