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Resolved, thank you.

Prince Nathan

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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 12:56 am

Issue resolved.

Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 3:01 am

All you can do is talk to her about it and see what's going on. Seeing as how you're dating her, you do technically have a right to know (to a degree). If she refuses to tell you, well, then I guess you can decide whether or not it's worth dating someone who won't tell you the truth about something. neutral

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Akhakhu

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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 8:44 am

For the guys who messaged you, they are just immature and very bored idiots. You are best off just blocking them and not responding when they try to contact you.

You may want to try to "one up them" in a conversation or whatever, but it's honestly not worth it. All you will end up doing is either just getting frustrated (best case scenario) or getting someone hurt (worst case). I remember when I was in High School and some "friends" from my fiance's school contacted me (not really friends, one of them hung out around my fiance, but he hated him). They were being retarted (much like this) and I ended up saying something that pissed them off a little too much. End result, my fiance was beaten up by about 10 guys the next day at school. So yeah, idiots are idiots and you can't successfully argue with them. So just leave it lest something bad happen.

As for your girlfriend, I don't really know what the nature of your relationship is, but it doesn't seem like it's a particularly communicative one. You have to know that a long distance relationship (I'm assuming yours is from what you've mentioned) cannot possibly be happy and successful without much more openness than "a guy." It also won't be happy and successful without 100% trust. It may last without both of these, but it will be rife with problems.

I would suggest just talking to her (calmly!) and explain that "a guy" is a bad answer. Tell her that you don't think anything is going on or anything like that, you are just interested because he was talking to you. The least she could do is tell you how she knows him.

Best of luck to you smile

Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 11:43 am

I just got off the phone with my girlfriend, she confirmed that the guy really was this preston that she had talked to. She didn't say much else other than, "i don't know why preston would do that, he's not like that"

She also said to just block him and not worry about it and that she would talk to him.

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Nikolita
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 1:07 pm

Personally, I'd wait until AFTER she'd talked to him before blocking him, but that's just me. ninja

Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 2:31 pm

I had like the same problem.

My boyfriend put up his Myspace and a few days after that I got a message from a girl in Washington (He lives in North Carolina) and she was telling me all this stuff. One of the main things was that he asked her for pictures of her in her underwear. Keep in mind, she's only 15, he's 20. So, me and him talked it over and he denied it all. We came to the conclusion she was just jealous that he wasn't leaving me for her.

Well, about a month after this, I visited him to meet his family (the first girlfriend to do so, so its very serious)... And while he was at work, he told me to get online so I could talk to him. And about an hour till he got off work, he told me to look for his senior portraits. And, since I couldn't find the folder I went into the SEARCH. I typed in SAM and it turned out the girl didn't lie. I found the pictures of her in her underwear, 4 or 5 of them in fact.

We're still together, with some strain on our relationship. But, I just have to keep in mind that If he were cheating on me, he wouldn't drive 8 thousand miles (round trip) for me and my son.

Good luck with your relationship.

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PrinceTimothy

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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 6:18 pm

I think that the best idea would be to give it up. If it is a long distance relationship, those rarely work, and it seems that trust is an issue.

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 5:50 pm

One of the reasons that I'm glad my bf isn't internet savy. I don't mind him looking at porn, but doing something like that, would rub me the wrong way.