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Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 9:57 pm

Okay. This is awkward to say just sometimes I feel like a creeper. When I read some this guilds stuff it turns me on and I end up ya know. Masturbating. Just is awkward normally I would keep this to myself. But, what the hell it's the guild.

Then other question. Okay, I didn't masturbate for like 2 weeks. I finally started again and been doing it like last 3 or so days. But, I feel like Masturbating just ain't doing it for me no more. In like few hours my mind is straight back on sex.

Is there a way to get rid of this? Or should I just have sex? What do I need? D: It's driving me crazy especially since are air conditioning is messed up so masturbating makes me gross and sweaty. D:

Posted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 6:51 am

To your #1, I hadn't really thought about that, but it doesn't bother me. To each their own. 3nodding If someone reads what you said and it bothers them, they can always ask you to please stop or to leave them out of it.

Hmm... maybe some new techniques are in order, or something different that can help keep you interested in it? As for cooling off if your air conditioner is messed up, try keeping a cool cloth or towel nearby for when you are done, so you can wipe yourself off and clean off any sweat.

I don't recommend going out to have sex (unless you have a partner) just because you're not interested in masturbation anymore right now.

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Posted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 9:48 am

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Okay. This is awkward to say just sometimes I feel like a creeper. When I read some this guilds stuff it turns me on and I end up ya know. Masturbating. Just is awkward normally I would keep this to myself. But, what the hell it's the guild.

Meh, it's normal to get turned on when people are talking about sex.

Kojima Shiro

Is there a way to get rid of this?

It's normal for masturbation to lose some magic after a while. You can try giving it another break, spicing it up with porn, buying a toy, etc.

Kojima Shiro

Or should I just have sex?

Only if you feel ready for it, have done your homework on it, and are prepared for it.

Kojima Shiro

What do I need?

Before having sex you should ideally:
-Know about STDs and how to protect yourself
-Have condoms and access to more condoms
-Know the difference between pregnancy facts and pregnancy myths
-Have a way to get to a doctor or clinic if you ever do think you have an STD
-Feel ready
-Feel comfortable with sex, your body, and your partner
-Be able to communicate with your partner and doctor

If you're a girl, you should also:
-See an ob-gyn
-Get birth control
-Get regular paps
-Have a safe way to get to the doctor regularly

Posted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 12:48 pm

Everything has pretty much been covered. Just wanted to share my opinion that it doesn't bother me at all that reading things in the guild turns you on, even if it leads to masturbation. As Lorien said, it's normal to get turned on when you read sexual things. It happens to me, too. No need to feel guilty.

If masturbation isn't a good substitute anymore, sex might help. But don't just jump into sex because you're having urges.

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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 3:03 pm

As everyone else said, getting turned on reading sex stories is more than common.

As for your sex question, I believe that you shouldn't be having sex because you're bored with masturbation, it should be because you feel you're ready, you want to take a relationship to the next level, you're healthy and comfortable with possibly having casual sex with different partners (in case you're not in a relationship), etc. not because you're bored of what you're doing.

Try different techniques, you won't need to spend any money.

Water (especially good since you're annoyed with your sweating) -
The shower, bath, pools, hot tubs, etc.
The jets, splashing water, doing the basic only underwater, shower hose, faucet, etc.

Trying different fabrics -
Satin/Polyester, cotton, faux fur, wool, synthetics, etc.
Drag them over your privates, rub yourself with them, hump them, etc.

Trying different household items (Nothing sharp, sanitize them first!) -
Vibrating tooth brushes/body, back, or foot massagers. etc., small sandwich bags with lotion, anything else you can think of.
Place the vibrating item on your body and try out different techniques you might like, you should understand the sandwich bag idea.
I've heard of toilet paper rolls being inserted over your p***s and shaking it so it hits the sides.

You really just need to get creative, it's common to get bored with the same old masturbation day in day out. Try watching something on the computer, watching a sex scene you might like in a movie. Explore the things you like. Masturbation shouldn't be something you consider boring.

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