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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 5:26 pm


I've been cutting for almost two years, as have alot of my former friends.. I just wanted some peoples views on the subject. Thanks [:
PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:01 pm


Cutting is an extremely unhealthy way to deal with stress or other issues. Anyone who cannot stop cutting on their own should talk to a professional about it.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:19 pm


LorienLlewellyn
Cutting is an extremely unhealthy way to deal with stress or other issues. Anyone who cannot stop cutting on their own should talk to a professional about it.



Seconded. smile
PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:51 pm



I agree with Nicolita & LorienLlewellyn~ it's a very unhealthy way to deal with anything, trust me, I've been there.

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Valgex

PostPosted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 6:12 pm


I was thinking. We should have a topic showing different gruesome cutting images. It may help prevent people from doing it to themselves by looking out how nasty it looks when your cutting yourself. Put the thought in, "I don't want my arm or my leg to look like that!!" You know?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2011 7:59 pm


Valgex
I was thinking. We should have a topic showing different gruesome cutting images. It may help prevent people from doing it to themselves by looking out how nasty it looks when your cutting yourself. Put the thought in, "I don't want my arm or my leg to look like that!!" You know?


Some people may think the way you do, but trust me -I'm a recovering cutter- this is just something that would 'trigger' a cutter. I can't speak for all cutters, weather in recovery or not, but to me, its beauty, its my art work.

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 1:29 pm


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Valgex
I was thinking. We should have a topic showing different gruesome cutting images. It may help prevent people from doing it to themselves by looking out how nasty it looks when your cutting yourself. Put the thought in, "I don't want my arm or my leg to look like that!!" You know?


Some people may think the way you do, but trust me -I'm a recovering cutter- this is just something that would 'trigger' a cutter. I can't speak for all cutters, weather in recovery or not, but to me, its beauty, its my art work.
So, when you cut yourself, you tend to make smiley faces then?
PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 6:19 pm


Valgex
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Valgex
I was thinking. We should have a topic showing different gruesome cutting images. It may help prevent people from doing it to themselves by looking out how nasty it looks when your cutting yourself. Put the thought in, "I don't want my arm or my leg to look like that!!" You know?


Some people may think the way you do, but trust me -I'm a recovering cutter- this is just something that would 'trigger' a cutter. I can't speak for all cutters, weather in recovery or not, but to me, its beauty, its my art work.
So, when you cut yourself, you tend to make smiley faces then?


No, not at all. Art work does not consist of just smiley faces. Think of it as well, regular peices of art. Like paintings, tattoos, piercings, etc.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 10:28 am


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Valgex
I was thinking. We should have a topic showing different gruesome cutting images. It may help prevent people from doing it to themselves by looking out how nasty it looks when your cutting yourself. Put the thought in, "I don't want my arm or my leg to look like that!!" You know?


Some people may think the way you do, but trust me -I'm a recovering cutter- this is just something that would 'trigger' a cutter. I can't speak for all cutters, weather in recovery or not, but to me, its beauty, its my art work.
So, when you cut yourself, you tend to make smiley faces then?


No, not at all. Art work does not consist of just smiley faces. Think of it as well, regular peices of art. Like paintings, tattoos, piercings, etc.
So you tend to make objects/Designs then? Or the other kind of art that claims a bunch of random lines to be art?
PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 1:09 pm


Valgex
So you tend to make objects/Designs then? Or the other kind of art that claims a bunch of random lines to be art?

I could be wrong, but I don't think she means art in that literal of a sense. I think she's saying that cutters often feel almost artistic or sentimental about their cuts. The same can be true for anorexics and their visible rib cages. It's certainly not art that you'll find in a traditional museum, but they still often feel like it's something they created, something born of their passion, and therefore something that many of them are proud of. So to people with a healthy mindset, looking at pictures of cuts and scars might make them think, "Boy, I sure don't want to look like that." But to someone who's cutting or otherwise not in the healthiest of mindsets, they might think something more like, "Gosh, I wonder if I can get my cuts to look like that/I wonder if I can outdo her/That makes me want to show mine off/etc." In fact, a lot of controversial anorexic websites have been popping up over the years where people post pictures, compare rib cages, egg each other on, try to one up each other, etc., even though the pictures might look really unappealing to people who are not anorexic. So pictures of things like that can often do more harm that good.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 7:13 pm


LorienLlewellyn
Valgex
So you tend to make objects/Designs then? Or the other kind of art that claims a bunch of random lines to be art?

I could be wrong, but I don't think she means art in that literal of a sense. I think she's saying that cutters often feel almost artistic or sentimental about their cuts. The same can be true for anorexics and their visible rib cages. It's certainly not art that you'll find in a traditional museum, but they still often feel like it's something they created, something born of their passion, and therefore something that many of them are proud of. So to people with a healthy mindset, looking at pictures of cuts and scars might make them think, "Boy, I sure don't want to look like that." But to someone who's cutting or otherwise not in the healthiest of mindsets, they might think something more like, "Gosh, I wonder if I can get my cuts to look like that/I wonder if I can outdo her/That makes me want to show mine off/etc." In fact, a lot of controversial anorexic websites have been popping up over the years where people post pictures, compare rib cages, egg each other on, try to one up each other, etc., even though the pictures might look really unappealing to people who are not anorexic. So pictures of things like that can often do more harm that good.


Agreed upon, thanks.
PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2011 11:58 am


Gotcha

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