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 Posted: Sat May 08, 2010 2:04 pm
This is off topic, but.. eh...
See, I havnt seen my dad in about 10 months. He's had many chances to see me, he kept saying, "What kind of candy do you want me to bring," or,"We'll have a picnic in the playground and it'll be just like old times, okay?". But they were all fake promises. He never came. I always set my alarm and sit for hours by the window. But he would always call saying his car broke down or his ride didnt work out. Sometimes I would lock myself in my room and cry for hours. But I kept getting less and less surprised when he called to give his lame excuses. Then I didnt even get up anymore to even check, because I knew he wouldn't come. But now my dad wants to try and meet us through our Nana.
My question is:
Should I trust him? Should I try and give him a second chance, at the risk of getting hurt again?
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Posted: Sat May 08, 2010 2:25 pm
my friend Taylor went thorough the same thing as you
where her dad kept saying he would see her and never did.
it went on like this for a while a long while.
but she kept giving him chances and kept gettin hurt.
til finally he did stick to his word and she finally got to see him.
in my case i never get to see my dad anymore even
though he has kept saying he'd see me and never does.
about 2 years ago he tried to say we could see eachother
through my uncle and i didn't want to get hurt so i said no.
now i gave up on him and i do regreat it.
but my friend Taylor hung in there and it paid off.
so i do think you should trust him because it might work out
in the end.
and if you say now you might wonder wat would of happen if you said yes.
i hope i answered ur question. (:
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Posted: Sat May 08, 2010 4:31 pm
That's an interesting position you're in...
Uhm. I'm not sure, I wouldn't fully put my trust in him...
But I'd still wait, and trust that he may or may not come. Don't get over excited about it, but don't brush it off either.
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 5:31 am
EDIT-
I've decided to give him a chance. I'm finally talking to him again.
He's sent me my Birthday present from last year. He said he's sorry that he never got the chance to come and see me. So, yes, I've decided to give him another chance.
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