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 Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 11:43 am
since i came out to myself i expected to feel different, maybe even a little.
i haven't noticed any change in myself at all. but what gets me is people have started to act differently aound me.
like i know this girl, natalie, who always says hi to me and smiles at me.
my "friend" randomly told her i was bi and suddenly she starts avoiding me and not even acknowledging me....
can anyone explain what's going on?! i don't understand....
i haven't changed...
i'm not mean to her...
so, what's going on?
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:11 pm
Well...Two things could have happened that I can think of..
First,it could be that she liked you as more than a friend,so when she found out,she got mad or whatever.That's what happened to my friend when Jess found out he was gay.
Secondly...I don't know why,but some people just change completly when you tell them...Chey won't even look at me anymore since she found out. sad
It's rough.
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:39 pm
jibberish Well...Two things could have happened that I can think of..
First,it could be that she liked you as more than a friend,so when she found out,she got mad or whatever.That's what happened to my friend when Jess found out he was gay.
Secondly...I don't know why,but some people just change completly when you tell them...Chey won't even look at me anymore since she found out. sad
It's rough. but i don't understand....
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:42 pm
lovepooky but i don't understand....
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:47 pm
how can someone's opinion of you change like nothing at all?
how can you judge someone before you know anything about them?
how can you treat someone like this?!
i need to join a homophobe's guild. i want some answers
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 2:47 pm
o.o =? frankly i don't get it some people make it a big deal because unconciously they put labels on things so they understand umm... how they were brought up @.@ maybe she liked you umm...to me there shouldn't even have to be labels but o well
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 3:03 pm
Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. Which is why I want to drop my dad out of my life.
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 6:02 pm
i can sorta understand, one summera ferind told me she was a lesbian, then i sorta liked her. i just started to get distant from her, i was trying to not haev to think if i was not stright. the idea can freak u out =/.
not sayin what i did was right, but it was teh only thing i could think to do at the time.
i guess i sorta thought her her diffrently after she told me....so i was being the mean one O_o....-.-; great
lol, while me and her are somewhat good freinds now, agine, trough e-mail since she moved to manatoba *sits comfertbly in house in bristh columbia XD*
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 11:29 am
Well your "friend" not naming any names *cough* Matty Griffas *cough* is one hell of a idiot for trying to make a big deal out of a little thing, look at me I'm bi, he won't tell anyone cause I think he's scared of me. An Natilie needs to get used to it then she'll come around.
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2005 12:12 pm
Because the human mind is a very, very stupid instrument.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 1:49 pm
Quixotic Virtuoso Because the human mind is a very, very stupid instrument. Why do we have minds?
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 1:49 pm
I grew up in an environment in which I knew plenty of gay/lesbian adults, so if all seemed natural to me. A friend of my parents (who I also think of as a good friend even though she's almost 30 years older) recently got married to her partner. When I found out that she was lesbian at the age of about 8, I didn't even think twice. That makes it hard for me to imagine how people can be like that.
I recently began questioning my sexuality, and I'm pretty sure that I'm bi. Stories like this are starting to get to me more, because I'm afraid that I'll never be able to sell anyone.
Now that I think about it, what I said in the 1st paragraph could work either way. I don't think twice because I grew up around people that don't, but other people find it bad because they grew up around people that feel that way. So I just don't know.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 3:38 pm
Legato5 Quixotic Virtuoso Because the human mind is a very, very stupid instrument. Why do we have minds? Because human beings are extremely intelligent and adaptable.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:15 pm
insane-like i can sorta understand, one summera ferind told me she was a lesbian, then i sorta liked her. i just started to get distant from her, i was trying to not haev to think if i was not stright. the idea can freak u out =/.
*Reaches through her computer monitor,grabbing Pwan from where he sits at his computer,and gives him a bearhug*
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Posted: Sat Feb 26, 2005 5:47 pm
You dont want to sleep with the wrong gender
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