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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 8:29 pm
So about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend and I had intercourse. Before finishing I came out of her. I was wearing a condom as well. After coming out of her and ejaculating semen I noticed there was white stuff on my pubic hair. It didn't look like anything from me and didn't have the same texture. Semen is more gross and stringy/sticky. What was on my hair was more like white watery thin paste. Her period is 2 days late compared to last month. Should I be worried?
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 8:36 pm
That white stuff may very well be her fluids in your hair. The chances of her being pregnant with you pulling out AND wearing a condom are slim.
Her period may be late due to stress. All kinds of things can effect a woman's period. If she's truly concerned, have her wait until her period it a week or so late and take a test.
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 9:43 pm
Preston is right.
Pregnancy is possible any time you have sex. But if you pull out and use a condom as directed, then the chance is pretty small.
The fluid on you was probably discharge. Every v****a has discharge, but there's usually a lot more when the woman is in the mood. That acts as a natural lubricant.
Being two days late is not a big deal. The human body rarely runs exactly like clockwork. When a woman is due for her period is more like an estimate, not a guarantee. So it may be a few days earlier or later than expected. And stress can certainly make it late too.
So overall, it doesn't sound like you two have much to worry about. But taking a pregnancy test wouldn't hurt, at least to put your minds at ease. She also might want to see an ob-gyn to talk about her hormonal options. Using a hormonal method of birth control in addition to condoms would give you two even better protection.
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 8:19 pm
Well now we are 3 days late sad .
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 8:43 pm
Anbu Soran Well now we are 3 days late sad . Still normal. smile In April my always-regular period was 2 weeks late. I thought I was pregnant too, and then found out that it was just stress once my period came.
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 9:25 pm
Being three days late is not a big deal. Like Niko said, even girls who are usually very regular can end up having some really wacky periods every once in a while.
I'm usually very regular too, but I was 8 or 9 days late last month. That's just the way it works. Our bodies don't stress about calendars, they just do things when they're ready to.
And don't forget, if she is stressing about being pregnant, that can make her be even later that she would have been otherwise. So if you two unsure or anxious, have her take a test. That's the only way to know for sure right now.
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 4:11 am
LorienLlewellyn Being three days late is not a big deal. Like Niko said, even girls who are usually very regular can end up having some really wacky periods every once in a while. I'm usually very regular too, but I was 8 or 9 days late last month. That's just the way it works. Our bodies don't stress about calendars, they just do things when they're ready to. And don't forget, if she is stressing about being pregnant, that can make her be even later that she would have been otherwise. So if you two unsure or anxious, have her take a test. That's the only way to know for sure right now. She isn't as worried as I am. And how accurate will the test be?
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 8:38 am
If she's worried, then she's probably causing her period to be late by stressing about. I'd say wait about another..four days and have her take a test if her period doesn't come. Home pregnancy tests are fairly accurate if her period is actually late. Some are better than others, so she should read on the box to see the lowest level of HcG (the pregnancy hormone) that a test can detect.
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 9:06 am
Anbu Soran She isn't as worried as I am. And how accurate will the test be? Like Preston said, the tests are usually accurate once a girl misses her period. So she could test accurately now assuming she was right about when her period was expected and actually is late right now. But some people test too soon or they were wrong about when they expected their period. And that means they can get a negative result whether they're pregnant or not. So there is a good chance she can test accurately today, but you could give it another four days or so if you want to make doubly sure. If she gets a negative result but still does not have a period a week later, she can try testing again. Or she can visit the doctor for a blood test; those are accurate about a week sooner than urine tests.
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 7:46 pm
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 8:56 pm
Like we said, that doesn't necessarily mean anything. Girls can be weeks or even months late even if they're not pregnant. So there is no need to post every day that she's late. Just have her take a pregnancy test.
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Posted: Tue May 25, 2010 7:13 am
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 6:37 pm
She still hasn't had her period, but she took a pregnancy test that we got from walmart and it was a negative. smile
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 9:23 pm
If she has access to birth control, you two should look into it. I get a year's supply for free every time I get my annual gyno checkup. And it makes my period come the same day every single month.
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 2:30 am
The white stuff was probably her on you, I used to get all over my boyfriend. Might be worth looking into birth control if you two are going to be having regular sex and she doesn't want to constantly freak out about pregnancy.
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