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 Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2010 7:10 pm
Okay wellll.. This is going to take a lot of explaining for you guys to understand it.. So here we go!
Well, as you guys know, my fiance and I are kaput. Been so for just over a year now. And I am still wanting a child. But sadly, I have not met anyone who I exactly want to become married to. Other than someone in another state.. But who knows if we'd even be compatible together.. ANYWAYS!
I do have a friend with who I've slept with. Oi vay. He's a great guy, he really is, and he wants kids too. He's married, [I know right?] But his wife can't have kids without a series of surgeries she's unwilling to get. And she doesn't want to adopt, because, as she says, she doesn't wanna take care of someone elses kid.
Now, my friend and I have spoken about having kids together, but I don't really know if I want to be a single mother.. I grew up with a father, and my life turned out so much better than my friends without fathers. I want my baby to have a dad, and he wouldn't really be able to be a father to my baby, in the sense of taking the kid for days, being in the kids life as it's father figure..
So, do you see my dilema? I want a kid soo bad.. But I'm so afraid.
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Posted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 6:01 pm
AlannaDarkenmoon Okay wellll.. This is going to take a lot of explaining for you guys to understand it.. So here we go!
Well, as you guys know, my fiance and I are kaput. Been so for just over a year now. And I am still wanting a child. But sadly, I have not met anyone who I exactly want to become married to. Other than someone in another state.. But who knows if we'd even be compatible together.. ANYWAYS!
I do have a friend with who I've slept with. Oi vay. He's a great guy, he really is, and he wants kids too. He's married, [I know right?] But his wife can't have kids without a series of surgeries she's unwilling to get. And she doesn't want to adopt, because, as she says, she doesn't wanna take care of someone elses kid.
Now, my friend and I have spoken about having kids together, but I don't really know if I want to be a single mother.. I grew up with a father, and my life turned out so much better than my friends without fathers. I want my baby to have a dad, and he wouldn't really be able to be a father to my baby, in the sense of taking the kid for days, being in the kids life as it's father figure..
So, do you see my dilema? I want a kid soo bad.. But I'm so afraid.
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