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 Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 6:58 pm
Yesterday, I finally decided to make an account on AVEN so I can post and stuffs.
So I was looking around on it this morning and my mom burst through the door. I hid the window as quickly as possible and just said it was a total coincidence that I was closing a window when she came it. ninja
Apparently, she believed me and never saw the site I was on.
And I swear I'm only doing this because I'm a GDer. D;
Knife-feeding:
"Coming out"- do your parents know?
AVEN boards and how slowly they move. D":
Making discussion tags in a guild and not in the GD. ;-;
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 10:10 pm
I don't know if they know... well... mom should know... but she's like... my parents aren't that smart at all...
I just explained what "IV" meant when I ordered the badge. And I'm wearing it sometimes (along with like 10-20 other badges xd )
Maybe she thinks it means you're like... not a girl nor a boy.
And now I have a boyfriend (I think she thought I was homosexual o_O ) so I guess she doesn't worry anymore, I have to be hetero now, right? (or not)
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 11:28 am
Chocolate Cocaine Yesterday, I finally decided to make an account on AVEN so I can post and stuffs. So I was looking around on it this morning and my mom burst through the door. I hid the window as quickly as possible and just said it was a total coincidence that I was closing a window when she came it. ninja Apparently, she believed me and never saw the site I was on. And I swear I'm only doing this because I'm a GDer. D; Knife-feeding:"Coming out"- do your parents know? AVEN boards and how slowly they move. D": Making discussion tags in a guild and not in the GD. ;-; Who what? My mom doesn't know anything and my dad thinks I am a homosexual...... I discuss stuff.... just ummm I am confused at what the 3rd option means....?
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 3:58 pm
XenoReiji Chocolate Cocaine Yesterday, I finally decided to make an account on AVEN so I can post and stuffs. So I was looking around on it this morning and my mom burst through the door. I hid the window as quickly as possible and just said it was a total coincidence that I was closing a window when she came it. ninja Apparently, she believed me and never saw the site I was on. And I swear I'm only doing this because I'm a GDer. D; Knife-feeding:"Coming out"- do your parents know? AVEN boards and how slowly they move. D": Making discussion tags in a guild and not in the GD. ;-; Who what? My mom doesn't know anything and my dad thinks I am a homosexual...... I discuss stuff.... just ummm I am confused at what the 3rd option means....? It's a GD joke. xD
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 5:15 pm
Meh. I've been telling my mom that I had no interest in -anything- more than friendship since I was around 13-14, but she's only taken me half-seriously. My dad, however, is under the firm belief that everything with teenage hormones wants to screw anything that'll fit, simply because that's the way he was when he was a kid. When I tried to tell him, he looked at me like I was an alien and immediately dissmissed me as one of those notorious "late bloomers" every teenage asexual in this guild seems to be. Because we all KNOW it's impossible for anyone who isn't a parent to have an original thought in their head. surprised
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:08 pm
My mom never believes me. I don't think my dad cares. She speaks to me as if she knows exactly what she's talking about, and as if I know nothing about anything. Guys like girls, girls like guys, guys will find girls, girls will find guys...it's not a rule, mom!
I don't even bother trying to talk to them about it anymore. It's pointless. My mom won't even put my thoughts into much consideration. She shoves her point of view in my face, as if it were the law of the land or some holy decree passed down by Jehova Almighty or something.
I'm just going to wait until I'm twenty-five and shove it in my mom's face. She should know by then.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:47 pm
I haven't told them, but if I did they'd probably just say 'That's fine.' They know I don't really think sexually about people...I don't think they'd mind. It wouldn't be huge news to them.
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Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 12:37 pm
I actually tried telling them I was asexual/a-romantic once, and they gave me the classic, "Oh, you just haven't found the right person, yet!"
I hate how we teenagers are NEVER taken seriously.
I mean, they're our feelings, nobody else's, so what's the problem?
rolleyes
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 8:27 pm
sweatdrop sweatdrop umm, whats a GD? General Disscusion?
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 9:48 am
About joining AVEN...I've read up on everything they had there, which is awesome stuff mind you, but I have sworn not to join, make an account, and meet people unless...my current relationship doesn't work out. Makes sense to me, I mean, I am completely happy with it right now, so I shouldn't be out there looking. I know, I know, that's not what AVEN is all about, but if you think about it, would you be more comfortable in a sexual relationship or an asexual one? So I guess I'm protecting myself, protecting my love.
My parents do not know. Nor do I plan on telling them any time soon, they would be right in the category of saying "you're too young to know things like this". It's just better like this for now. Maybe I'll never even have to tell them. I mean, when you're married, should you really be telling them if you're having sex or not? But actually now that I think about it, there's that whole children problem...Well, I'm game for adotping... And I'm done rambling. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 5:15 pm
NekomiChan001 sweatdrop sweatdrop umm, whats a GD? General Disscusion?
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Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 4:22 am
I attempted to explain once, and my parents didn't listen or didn't understand, one of the two. I have since given up trying to deny it when they accuse me of being gay. If it stops them from trying to set me up, fine.
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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 10:29 am
Yonde I actually tried telling them I was asexual/a-romantic once, and they gave me the classic, "Oh, you just haven't found the right person, yet!"
I hate how we teenagers are NEVER taken seriously.
I mean, they're our feelings, nobody else's, so what's the problem?
rolleyes I've thought about telling them, but ended up asking them what they thought about asxuality, me giving an explination. They thought it was the stupidest thing they had ever heard of. You would think that conservative parents like mine would be HAPPY that I am assuredly not going to have sex. I thoguht that was the sort of things parents wanted their kids not to do, yet then they turn right around and say that it's wrong to not like anyone, because you should or whatever. I would think it better to stay as far away from it, rather than teetering the fence, in the veiwpoint of heterosexuals. they've given me that line as well, Yonde. Then they say not to get too serious too young. It's impossible to tell which way they'll be leaning from one moment to the next. I know, I tell them tat I'm never getting married when my parents ask if I'm interested in ayone at school, yet they say "Those are the famous last words that all kids say. Maybe your just a late bloomer." Oddly enough, I was actually an early bloomer. they just think that we're not mature or old enough to know them, but it IS possible for teens to not be wacked out from hormones or anything. They should realize that. I mean, they were teenagers once, too.
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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 8:29 pm
Maybe parents don't want teens to have sex, but want them to have kids in the future, so they'd be grandparents.
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Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 8:03 pm
((nice to see you Illuminescence))
You're probably right, but I have 4 older brothers and sisters. They're all married and 2 of them are pregnant. The other 2 couples are panning to in the next year or 2. I doubt they need anymore grandkids. Besides, you just end up wasting your money on them anyway. I suppose that's the point of grandkids, though.
I wish they'd just accept that I'm not going to be getting married or having kids or having sex at all EVER. They'll start to realize that I'm serous after a while. Hopefully they come to that realization soon, though.
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