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 Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2010 8:47 pm
Okay, so My partner and I have been out for 3 years and 9 months (4 years dec 21) It was a rough road, I had a gun pulled on me by their dad, Now they live with their mom and I am accepted and known by all as their partner, my parents told me not to tell anyone because of disownage issues, I just agreed whatever,
My bestie came out to me that he is gay, and I helped him come out to his parents, they accepted him no prob.
This upsets me I want to be accepted by my family too, its been 4 years I have been out for 6 o.o
I am 17 btw
advice sugestions similar stories?? heart heart heart
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Posted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 2:06 pm
I'm kinda in the same thing, except that I'd NEVER tell my parents. I've told my friends I was bi, and they think it's hilarious, and make a point of making fun of me whenever they possibly can... so yea, kinda the same position
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 7:08 pm
soyouwannarevolution I'm kinda in the same thing, except that I'd NEVER tell my parents. I've told my friends I was bi, and they think it's hilarious, and make a point of making fun of me whenever they possibly can... so yea, kinda the same position it sucks
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:15 pm
soyouwannarevolution I'm kinda in the same thing, except that I'd NEVER tell my parents. I've told my friends I was bi, and they think it's hilarious, and make a point of making fun of me whenever they possibly can... so yea, kinda the same position Dont worry just tell them to f u c k off it works everytime and if they make fun of u there not worth ur time or attention
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 10:12 pm
So I thought my mom accepted me and my sister but I got into another fight about going to VIP (which is the local LGBT club) on my 18th birthday. It's like she says she understands, but she totally doesn't get it. Especially when it comes to dressing like a guy. My sister is moving back to the bay area (she went to College in the bay area) and she is like my whole support system. I may not live in the bible belt, but it is pretty bad here in Southern California. It's like the California version of the bible belt. Atleast it has been lately.
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2010 11:20 am
~chuckles~
Telling my family was a disaster. I live in Utah, and my parents are extremely religious. My mother screamed at me and hit me when I told her I'm lesbian, and my dad cried. xD My friends have become my real family; they're very supportive. I couldn't get by without them.
One thing's for sure, though; I'm ******** out of here as soon as I'm 18. Every day has been hell since I came out to my family.
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2010 11:59 am
i didnt come out, as much as, my friends saw me kissing my now ex bf. most of them are ok with me being bi, some of the gurls ive asked out have had a problem with my sexualilty. i finally came out to my mom. my brother knows but i deny it, so he doesnt tell the rest of my family. ny dad kinda sorta knows, but i have no plans to fully come out to him. btw, my brother is ignorant about this kind of thing and is very homophobic. as is one of my best friends. a couple of my super relgious friends, tell me about how im "going" to hell and stuff like that. in fact i was in campus crusade of christ last year. first semester i stopped going cuz the then president had a problem with the LGBT "issue"
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 6:40 pm
My mom and sisters make fun of me saying stuff like "Oh, you'd rather eat than suck huh?" My dad totally accepts me.
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Posted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 5:35 pm
I came out to friends before anyone else. They were all cool with it. And when I meet new people, if they aren't ok with it, ******** them. I don't care. So far living in California I think has definently made things easier. SOCAL REPRESENT! lol Even in the conservative places that i've lived, I've had good friends and not a whole lot of s**t about my sexuality from others. But as far as family good its a totally different story..and we'll just leave it at that.
Sucks not being accepted. Thats why I hate it when people complain about how supportive their parents are or something. Its like, dude, you dont have to go through all this bullshit I go through, shut the F up! Be happy! Your family didnt choose a damn science fiction book over you!
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