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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 2:14 am


So after a nice little romp with my girlfriend this evening, my girl expressed an interest in a**l sex the next time we get together (which is likely tomorrow night)

I've never tried it before. Not very nervous about it or anything because I know she's tried it before so at least one of us has some experience with it. But I have a couple of questions. I'mma google my questions to but some personal experience answers would be nice.

First of all, lube. While we we still kinda of in a sexy mood she lubed up her a** and I fingered her there a bit. Slight problem though, it was KY warming touch and she mentioned it burns her a bit. So any suggested/reccomended lubes?

And otherwise just any general tips/advice in this regard?
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 5:52 am


Whatever you do, don't throw up in her a*****e. Unless she's into that. But you know. general rule of thumb.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 12:35 pm


You know I only do that for OUR sexy time, Travis redface
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:03 pm


Use some other good lube that is just plain, with no 'stimulants' (tingly sensation/warming/cooling, whatever).
Generally people recommend Astroglide, but I have no clue if they sell that in drug stores or not. XD

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:12 pm


Normal lube, silicone based.
Water based dries up.
I'd say be careful but she seems to know what she's doing.

Also lucky b*****d.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:35 pm


Don't use anything with Niacin.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:48 pm


Felin Greenleaf
Normal lube, silicone based.
Water based dries up.
I'd say be careful but she seems to know what she's doing.

Also lucky b*****d.


I don't understand the allure of a**l.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:59 pm


I use Wet brand lube. Try using the naturals kind, in case she may have an allergy. 3nodding I would always go with a more gentle, water-based lubricant for this activity.

Use a condom the first time, just so you don't get too grossed out by the fact that-

There's feces in there, man.

Not like she's gonna poop on ya, but it does happen occasionally. There might be some discharge, and she might do um... Embarrassing things while you're in there. (Farting) Make sure to also go to the bathroom afterward, as well. If you decided ever to give her a**l, without a barrier method, you run the risk of getting a UTI. They suck really bad. a**l in the shower might be a very good way to introduce each other to the new pleasures. You might even talk her into taking a shower afterward, and get cleaned up together.

Otherwise, a**l is a great experience. Talk to her about how rough she likes it, and how fast she wants you to go, as that is key in how to get you both off. Make sure to stimulate her first, and make sure she wants to receive the a**l- You have no idea how disturbing it is to receive a d**k in your a** without confirmation first.

If she's quite experienced, she might like a nice rough ride, and might even ride you back. It's quite tight back there, so keep that in mind, too. xd

Just enjoy it. I'm sure you'll do fine.

tl; dr

gl hf

B i n a R a b b i t


unfathomable

PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 2:16 pm


This link seems helpful.
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 2:42 pm


Reading that link just made me grossed out by a**l where I wasn't before.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 3:07 pm


Tenacious Travis
Felin Greenleaf
Normal lube, silicone based.
Water based dries up.
I'd say be careful but she seems to know what she's doing.

Also lucky b*****d.


I don't understand the allure of a**l.

Personally, I'm a little excited but really it's not something I've really seen the allure in either. But she seems to see some allure in it, soo... xp

But yeah, thanks for the wealth of information ladies wink
PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:20 pm


unfathomable
This link seems helpful.


"Getting poo smell off fingers (and wien). If soap doesn't work, toothpaste will do the trick."

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Great Scoot

PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 2:12 pm


Me and Tiffany use a brand called Bodyglide silicon lube or something... It's really good, we both love it.

That's about all I can say.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:43 pm


Kobei
I use Wet brand lube. Try using the naturals kind, in case she may have an allergy. 3nodding I would always go with a more gentle, water-based lubricant for this activity.

Use a condom the first time, just so you don't get too grossed out by the fact that-

There's feces in there, man.

Not like she's gonna poop on ya, but it does happen occasionally. There might be some discharge, and she might do um... Embarrassing things while you're in there. (Farting) Make sure to also go to the bathroom afterward, as well. If you decided ever to give her a**l, without a barrier method, you run the risk of getting a UTI. They suck really bad. a**l in the shower might be a very good way to introduce each other to the new pleasures. You might even talk her into taking a shower afterward, and get cleaned up together.

Otherwise, a**l is a great experience. Talk to her about how rough she likes it, and how fast she wants you to go, as that is key in how to get you both off. Make sure to stimulate her first, and make sure she wants to receive the a**l- You have no idea how disturbing it is to receive a d**k in your a** without confirmation first.

If she's quite experienced, she might like a nice rough ride, and might even ride you back. It's quite tight back there, so keep that in mind, too. xd

Just enjoy it. I'm sure you'll do fine.

tl; dr

gl hf

Edge is happier than a pig in s**t right now (no pun intended).

Xahmen


LeRaven

PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:55 pm


rofl rofl DAMIEN




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