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 Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 8:02 am
im under sever stress so dont post being stupid or snapping will happen.
for the past couple weeks... motnhs my sister has been completly different and now hangs with her boyfriend al lthe time. almost everyday. She takes everything out on mom and me...as well as starts fights. it got really bad last night nad mom finally told her to have her boyfriend find her a place to live because she cant take it anymore. that my sis doesnt want to be here than fine she can leave. it hurts alot and my sister was acting.. .well out of it... like it all was a joke. i dont know whats wrong with her but it got bad last night. i am so stressed im sick... my chest hurts abit and i cant eat. and yet my sis still doesnt see what she is doing to us. there is somethign about er boyfriend me my mom and my brother in law just dont like. i didnt like him before sis started dating him. she keeps saying how she loves him and on and on... when we dont say anything. its obvious somethign is going on and she is tryign to make herself love him. i just wish my ex friend hadnt broke up her and her real love.
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 4:33 pm
That sounds absolutely horrid.....normaly I would be thrilled but slightly annoyed at the mentioning of the word "love", but....I'm not thrilled....You got to hate when drama happens....notice any other strange quirks that pop up....like when she's around him.....or such....btw....how old is your sister and her boyfriend?
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 10:44 pm
:/ Sounds like your sister is being immature. How long has she been with this guy? She needs to get her priorities straight. Family > boyfriend.
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Posted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:24 am
I'd like to help you but it feels a little like you wanted to vent and be heard more than get advice. We're all here for you, and let me know if there's anything that I can do. Until then, I really hope that it all works out for you.
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Posted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 6:31 am
ground her or kick her out.
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Posted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 8:21 am
1.shes acting out and shes just grown up to becom this
2. her bf is controling and or she hangs around him to much and this is how he acts so it rubs off on her and it could be her bf or her bfs friends
3.her friends might have changed and shes following what there doing
but now you can sit there and cry and be hurt about something your sissters doing something she has control over not you or you can take action and just tell your sister to shut up when she talks and help your mom out and be extra nice to her and help her out and talk to her and let her know your still the same and you still care
you got to relize people change we all do some alittle some alot when and where it happens no one will know but when people change good or bad its up to you and it IS your choice wether or not you let it effect you
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Posted: Sat Sep 25, 2010 11:00 pm
Yeah, she's just going through something. My baby brother is going through stuff right now. For that matter, so are my parents... She may say some stuff, or act out, but she'll learn that you guys are what counts in the grand scheme of things.
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